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SunsetAlba

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Clients asking you on dates?
« on: 21 June 2018, 11:47:26 am »
Hello,

I don't have sex with my clients anymore being an erotic masseuse and recently it has spiked the numbers of clients who seem a bit obsessed.
It is great for keeping regulars but not so great when they won't stop buzzing your phone.

Almost all ask for a date and I hate it cause sometimes saying no means I loose that client cause they think I don't like them.
Which is all ridiculous cause its supposed to be a fantasy and I am a Service Provider not a female in their dating bubble...
Even if I liked the guy I still wouldn't after he payed for my services!!

Basically I am not good at rejecting people and I am wondering how you guys do it..

Thanks!!
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NikitaS

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Re: Clients asking you on dates?
« Reply #1 on: 21 June 2018, 12:09:00 pm »
Perhaps a white lie would help, tell them you have a boyfriend and he is ok with your work, but in your private time you just want to be with him. Clients would respect you because if they ask you out for dates it's probably because they fantasise to have a girlfriend like you. So give them the fantasy they seek but the other way around, let them be the bulls instead of the cuckold. They will keep coming.
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Dynamite Doll

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Re: Clients asking you on dates?
« Reply #2 on: 21 June 2018, 12:40:00 pm »
Whenever a guy ask me out on date all that is going through my mind is (you ask other escorts to see them for free trying to score free pussy). So I reply with Yeah I would happily go out on a date with you drinks eat have a laugh nice cocktail bar all for - five hundred and fifty pounds. The idiot is like ohhh thought can be friends. Me - no problem you must always pay me for my time as I am an escort so want date me you always pay me. My Time is money.
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ana30

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Re: Clients asking you on dates?
« Reply #3 on: 21 June 2018, 12:50:49 pm »
When I was young I too was bad at saying "no" or enforcing my boundaries, so I would tell all my clients that I have a boyfriend who I was deeply in love with. Any proposition of seeing me after work would be answered with a "Sorry Joe, you're a great guy and very attractive but I have a boyfriend". That would make them not pursue me anymore while not hurting their fragile egos, that way i wouldn't loose Joe as  client. If you tell him you're single but don't want to go on a date with him you'll hurt his ego and loose him as a client. As per clients is concerned: You have a boyfriend and very comitted to him. Make this your mantra.
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