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Pink~Princess

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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #15 on: 27 February 2014, 01:28:22 am »
Yeah that's what I mean when I say I don't mind running over time when someone has booked and paid for an hour but when someone pays for a half hour but really needs the best part of an hour, it does annoy me but it looks like I am not the only one who gets annoyed with that x

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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #16 on: 27 February 2014, 08:01:30 am »
No OP you were not wrong. Laying on the bed chatting afterwards and running over time because you allow it is one thing but a guy expecting extra sexual time for free is another. You did exactly what you should have done, asked him if he wished to extend. I dont see why this guy had a problem to be honest with you. If he knew he wanted to cum twice he should have made sure he had cum a lot earlier the first time. If it takes 45 minutes the first time how is he going to knock one out in 5 minutes? Sounds like he was a chancer and his chancing failed. You were not at fault. You offered him the chance to extend his booking time and he chose not too. What else could you have done really. Guys are always saying they like this for the no strings but there is one string?you have to pay for the time  you get

This is one thing that really peeves me as I go over time with a lot of my clients just chatting etc but then if someone is happy to lay and chat afterwards whilst looking at his watch every 5 minutes then just before he is meant to leave says "okay round two" I have to think to myself was he looking at the watch and assuming that the chat wasnt included in the time? Or was he deliberately trying to get extra time.

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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #17 on: 27 February 2014, 10:45:36 am »
If a client asks for round 2 or 3 when the time is about to end, I always tell them I have plans to meet friends in town or a dental appointment or my landlord is coming over soon to collect mail etc.
this always makes them get up and put their clothes on to leave. They are often more understanding too than if they felt I was doing nothing after the booking and just wanted rid of them (not that they have any right to be pissed off).
It probably bruises their ego if they think we're really enjoying the booking for us to then be kicking them out bang on time. It makes my blood boil that some of them assume we have no life and will be happy to have sex for free for as long as they want.
I do have a couple of regulars who I'm happy to sit and chat with for up to half an hour after the booking. The majority of my clients know how busy I am in other aspects of life though and they are on the whole very respectful about finishing on time and leaving

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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #18 on: 27 February 2014, 03:57:20 pm »
Had an absolutely loooovely gent today, who wanted to spend ages giving me oral in our 30 min booking and I kept saying things like "It's unfair for me to let you spoil me like this, it has to be my turn" and he'd be like, "No it's okay!" So about 20-25 mins in, we go to have sex finally (which is fine, I don't mind running 5 mins over, and after all that foreplay he probably would have lasted a short time), but I put the condom on and he goes soft, bit of oral and try another, same thing happens. By this point it was nearly time up but he hadn't been trying to take the piss, he just wasn't aware of time earlier. So I finished him off with oral and it was 40 mins by this point, and afterwards when getting dressed he apologised profusely for going over time and gave me ?20 to make up for the extra ten minutes and I was happy as larry because I thought "God I didn't expect him to do that, not his fault his cock doesn't like condoms much."

I'm honestly not a clock watcher, I'm okay with going 5 mins over or even 10, like that booking, if the situation is clearly not orchestrated. However if someone takes the piss I wouldn't entertain it, but I think he was a good example of a client that time has run over with -  is a gent about it and treats me like a professional (compliments thrown in).
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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #19 on: 27 February 2014, 06:31:05 pm »
Had an absolutely loooovely gent today, who wanted to spend ages giving me oral in our 30 min booking and I kept saying things like "It's unfair for me to let you spoil me like this, it has to be my turn" and he'd be like, "No it's okay!" So about 20-25 mins in, we go to have sex finally (which is fine, I don't mind running 5 mins over, and after all that foreplay he probably would have lasted a short time), but I put the condom on and he goes soft, bit of oral and try another, same thing happens. By this point it was nearly time up but he hadn't been trying to take the piss, he just wasn't aware of time earlier. So I finished him off with oral and it was 40 mins by this point, and afterwards when getting dressed he apologised profusely for going over time and gave me ?20 to make up for the extra ten minutes and I was happy as larry because I thought "God I didn't expect him to do that, not his fault his cock doesn't like condoms much."

I'm honestly not a clock watcher, I'm okay with going 5 mins over or even 10, like that booking, if the situation is clearly not orchestrated. However if someone takes the piss I wouldn't entertain it, but I think he was a good example of a client that time has run over with -  is a gent about it and treats me like a professional (compliments thrown in).

is he married?  :P
you can marry him maybe?
he sounds perfect  :o

sexylexi

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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #20 on: 27 February 2014, 10:23:07 pm »
Thanks for the replies, I deleted his booking on aw in case he leaves me a bad review, but I think he'll still be able t leave feedback. I'm not usually a clock watcher but I thought it would take another 30mins for him to come!



Lexi, when you delete something from your profile like this, you are only deleting it from YOUR pc and no one elses.  On occasions like this it is actually better to keep everything within your system so that you have the means to respond to any retort they may have.  Cant remember how long they have to leave fb for escort bookings but think its a month anyway, so 6 weeks isn't too long in this case.  Hope it doesn't turn out bad for you.

Good point, I didn't think of that!

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Ways to shoo a client after the booking??
« Reply #21 on: 11 May 2015, 10:19:29 pm »
Ok, so I have always thought I worked quite smartly. I keep 30 minutes inbetween clients to shower, change, tidy up, respond to texts / calls etc and this generally works for me but recently I have had a bout of clients that try to stay well past their allocated time, which leaves me running about frazzled to get organised for my next client.

I swear they do it on purpose to see how long they can stretch it out.

Last week I had one client book for 45 minutes, when he arrived he went for a shower (which I normally deduct from their time but he was a new client so thought I would waver that), then we got down to business, lasting around 40 minutes, then he lay and snuggled for 5 minutes. When he got up I breathed a sigh of relief because in my head all I was thinking was "20 minutes until my next client". But NOOOOO, he went for ANOTHER shower. So I tidied the room in that time, thinking "ok, I have 15 minutes before my next client". Then he came out the shower and dressed in the slowest fashion possible, whilst moaning about how a lot of escorts just want to get them in, get them off, then get them out. All the while I am smiling, nodding and thinking "shit, shit, shit, just 10 minutes before my next client comes". When he finally left, he had been in my company for 1 hour and 5 minutes, NOT the 45 minutes he paid for.  So essentially, I was left with just 5 minutes to get showered and changed into the requested outfit whilst praying that my client didn't arrive early.

Most of my clients are pretty respectful to my time and do leave at the allocated time. Don't get me wrong, they would totally hover if I allowed it but I find that new clients, particularly experienced punters, try and push to see how much longer they can stay. I will give or take 5 minutes if it means I will have repeat business but I do not make it a habit. 5 minutes for them is 5 minutes less for me to relax and get ready. I had a regular client who always booked half hours and ALWAYS went over. I would suggest he booked for longer, but no, still the 30 minutes. The last time I saw him, he stretched it out by an extra 15 minutes with a few different "dilly dally tactics", I told him off (in a jokey manner) that he had made me late for my next booking and that technically he should pay me the extra ?40. He never booked with me again.

Aside from telling them to fuck off, what can I do to get them out reasonably on time? I don't mind 5 minutes, but anything longer is just taking advantage!

NB: I have timed music, I wear a watch and strategically plan our activities, attentively fold and position all of their clothes together so there is no hunting about - it's just the "after" that seems to take them forever to gather up their stuff and go.

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Re: Ways to shoo a client after the booking??
« Reply #22 on: 11 May 2015, 10:46:41 pm »
When you are 10 or so mins away from the finish time ask them if they'd like to take a shower before they leave, or just relax. That way it'll prompt them to jump in, or it'd have let them know you are beginning to wind things up. It's infuriating. If they are in the shower at home time I knock and encourage them to hurry up. I drive to my incall location so am often against the clock for parking meters, so if they begin taking the piss I politely tell them they are welcome to pay the ?70 fine if they don't get a move on! Because the pisstakers are stingy twits any mention of money is a great way of getting them out of the door.

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Re: Ways to shoo a client after the booking??
« Reply #23 on: 11 May 2015, 11:00:26 pm »
I often say "I don't want to rush you" but my next client is due soon and I wouldn't want you to bump into each other" this is often true (although I also like to leave half hour between clients), I have noticed this gets them moving quickly ;)

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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #24 on: 12 May 2015, 12:01:38 am »
Strangely...my clients usually turn up 5 minutes prior. ???

I have a discreet watch and I know when it's 20 mins to the end.
I start making him cum then.
He has 10-15 mins of jollies. ;D
Then I get up, and say
'I'm turning on the shower, come out in a minute.'
Badda-Bing...he's showered and good to go in 5 mins.

I don't hang about in the room
chatting to him while he's getting dressed.
That would just distract him and slow him down.
I only go over time when I choose lol :D

I don't have any of this twice coming unless
they pay another 30 pounds, which they don't mind.
It's on my website anyway so not a suprise.
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Re: Clients going over the booking time..
« Reply #25 on: 12 May 2015, 03:02:41 am »
When they ask if we can go again like 5 mins before their hour is up I just smile and say something like;
"Sure, if you think you can manage another round in 5 mins as unfortunately we've only got 5 mins left... Unless you'd like to extend your booking?"
Funnily enough they usually make their excuses and leave, the gentlemanly clients will always ask to extend rather than try and wrangle free time.
They tried to bury us.
They didn't know we were seeds.