hmmm..well, I kind of changed my mind a bit...
Me and my client boyfriend (lets just use that term for now LOL) have made up, and today when I seen him I wasn't as upset as I was the past 2 days. We had a pretty good time and I REALLY needed to jump in his pool! He even wrote me a review today.
I understand what you're saying Violette, but sometimes it doesn't always have to be about falling in love or playing charity. Sometimes its just about having someone's company around, and if the chemistry is there enough, why not go for it? Besides, if said client is not going to pay me again, then we wont be seeing each other again anyway. And if the time comes where the relationship is no longer beneficial to one another, each party is free to move on to new possibilities.
I prefer to befriend a client (if our chemistry clicks, GOOD...) than to befriend some of these other young fucks my age who like to take advantage of people and use their friends for looks, money, or a 'wingman'. I would rather befriend a client who has atleast paid me once before, than some of the older men out here who want FREE cheap fucks and are screwing around behind their lover's back.
I feel that its an experience to befriend a client. Most of them may not be 100% stable sexually, but they are usually stable financially. And to me, that makes a world of a difference. Not that Im some needy leech out to golddig...but it makes life alot easier to have someone who is stable, rather than have a friend who isn't so stable himself.
But I will admit, it needs to be 1 way or the other. When I made the decision to befriend my client, I told him that I did not want him as a client any longer. By admiting that, I signed a verbal agreement with MYSELF that I wont feel as if Im being gotten over on for free...because I CHOSE to allow said person to become a friend. I would not suggest taking trips with a client who wants to pay you what he wants...Because thats bargaining. I did that before and regretted it. And you cant change face either. You cant be an escort 1 day, and then friends and then back to escorting. It is very thin line and it must be CLEAR what the agreement is. Either we are friends and have no business deals, or we are strictly doing business and no free meetings.
If the feeling isn't mutual, you have no business meeting him for free. It only works where there is a mutual attraction.