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Jan10

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #15 on: 30 June 2013, 08:22:46 am »
I think most of these clients turn up early because they don't plan the time it will take for them to get from A-B, they are excited about the booking, they just don't think it matters to us what time they turn up. Then there are those that turn up hoping that they will get extra time for less money. As with most things to do with escorting there are clients that will just ignore any rules we make and do things their way.
It's best not to give out the full address until their time is approaching that way they can't turn nasty and pester you because they have to wait.

Some will turn back. It's not nice that you have lost a booking because of a client behaving like that but that's the way things go in this job I suppose. Maybe the client will think twice before turning up for a booking early and expecting to be seen. I don't think they would turn up thirty minutes early for doctor/dentist/hairdresser appointment and demand to be seen so why expect to do that for an escort booking? Once the booking has taken place maybe explain the reason why they should not turn up so early for a booking.

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #16 on: 30 June 2013, 08:43:42 am »
The bonus of working from a block of flats with a intercom that I switch off is wonderfull  I've had a few turn up early but as they can't get in I don't sweat it

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #17 on: 01 July 2013, 09:49:59 pm »
Being at times a cynical moo, I also realised that some clients that came really early still seemed to want to stay till the initial appointment ed time thus trying to get a lot of free extra time  ::)

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #18 on: 02 July 2013, 01:59:51 pm »
I refuse to see them again and I never leave feedback. Nothing makes me more mad that people turning up early!  :FF

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #19 on: 02 July 2013, 03:14:46 pm »
I hate when they are running late, but turning up early is way way more annoying and stressful. I don't know what's going on, but since a few weeks every single one has turned up early, some as early as 30 minutes! Claiming they are in the area, and could I meet now, putting me on edge. This is really getting on my nerves. I almost never can meet even 5 minutes earlier- not that I see 10 guys a day, one after another, but 3pm is 3pm, and not 2.52pm. I recently had someone arriving on my street 10 minutes early for an 8 AM incall. In 10 minutes, especially at such early hour, I can put my makeup on whilst drinking my morning coffee.
I always tell them, that THE EARLIEST i can meet is xxx time.
Most of them are ok to wait a few minutes (but still, it's very stressful for me) and some get really upset that I am not ready for them, and suddenly want to cancel because they have to be back somewhere by xxx time.
Does this happen to you?


They turn up quite a few times early like this morning the last who was 20 minutes early at 8.40am. I was still doing my make up at that time. So asked him to wait five minutes as know that many just go on their way. I don't hang around on the phone if companies keep me there on hold for long either.   I just hang up thinking that my life is far to important to be wasted. 

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #20 on: 24 February 2016, 02:40:59 pm »
I had a client ring 1 hour early yesterday telling me he'd arrived and today just had one 45 minutes early! I'm watching eastenders on catchup ffs! I don't mind 10 mins early, piss off and arrive at the agreed time!
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« Reply #21 on: 24 February 2016, 02:46:52 pm »
Ohh I just hate that when they arrive that early. What the heck do they think the appointment time is for?

Or what about the clients you've asked to confirm at an agreed time they ring up at said time and say hello I'm here! Wtf.

Nb. Never disturb Nia on her EastEnders catch up day
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Nia Hope

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #22 on: 24 February 2016, 02:48:16 pm »
Ohh I just hate that when they arrive that early. What the heck to they think the appointment time is for?

Or what about the clients you've asked to confirm I can agree time they ring up at said time and say hello I'm here! Wtf.

Nb. Never disturb Nia on her EastEnders catch up day
I can't relax and enjoy eastenders while I know he's waiting! He doesn't know my door number though x
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« Reply #23 on: 24 February 2016, 05:39:10 pm »
Being at times a cynical moo, I also realised that some clients that came really early still seemed to want to stay till the initial appointment ed time thus trying to get a lot of free extra time  ::)

I think the do that craftily on purpose too. I always make sure I double check the time when this happens.

Earliest I've had one turn up is 20 mins but I do get some text & ask if it's OK to come earlier. The ones who assume they can turn up when they like make me angry. I like the ones who text "I'm early so I'll just wait for you, let me know when you are ready" true gentlemen those types & they arrive earlier to be on time. (If that makes sense)

meetingdiversity

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« Reply #24 on: 25 February 2016, 12:31:19 am »
When they are early if ready as get changed on thier arrival is ok. I used to stress over them coming too early but am more relaxed about things now. :) Clients will be. I do my best to not let things get to me any more.  But if they are early before my start time at 10am I'll ask them kindly to wait.

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #25 on: 25 February 2016, 10:10:56 am »
I'd rather have a client arrive earlier, than late BUT I don't like being put under pressure to see them. One trick I've come across is client asks for a particular time, say 11am, I can't do that time but can see them at 1pm. They accept 1pm then on the day confirm asking for the 11am, when I can't do that they cancel.

Other examples have been someone asking for a time earlier than I'm prepared to start, agreeing a later time, then arriving at the earlier time - when I can't see them they cancel.

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #26 on: 25 February 2016, 10:33:39 am »
It doesn't bother me when they show up early but I never let them in until the time of their booking.
Hi Nova, I'm here!
That's great, see you at [your appointment time].

Jezabel

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« Reply #27 on: 25 February 2016, 10:44:33 am »
Yeh but theres early and early. 45 minutes or an hour as Nia said, ridiculous. I'm fine with a bit early or more if they let me know. If they don't let me know, tough. My world doesn't revolve around them, I do have a life, other appointments etc...

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #28 on: 25 February 2016, 10:59:40 am »
Just had an early he rang to ask luckily I was just about ready.

For a long while I got ready 30 mins ahead think I will carry on with that view best to get them done and dusted but it IS annoying.

He was a real gem (being sarcastic) in that he parked directly outside my home when I specifically stated to park around the corner and to WALK UP for discretion in capitals!!

Had one like that the other week don't they think??  It is like advertising what I do if I have guys park outside!  I got him to move.

Anyway I am so glad it was over, small dick, creepy eyes, loud booming voice, and full of thick hair down below.

Definitely one to avoid for the future!!  So relieved most aren't anywhere near as annoying as him......

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Re: Clients turning up early
« Reply #29 on: 25 February 2016, 11:22:14 am »
Just had an early he rang to ask luckily I was just about ready.

For a long while I got ready 30 mins ahead think I will carry on with that view best to get them done and dusted but it IS annoying.

He was a real gem (being sarcastic) in that he parked directly outside my home when I specifically stated to park around the corner and to WALK UP for discretion in capitals!!

Had one like that the other week don't they think??  It is like advertising what I do if I have guys park outside!  I got him to move.

Anyway I am so glad it was over, small dick, creepy eyes, loud booming voice, and full of thick hair down below.

Definitely one to avoid for the future!!  So relieved most aren't anywhere near as annoying as him......
My early guy yesterday didn't follow instructions either, he's walking up and down the street shouting into his phone "What number you at? I can't find it" I nearly told him to forget it, he turned out to be a lovely client. If they're ridiculously early in don't understand why they have to ring and tell us? Just ring 5 mins before to get the door number, as soon as I know they're waiting I can't relax
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