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Gracious

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« Reply #15 on: 01 October 2016, 02:01:09 pm »
As most have already stated, its a very common problem. Theres 101 reasons why they cant stay hard: age, use of drugs, nerves, too much porn - there was even one guy who told me he got kicked in the balls when he was in a fight and struggles to get hard now.

Theres two other guys Ive seen who really surprised me - one is middle aged but he is fully aware that he struggles to get hard so we just fondle/foreplay throughout the booking and hes content with that. He isnt too bothered about whether he cums or not so it takes the pressure off the booking (its rare to find a man who isnt bothered about cumming!)

Then I met another guy and after performing OWO he was still very soft but he said he was ready to fuck so I should put the condom on hahah. I was like, no boo, your penis aint ready for that yet so I let him go down on me - secs later he came in his hand (didnt realise he was wanking himself off while eating me out) -but he wasnt even hard!!!  :o

Unless you provide a non sexual booking, most guys expect a big O but we arent robots - it aint going to happen on every single booking, moreso when we with a guy who struggles to get hard so dont put so much pressure on yourself and try to be a little creative to make their time just as enjoyable as if you have made them cum.
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« Reply #16 on: 01 October 2016, 03:19:58 pm »
Hiya ,
It seems to me that this thread is quite interesting and instructive for us all .
Unfortunately , I cannot add any feed-back drawn from my recent experience , because now I am only taking very long bookings , so who spends entire nights with me , always has plenty of opportunities to be stimulated by the situation and very very rarely shows erectile deficiencies ...  ;)
But , I'd like to remind you girls that nowadays the best selling medicines are Viagra & Cialis ...
I'd advise to keep a few of the most effective of those pills in your drawer or bag : in half an hour maximum they garantee a perfect hard-on , I can vouch they make miracles ...  :o
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« Reply #17 on: 01 October 2016, 04:49:58 pm »
I had a weird one recently, guess he was 60-65. One of those dicks that disappears completely when flaccid, but when harder it was thick but quite short, and sort of semi-hidden in his groin. He never got more than semi-hard, so we couldn't have sex, but as I was giving him a half-hearted handjob he suddenly came everywhere!

In other words, you don't necessarily need to be fully erect to come...
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« Reply #18 on: 01 October 2016, 05:01:08 pm »
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In other words, you don't necessarily need to be fully erect to come...

Indeed , it appears that in guys the penis ejaculation is only a consequence of the "mental cumming"  ::) ... hehe ... so I'm not surprised at all by ur reports of semi-erected dicks abundantly spurting their seeds ... I add though that sometimes the cock has a mind of his own , and gets fully hard in the most unlikely situations ...  ;D
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« Reply #19 on: 02 October 2016, 02:48:58 am »
Occupational hazard that we will sometimes have to deal with floppy useless cocks and micro-penises. All comes with the job along with dribbling RO and slobbering all over your face if you allow it.

It's astounding how many men have no clue how to fuck whether they are young or old, it's indiscriminate. As for ED most men that experience it see escorts as they believe we will be understanding and not humiliate them, as we are paid to do.
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« Reply #20 on: 02 October 2016, 09:46:52 am »
Quote from: colette on 01 October 2016, 03:19:58 pm

But , I'd like to remind you girls that nowadays the best selling medicines are Viagra & Cialis ...
I'd advise to keep a few of the most effective of those pills in your drawer or bag

Could someone inform us of the legality of handing one off viagra ( a prescription drug) to punters? It does worry me in case he happens to have a stroke afterwards.   I get to hear there's a much better one than Cialis.  Someone (a punter) told me (but I couldn't quite catch what it was) he tried all of these and compared the effects.    I'm not sure if it's a good idea to purchase it and offer it for free unless it's just one off and they get these themselves after that.   If someone becomes ill (e.g. stroke etc), I wouldn't like being part of his serious illness or death   :-\

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« Reply #21 on: 02 October 2016, 09:58:55 am »
Quote from: Teddy Bear on 02 October 2016, 02:48:58 am

 As for ED most men that experience it see escorts as they believe we will be understanding and not humiliate them, as we are paid to do.

I think it's a valid comment.  There are men who are willing to take cialis and see if it works and help improve the "relation" with escorts.  On the other end of spectrum, there are men, who are so paranoid if it may cause some untold damage if they take drugs bought off internet.  These punters might be thinking that escorts wouldn't notice their flaccidity as these punters got so used to being in that state for so long....they rarely interact with their wife and nobody takes any issues..

Not all punters are the same.  I also get to hear that some punters who have ED spend nearly a couple of hours chatting to / with escorts over a glass of wine with a minimum action...as clearly, "fucking" is seen as something unimportant or something too tedious for him to engage.   He's too civilised for that.  ;D

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« Reply #22 on: 02 October 2016, 12:04:56 pm »
Quote from: Luciexx on 02 October 2016, 09:46:52 am
Could someone inform us of the legality of handing one off viagra ( a prescription drug) to punters? It does worry me in case he happens to have a stroke afterwards.   I get to hear there's a much better one than Cialis.  Someone (a punter) told me (but I couldn't quite catch what it was) he tried all of these and compared the effects.    I'm not sure if it's a good idea to purchase it and offer it for free unless it's just one off and they get these themselves after that.   If someone becomes ill (e.g. stroke etc), I wouldn't like being part of his serious illness or death   :-\

It may even be illegal to give someone else a prescription-only medication - it's certainly not advisable.
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« Reply #23 on: 02 October 2016, 12:15:52 pm »
Even if medication would be helpful to our clients, I don't think it is our responsibility to provide it - it is their responsibility to have it prescribed. This approach would avoid all sorts of problems, such as side effects etc.

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« Reply #24 on: 02 October 2016, 03:07:56 pm »
Quote from: Kay on 02 October 2016, 12:04:56 pm
It may even be illegal to give someone else a prescription-only medication - it's certainly not advisable.

Yes, it is in the UK - it may not be where Colette is.

Either way, supplying somebody with a medication that affects things like blood pressure without knowing anything at all about their physical health or medical history would be so mind-bogglingly stupid and irresponsible I would hope anybody who had found their way here would have more sense.
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« Reply #25 on: 02 October 2016, 03:27:59 pm »
Ooops ,  :-X
I think I'd better explain why I felt I could advise the readers here to consider giving , in special cases , prescription drugs to clients with ED
Amy is quite right : in Portugal the legality of the situation is different , we get easily those pills in the blackmarket and it's quite common for any escort to hand 'em over and so rescue a floppy-situation ...
But I do appreciate the moral issues involved , for me too the health of a human being is much more important that any business .
It happens though that my medical back-ground ( I have a phD in biochemistry ) allows me to value the potential risks involved .
Let me tell you all that there are very few contraindications , and it's absolutely false that they provoke increased blood pressure ( on the contrary , being vase dilatants they facilitate blood circulation and reduce the eventuality of any cardiac failure ) .
Anyway , we all are dealing with adults , I would NEVER force anybody to do something against his will .
What I suggested was to be open to all eventualities ...

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« Reply #26 on: 02 October 2016, 03:34:10 pm »
Quote from: colette on 02 October 2016, 03:27:59 pm
Ooops ,  :-X
I think I'd better explain why I felt I could advise the readers here to consider giving , in special cases , prescription drugs to clients with ED
Amy is quite right : in Portugal the legality of the situation is different , we get easily those pills in the blackmarket and it's quite common for any escort to hand 'em over and so rescue a floppy-situation ...
But I do appreciate the moral issues involved , for me too the health of a human being is much more important that any business .
It happens though that my medical back-ground ( I have a phD in biochemistry ) allows me to value the potential risks involved .
Let me tell you all that there are very few contraindications , and it's absolutely false that they provoke increased blood pressure ( on the contrary , being vase dilatants they facilitate blood circulation and reduce the eventuality of any cardiac failure ) .
Anyway , we all are dealing with adults , I would NEVER force anybody to do something against his will .
What I suggested was to be open to all eventualities ...

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Unless you ask all your clients their medical history and take their BP before giving them a tablet, I think you're massively underestimating the risks.
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« Reply #27 on: 02 October 2016, 03:49:33 pm »
VC ,
I would NEVER give anything to anyone !!
While I'm convinced that those drugs aren't more dangerous than many prescription-free ones like Paracetamol in higher dosage , I would always limit myself to advising , and only if requested to do so .
To check the BP would be pointless , since the side-effects of an ED pill don't include increasing it .
I suggest to read the drug info leaflet ...  8)
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« Reply #28 on: 02 October 2016, 04:50:14 pm »
Quote from: colette on 02 October 2016, 03:49:33 pm
VC ,
I would NEVER give anything to anyone !!
While I'm convinced that those drugs aren't more dangerous than many prescription-free ones like Paracetamol in higher dosage , I would always limit myself to advising , and only if requested to do so .
To check the BP would be pointless , since the side-effects of an ED pill don't include increasing it .
I suggest to read the drug info leaflet ...  8)

Yes, but then you probably know that Viagra was originally developed for angina - so many clients are middle-aged men, that the risk of them having some CV issues that preclude the use of a PDE5 inhibitor is quite high. Plus sildenafil in particular can blur/distort vision and cause headaches, which could be dangerous if they're driving. No way would I ever supply anything more than an aspirin.
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« Reply #29 on: 02 October 2016, 04:59:38 pm »
An Aspirin  :o ???
You certainly know that's often responsible for bleeding of the stomach lining , nausea , heartburn , dizziness and other countless serious inconveniences ... perhaps we should limit our interventions to an herbal infusion and a therapeutic cuddle or two ...  ;D

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