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Angel79

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Would you see this client?
« on: 09 August 2011, 11:40:11 pm »
Hi

This forum is so useful!  And now I have a booking request I'd like some opinions on...

I've had a several texts today from a guy in Wimbledon, initially wanting to book me for 3 hours and then asking if I'll help him fill out his fantasy.  It turns out he wants regular meetings with the theme of 'mystery fuck':  "one where we don't talk or really see each other.  You would always enter my place or a hotel room and you would find a blindfold there and the money.  You would put on the blindfold, turn off all lights, get undressed and wait wherever instructed.  I will then come and find you, make love to you and cum all over you a few times and then leave after a certain amount of time.  You would get yourself dressed and sorted and go back home, with rosy cheeks"

My response to him was that, although a horny idea, it would be a big risk for me and I would want a 'normal' meet with him first, which he said would defeat the object.  Ultimately I said I'm not prepared to meet someone I never see (and I also pointed out that I need to be in control of protection etc).  He has since asked if I'm worried he's a minger, or old!  I haven't replied to that yet.

So I'm wondering how other girls would respond and if anyone would feel comfortable with this arrangement, with a new client?  I've lived in London for a few months now and hardly had any clients (literally - 3 so far, in over 2 months!).  I can only do outcalls but I've also done 2 hotel dates in Docklands and not had a single client on either day/night!  (I have no idea what I'm doing wrong - I'm not unattractive, I have very good feedback on AW and my prices are about average - it's frustrating and depressing!)  So I'm running at a loss at the moment and reluctant to turn anything down for fear of not making my rent at the end of the month!  But I've had too many offers I wouldn't feel comfortable with, so I'd love to hear what your thoughts are on this...

Angel xx
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Coty

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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #1 on: 09 August 2011, 11:43:06 pm »
Think I remember seeing this in another thread. Hopefully someone else will comment but my advice is DON'T DO IT!!!!

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Anika Mae

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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #2 on: 09 August 2011, 11:59:18 pm »
No no no, you're being totally reasonable and what he's asking isn't appropriate. The scenario is not that far off one of my fantasies, but it's the sort of thing you organise with the help of a trusted friend or something, not an offer you accept from a stranger. If I were to ever agree to it with a client it wouldn't be after a single normal meeting either; I'd need to know him quite well.
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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #3 on: 10 August 2011, 12:02:37 am »
I say don't do it, as well.

And, I'm another who only does outcalls. I MAYBE have three bookings a week. I've only been on a month, but my feeling is it's the same thing as the men who want to tie you up and blindfold you...that takes a great deal of trust. And, if he's a decent sort than his fantasy would be JUST as fulfilled by meeting you "vanilla" once and then proving himself worthy of his mystery fuck the next time. I mean, it's not like you're his wife of 30 years! It would/could still be scintillating... My heeby-jeebies radar goes up bigtime on this...
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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #4 on: 10 August 2011, 12:10:17 am »
By any chance has this guy asked for your chinese horoscope thingy?

I would say quite straightly if you have to ask the question about doing it then dont do it.

If you are not comfortable with then say no.  ;)
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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #5 on: 10 August 2011, 08:53:30 am »
Does he come from Scotland, flying down on business?  I had this exact one a few years ago.  Fantasist.
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« Reply #6 on: 10 August 2011, 10:06:18 am »
I doubt that it's real too, but these sort of "You have to trust me" scenarios, more usually involving bondage, can be done if you bring a friend. Obviously they'd need to be paid too and it's a good idea to get a deposit towards the start of the email exchanges to get rid of TWs.
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Angel79

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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #7 on: 10 August 2011, 10:16:10 am »
Thanks very much for your advice, it's so helpful.  It's easy to get carried away and talked into thinking something like this could be OK to do.  I wanted to say good luck finding a girl who would be prepared to do this, but I wondered how many girls might say yes.

He didn't ask about my chinese horoscope and he didn't mention coming down from Scotland.  He said he lives in Wimbledon.

I feel much more confident about saying No to these kind of requests now, thanks again

Great advice Richard, thanks!

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ladyjennaj

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Re: Would you see this client?
« Reply #8 on: 10 August 2011, 10:10:31 pm »
I would personally advise against it. There are alot of odd fantasies around, but this has to be one of the oddest  :-\
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