I feel I need a total over haul, my name, my fees, my approach, everything. Business has not been great the past month and I know some other people have found it slow and so its probably not just me, but I like to try and be proactive. So, if you were going to overhaul, what key things do you think you'd change? Just to get some inspiration  Firstly, I've been showing my face pictures but thought I might start hiding them because my face is not my best feature, for example, and I think a bit of mystery sometimes helps, and I don't want to lower my prices, so thought I could start changing price structure, those sort of things.

I have always viewed one’s advertising (and pricing for that matter) as a constant work in progress.  Overhauling is never time wasted. Firstly, take some of your own advice -

Men who like women to be more of a sexual companion/paid girlfriend than a cookie cutter porn fantasy like to see websites, blogs, really selling what makes you human and unique  etc

Look at your ads/profile/website critically. How can you improve it? What kind of client are you wanting to attract? While some men do want everything laid out to them, some do like a little mystery and want to be captivated.

I have never advertised showing my face. I only have a few pictures on public view. I don’t think this has ever been a problem - if a man needs to see pictures, he will opt for those who display them. Some men really are interested in the thrill of the unknown and discovering something for themselves, particularly when it is not accessible to just anyone who is cruising online.

As for modifying your pricing structure, I did this and it has worked very well.