I'm fairly new to escorting, been doing it 4 months and I'm learning all the time but for 3 months a client (who must be mid 70's) has been booking me, I don't enjoy seeing him but he pays my bills alone every week with a 2 hour booking a week. He said he loved me the other day but I don't know how to tackle this.. I don't want to keep seeing him and him get attached as there must be a 50 year age gap. But I don't want to loose out on the money. Has anyone gone through a similar thing? I don't mean to be rude about him but its just a painful booking, he worships god, talks horrifically filthy and is very unusual..

I think you will find that you are not alone with this happening to every WG and if it hasn't happened YET then it more than likely will happen at some point.

I'd like to be able to put it in a softer way but that is not my way and I can't think of one just now but I don't know any that worked themselves out.  In each case the girl had to stop taking bookings from the guys but when you think about it there will be another one along shortly to replace him and if he is such a pain in the ass you should be glad of this. 

Personally when this has happened to me I stopped bookings immediately as it just wasn't worth the grief.  It is not my place to tell you to stop seeing him but you will have to make the decision sometime.  Better sooner rather than later. 

Good luck.

Thank you, I do appreciate the money and there are worse cluents.. but as I'm so new it worried me him saying that. It just made the whole booking uncomfortable. I didn't know if this sort of thing were uncommon, but I do agree that most clients are lovely, there's just the odd skin crawler. I guess I'm just being fickle as he's never done me any harm, I just wernt expecting that from any client. It would make it easier if he didnt keep hinting in every booking now that 'he wishes we had met under different circumstances' and 'I'm his little love' thank you for all your advice I will try not to acknowledge the feelings as he wants the full GFE. I dropped it in that in my personal life I enjoy the company of younger men (that is a little white lie) just so he doesn't expect me to be anything else but an escort to him. Thanks again for the advice - newbie worries! X

You will get used to clients telling you they love you so don't worry too much when they tell you. Think of the money you are making and try to do things which don't make the job too difficult for you. Most of the clients don't really love you, they just say it to try and get to see you for a lower fee or for no payment. If it is too hard and two hours with someone you don't enjoy seeing is, when he contacts you maybe try just an hour booking and see how you get on.
If you prefer a  two hour booking with him just try to switch off and not take anything he says too seriously that it makes you uncomfortable because he will sense it eventually.

Also would like to add their cock is hard when they tell you too. After they cum they'll be ready to leave. 

Yeah remember those guys don?t actually love us but the unrealistic sex kitten, the perfect woman who flatters them, never questions them or holds up a mirror to them but instead massages their ego.  We do this as part of a professional service.   Sex release all sorts of chemicals like dopamine or oxytocin from the pituitary gland that kind of feel like the rush of love.  Most people enjoy our services and understand the context.  But if someone hasn?t had that much intimacy or perhaps not so regular sex life, the sudden rush of ?happy? hormones can skewer their perception and make them feel in love.  As long as those declarations of love stay within a booking and they are not expecting extra unpaid time or additional contact outside of my escorting life, I take it with a lorry load of salt.  Unlike with friends and former lovers, in this job I?m really perceptive when it comes to manipulative people and mostly gently nip any issues in the bud. 

 I have a regular who I see every week he treats me more like i'm his friend with benefits, he tells me way to much about his marriage problems and family life almost as if I know them all personally. He buys me art equipment and bits and pieces during the week because he knows i like to paint but says it's because he sees something and thinks of me. I sometimes feel a little awkward with these sorts of gifts as it crosses over into my personal life and activities i do in my own time, I would be more comfortable if he got me underwear or toys, something that took less thought.I also often  get weekly emails and updates telling me what hes been up to and his fantasies about us going painting together and then the other day as he went to leave he nearly said 'love you' but stopped half way and quickly left. I'm not too worried at the moment as he never pushes the boundaries, he leaves on time and never rings or texts me unless hes booked and is letting me know he on the way.

I'm aware i'm an outlet, a bit of an escape from his not so happy situation.I know he would never leave his wife and certainly not for me anyway, but I can tell that bit of time and attention spent on someone who is receptive and warm towards him means an awful lot. I think for now the balance is right but I am aware that he could possibly become more emotionally involved as time goes on and so i'm thinking what would I do about it then, could I handle it well enough and reinforce the boundaries without offending him. It's only because hes such a regular I would feel more uneasy with cooling it off a bit as we've got to know each over quite well and he obviously feels he can trust me with sensitive situation.

 When I worked for an agency this sort of thing never happend to me as i didn't have the chance to get to know my clients so well and see them on such a regular basis, as an indie i'm defiently having to learn more about people management. It's really good to read other peoples experiences and feedback on this subject as I can't really share it with my friends, it's come at a good time!