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sammy s

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Clients taking forever to cum
« on: 03 July 2013, 06:57:16 pm »
I've been escorting for years now but never know how to handle the situations where regular clients (who are otherwise lovely) take forever to cum.
I've had them in the past but only have one at the moment. He came to see me today for 3 hours and I've never known anyone to have as much stamina as him!
He literally just wanted a blow job for 3 hours straight with no other foreplay. He didn't even want me to give him a handjob. He paid ?350 to be there and be books me very regularly so I don't feel like I can be too vocal about being bored to death giving a blow job for so long. He seems to hold off on purpose.
I know that I should either just not go through with the booking or just get on with it as he's paying good money and its not like he's asking for anything too obscure. It's definitely not an easy career though and I feel absolutely shattered to the core after that booking. My poor jaw

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #1 on: 03 July 2013, 07:05:19 pm »
Use a toy on the tip of his cock and if says anything just tell him you get excited at seeing the reaction.  Works wonders and saves on the jaw.
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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #2 on: 03 July 2013, 08:14:19 pm »
Fan as I am of going down on people, three hours would be enough to put anyone off doing it ever again. Just because he's paying you, doesn't mean you have to do what he asks...

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #3 on: 03 July 2013, 08:50:43 pm »
3hours of non stop oral my god your neck must be made of steel as mine would give out after about 30minutes.  I would also probably fall asleep with the boredom.  He probably chooses oral only as he would cum much quicker than he does now as for osme men oral does not arouse them as much as hands, boobs or sex.

I would say to him next time he tries to book that you would like to give him a full girlfriend experience as he will enjoy it so much more and that way you can enjoy being with him as well which will make the time together so much better.  If he says no then it is up to you if you want to see him again although personally I would tell him that I could no longer give him what he wants as I would dread his booking so much I would end up making myself feel ill.

I have also found when I do see clients like this I end up with burn out much quicker than I normally would as they are mentally torturous, not to mention the jaw pain
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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #4 on: 03 July 2013, 08:57:20 pm »
on page 2 of the thread linked above xw5's linked "College Callgirls Top Ten Tips to Get Him to Hurry the Hell Up and Cum Already" had some great ideas and a hilarious turn of phrase :-)  Also, if you allow clients to cum multiple times during a booking, maybe remind him he can cum more than once. If he's the type who feels the need to try and set an endurance record every time, he'll most likely take this as a challenge to cum as soon as he can, take a break, then try to get hard and go again. Even if he succeeds, you'll get to take a rest before round 2. I find with most guys it's either their nipples, balls or asshole that's the magic button to make them cum quicker from oral. Failing all 3, if my jaws locking up it's time to switch to a handjob with baby oil

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #5 on: 03 July 2013, 11:29:34 pm »
I once had a client, he wouldn't cum. It got to the point, where I was just looking at him with annoyance, slithering around in ecstasy, he was having the time of his life. I remember rolling my eyes but to him, he thought he it was some incredible move he was making, even prolonging it more 0_o

3 hours???? How did you not end up without a bruised mouth?

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #6 on: 04 July 2013, 01:31:07 am »
I could not handle 30 minutes!

I'm wondering if you are going very slow and gentle?

I'd not be able to cope, would drain me, you do need to say something, like the suggestion of saying maybe he should let you show him something different to slightly spice things.

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #7 on: 04 July 2013, 10:03:43 am »
Hi
Thanks for the replies.
Without sounding big headed blow jobs have always been my speciality and I can make most of my clients cum within a minute or two from one.
This bloke only has one testicle and told me he has struggled all of his life to cum. He said wanking at home can take him hours too. I was sympathetic and wanted to give him what he wanted as he was paying a lot of money and does so on a very regular basis (his bookings alone pay for my rent and bills) but after an hour of having my hands behind my back and sucking him off (obviously with lots of little stops to take breathers) I was at my wits end. I kept trying to slyly give him a handjob and asked if he wanted to use a toy or if he wanted to wank whilst I spoke dirty to him etc but he was having none of it and was adamant that he just wanted a blow job with no touching or speaking (he spoke about his wife a lot at the start of the booking so I'm guessing he feels guilty and doesn't want a GFE). So I soldiered on but another hour later he still hasn't cum and I was completely out of energy and starting to get really pissed off. I was sucking him hard and fast like he requested and he kept saying how incredible it was but my jaw and mouth were completely numb by now so I was having to resort to really slow sucking by now. I made a few jokes about having a numb jaw and he just smiled and didn't seem to take the hint at all.
I emailed him last night as I am completely dreading his next booking on Monday and I told him the truth about how unrealistic it is to expect a blow job for such a long time. He hasn't replied so I may have lost my best customer, but there's no way I can go through a booking like that again. Even doing a blow job for a few minutes can be hard work!

I've also had a client in the past who would penetrate me and then just lie motionless on top of me for ages making loads of sex noises. If I tried to speed the process up by thrusting or moving my hips he'd start screaming at me to slow down as he didn't want to cum until the last second. Talk abou dullsville!

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #8 on: 04 July 2013, 10:09:00 am »
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I've also had a client in the past who would penetrate me and then just lie motionless on top of me for ages making loads of sex noises. If I tried to speed the process up by thrusting or moving my hips he'd start screaming at me to slow down as he didn't want to cum until the last second. Talk abou dullsville!

lol@motionless..... God, I wonder what was going through your mind!

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #9 on: 04 July 2013, 10:21:05 am »
I blame porn for a lot of our problems.   Let me explain.

With the advent of so much porn online many guys spend hours in front of the screen having a toss.  Now I have no problem with this as its their choice.  Where the problem comes in is when guys want penetration too and their bodies just wont move at the rate of knots that their wrists can.  :( ::)
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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #10 on: 04 July 2013, 11:05:22 am »
I blame porn for a lot of our problems.   Let me explain.

With the advent of so much porn online many guys spend hours in front of the screen having a toss.  Now I have no problem with this as its their choice.  Where the problem comes in is when guys want penetration too and their bodies just wont move at the rate of knots that their wrists can.  :( ::)

YY  Guys that  want to fuck in  ridiculous positions simply because they have seen it on Porn Hub  positions  that simply aren't possible to do unless your a Olympic  gold medal gymnastic   -   don't they realise that in porn thing that take 2 -3 to watch  mins might  actually take 2 hours ++ with lots of different stops to get everything right things are slowed down /speeded up  in porn

I explained this to to a client once  and he laughed and said he wondered why none of the escort that he met were able to do xx position  that he had seen in a porn clip ffs   



 

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #11 on: 04 July 2013, 11:40:39 am »
ha, totally agree with all points made.

iv had a guy stay for an hour without coming, 5 mins to i had to say - look, we need to finish you off. 10 mins later i had to tell him it wasnt gonna happen, sorry and i made him leave.

i personally wouldnt book mr 3 hour bj man again - that takes the piss

as for crazy positions - yeah i had a massive rough guy whos managed to completey wind me and bruise every inch of my body! seriously! its down right disresepectful if they dont seem considerate towards your likes and limitations.

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #12 on: 06 July 2013, 02:23:45 pm »
i had a client booked me for 2 days, as soon as i arrived at his hotel, he only want me to lick him.
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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #13 on: 06 July 2013, 02:38:43 pm »
Sammy if you know this client's habit and can't bear the thought of it why not tell him you would love to see him but prefer a shorter booking.  Money is not everything. Dreading a client arriving is not the best way to work and if he really loves being with you then he should compromise and have say, a 1.5 hour booking.

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Re: Clients taking forever to cum
« Reply #14 on: 06 July 2013, 06:56:34 pm »
I blame porn for a lot of our problems.   Let me explain.

With the advent of so much porn online many guys spend hours in front of the screen having a toss.  Now I have no problem with this as its their choice.  Where the problem comes in is when guys want penetration too and their bodies just wont move at the rate of knots that their wrists can.  :( ::)

I couldn't agree with you more !