I was having a look over some old threads this morning on here, plus thinking about how nice it is to be free of the agency and that sodding obsessed client I had!

We discussed it before, and many people on here said clients form an attachment for many different reasons and often confuse it with being with a girlfriend.

But realistically, how many of us who have partners say "Thats (price) for an hour of my time" when we see them? I seriously don't get how men can become confused with paying and GFE.

I can look back now, and when I want to start up again in the business, know what to avoid etc. Can men become so dazed though that they become almost neurotic?! (Or more to the point, psychotic?)

When I discussed this with a girl (working) for the agency a while ago, she said one of my regulars (who was fine with me) had become so deluded in he wanted to marry her.

With the previous client I had (obsessed one), he said that he was seperated from his wife and they hadn't had sex for three years, but live together for the sake of their 13 year old daughter. I had regulars tell me things like that before; I'm used to it. Then the gifts/items started coming and the weekly meets; the perfume, McDonalds(!), handbags... Him asking for my number, email.. if he could give me lifts anywhere.. The fact he said he really enjoyed his time with me but refused to write a review as it would encourage business for me. Saying he missed me (when he'd only seen me a week before).

After the awful crap with the agency giving me that flat, and him being overly keen (again) on me, arriving way too early etc, I decided enough was enough and I lessened my work with them before quitting altogether. In my final week, I decided to discreetly try incalls from my place. The agency in fairness were discreet about it, but then PW client booked as soon as he saw I was on. Thankfully, I am leaving the city on Friday and giving up my lease. 10 minutes into the booking, PW still isn't there. Text from agency "Please ring the client- he is lost". I did, and he said he had been asking people for directions. MUPPET. Text again from agency to say he was outside my block.  Go down and he's pacing up and down, drawing attention to himself. Immediately beckon him to come in, quietly go upstairs, invite him in and sit him down. I then very calmly explained I was not happy with his behaviour; it was a business arrangement and he was paying for my time, like any other client, he was no different. I said we weren't an "item" and whilst I fully appreciated his difficulties, it would be unwise to see him any more after this meet. The ONLY reason I said before the booking was because I am VERY honest and I don't like to bullshit my clients, in the same way, if one was doing something I didn't like, tell them there and then rather than just let it go. He started getting tearful, angry and threw the money at me before storming out.

I feel bad, but the agency weren't doing anything about him, I had to. And that's when I thought, enough's enough and stopped working for them...

Going back to my original point; I know WHY now guys can get attached, but my question is HOW can they get so confused?! Like mine; did he really think, with the greatest of respect, that a 26 year old woman would be interested in some 40 odd year old man, who was paying for it? How can anyone be confused if they are paying for a service?! I am not sure what to compare this to, a babysitter being mistaken for a full time carer?! I don't know.

I know I sound harsh, and undoubtedly, there will be people who take me the wrong way. Wondering if it's the same for any male escorts as well, or does it predominantly seem to be guys using female escorts? The articles I read were so interesting!

I look at all the clients I've had (regulars) or normal bookings. They didn't behave in the way he did. One of my regulars (who saw other girls too) used to give me a lift back to the train station once I got to know him, was very nice etc. But we knew each others boundaries etc.

I know I won't be the first girl and I won't be the last, but why the fuck did this muppet get drawn to me?! I am doing a job, I am there to provide a nice service to clients. It angers me that he saw me more of a girlfriend. Delusional nutcase.

oh dear. I currently have a knight in shining armour wannabe. It's all very pleasant until he assumes that I must not be happy doing this type of job and the panic in his face when he saw a small bruise on my boob (happened when I was out drinking someone play pool hit the balls too hard and it flew off the table and into my right tit haha weird accident) he asked who had done this to me and surprisingly he didn't accept the truth of the cue balls and would rather believe it was a nasty client!  I have given him 2 weeks off from seeing me as he has started to say things like "I wish I never met you, in a good way" and walking away when we are hot and heavy going "this is too weird I have never been this sexually in tune with anyone before! " He keeps inviting me round for dinner and he told me his real name (I havn't told him mine) and keeps saying if I am ever at a loose end I could come round for dinner no sex. I'm hoping the 2 weeks off may have cooled it down a bit for him but much more and I am going to have stop seeing him which is a shame really because apart from when he says these awkward things he is a great client.   

You are sounding a lot more positive LL, that's good.  Hope you get things organised soon. xx

I had to stop seeing my very first regular client! He would say things in bed, after sex, like "God I just wish I met you some other way..." (I'm thinking "well then you wouldn't have ever seen me naked, dude") Then he asked me if I'd let him take me on a "real date".

But the final straw was when he became offended I was still charging him his original hour rate. EVERY TIME he'd ask "So...how much?" He thought that since I must enjoy his company, he shouldn't have to pay as much anymore. Thing is, since meeting him I had actually aised my rate $80 more! It was so uncomfortable dealing with that! How do you stay professional without hurting their feelings??

I've literally lost count at the amount of times I have heard "if only I met you 20 years earlier".

I just laugh now, can't help it - and one of those times I wish I had a dollar for each time it was said.

I dont think they see you as a girlfriend so much I think they get too comfy with you and they think because they have paid several times then you must like them a lot and ppresume you would go out for free. I had several ask me out and had to stop all meets when I made it clear I would not.
They say you must like me a lot lol umm no I am being paid I think to myself. I had a 72 yr o, d ask me to be his gf and that he would let me do my job still ha

I agree with you Lynny. I wouldn't want the same thing to happen to me as an indie. Even though they weren't much good in the end, at least the agency were a sort of "blanket" from this guy.

Your last client doesn't sound as bad as the one I had though. This guy was persistant. What made my blood boil is when I used to do incalls at the other girls places and he'd turn up like 20 mins early. That's when I knew he was starting to become a pain in the arse. Having to prompt him for payment every single bloody time, whereas 99% of my clients have it ready in an envelope or hand me it within 2 mins of the booking. I just stuck it out due to the money side of things. He was regular income. Just feels like a weight off my shoulders not having to deal with him now!