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RedH

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Clients that like to watch
« on: 11 June 2024, 08:26:49 pm »
I’ve seen this topic mentioned a few times but I don’t know if there is a particular thread dealing specifically with this.

I’ve had a client say that he wants to watch while I have sex with someone else.

I’m not sure what to charge for something like this. Does anyone have any advice?

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #1 on: 11 June 2024, 10:23:56 pm »
I'd charge the exact same rate, they pay for my time  8)

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #2 on: 12 June 2024, 06:25:52 am »
Yes I'd charge my usual rate, it's still a service I'm providing.

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #3 on: 12 June 2024, 11:27:48 am »
I'd take a deposit, a hefty one if this is a new client especially. And I'd keep an eye on him at all times. As a matter of interest who would the "other person" be?

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #4 on: 12 June 2024, 03:55:33 pm »
I have done this with some clients and a male escort but the clients sometimes want to join in so I definitely charge them either way.

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #5 on: 12 June 2024, 04:33:02 pm »
I'd charge the exact same rate, they pay for my time  8)

Yes I'd charge my usual rate, it's still a service I'm providing.

I’m surprised about it being the same rate. Depending on how you look at it wouldn’t that mean that either the other person is getting to have sex with me for free or the client is getting to watch for free?

I'd take a deposit, a hefty one if this is a new client especially. And I'd keep an eye on him at all times. As a matter of interest who would the "other person" be?

I’m not sure who the other person would be. I don’t think he had someone in mind so probably just a male escort. We didn’t really get into the detail. I suppose I should have but I just told him I would think about it.


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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #6 on: 12 June 2024, 04:42:48 pm »
I have done this with some clients and a male escort but the clients sometimes want to join in so I definitely charge them either way.

Do you charge the same regardless of if they just watch or want to join in?
Threesomes aren’t a service I currently provide but I have considered.



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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #7 on: 12 June 2024, 04:57:36 pm »
I find these type of enquiries are not genuine, just fantasists. I ignore them.

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #8 on: 12 June 2024, 07:02:11 pm »
I find these type of enquiries are not genuine, just fantasists. I ignore them.

Normally I do the same but this happened when I was actually with the client. I really don’t like being unprepared for things like this.

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #9 on: 12 June 2024, 07:10:15 pm »
I’m surprised about it being the same rate. Depending on how you look at it wouldn’t that mean that either the other person is getting to have sex with me for free or the client is getting to watch for free?

I agree. I'd expect to be paid double; watching is still participating in the booking and if the other bloke was a male escort I'd expect him to want paying as well, so it's going to get expensive.

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« Reply #10 on: 13 June 2024, 09:09:53 am »
Depending on who the third person is because I am assuming a partner or very good friend "cough"  might be happy to do it purely for the fun  then certainly double your fee to the client at least. If a male pro is booked then the client has to foot the whole bill (your double fee plus the male escort's). A client may be shocked at the cost but you would be providing a very special kind of experience out of the normal range.

That would be how I would do it anyway 🙂



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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #11 on: 14 June 2024, 11:49:43 am »
I agree. I'd expect to be paid double; watching is still participating in the booking and if the other bloke was a male escort I'd expect him to want paying as well, so it's going to get expensive.

Depending on who the third person is because I am assuming a partner or very good friend "cough"  might be happy to do it purely for the fun  then certainly double your fee to the client at least.

Thanks for the advice. That’s pretty much what I was thinking but its still nice to have it confirmed.

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Re: Clients that like to watch
« Reply #12 on: 14 June 2024, 03:15:20 pm »
I get asked all the time about their ‘friend’ wants to watch /join in , it’s funny how hardly hear back when I say they have to pay the price that’s shown on my profile for each person that’s going to be there during the booking, even if they don’t want to join in . I feel I’m absolutely within my right to be charging for a double booking