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Phoenix

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Client With Open Leg Sores
« on: 18 September 2019, 11:41:49 am »
I have seen someone a couple of times now who has had various health issues involving a stay in hospital.
He has developed type 2 diabetes and is impotent, so very happy with just plenty of massage and a small amount of OWO and RO.
When I was later massaging him, I noticed several large open sores around his calves and so obviously stayed well away from the area. When I mentioned them, he shrugged them off and seemed to not want to talk about it.
Guessing the sores are related to his diabetes, but now feeling bad that we had already exchanged OWO.

I am not particularly worried, but he isn't in great health at all. How would anyone else have dealt with this? Should the fact he had open sores elsewhere automatically preclude him from unprotected services?
It never occurred to me to inspect his calves before agreeing to OWO (He kept his thick woolly socks on too  ;D)

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #1 on: 18 September 2019, 11:53:34 am »
They sound like leg ulcers caused by poor circulation, and they're probably horrendously painful if he hasn't lost so much feeling he isn't noticing them. The socks may well be compression ones that he's been prescribed/recommended by a healthcare professional.

What unprotected service were you worried about? He probably doesn't want you to touch them anyway, does he?

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #2 on: 18 September 2019, 01:03:23 pm »
If you aren't touching them, surely there isn't a problem.

Soreness and discolouration can be a little cringey, but I'm sure they are not pleasant for the person who has them. He may also be embarassed, or at least past caring for himself which I mean in a 'feel sad for fellow human being' type way.

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #3 on: 18 September 2019, 01:46:26 pm »
There's no link between his genital hygiene and the leg sores. He is more susceptible to infections in general, but so long as his dick/crotch area looks and smells OK there's no risk.
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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #4 on: 18 September 2019, 02:02:04 pm »
I have a friend who had a large seeping open wound which resisted treatment for months. The bacteria wouldn't die. Next step was to carve a steak out of his leg but he got lucky. First the raw meat appeareance and oozing goo would kill my mojo stone dead. I'd refuse the session, I don't want my skin or sheets in contact with mysterious infected fluids and bacteria from these wounds. It's unknown hazardous material and I'm not qualified or paid enough to be exposed to that.

I agree his dick cleanliness is not related to the wound issue.

« Last Edit: 18 September 2019, 06:16:59 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #5 on: 18 September 2019, 04:01:00 pm »
Open sores can be caused by a variety of things, some of those "things" can be highly infectious and get transmited to you just by skin to skin contact (let alone OWO). Unless he has a doctor certificate with him you don't know the cause of his sores. Personally I wouldn't touch this man with a bargepole. My health is utmost important so I wouldn't risk my health. Plus I don't think is right to show up to any service provider (of any sorts) who is going to touch your skin without warning it on the phone before. If i show up at my massage therapist with parts of my body covered in open sores she's either going to send me to my GP or put some latex gloves, why would an escort operate differently?
« Last Edit: 18 September 2019, 04:06:19 pm by Ana30 »
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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #6 on: 18 September 2019, 06:02:00 pm »
Open sores can be caused by a variety of things, some of those "things" can be highly infectious and get transmited to you just by skin to skin contact (let alone OWO). Unless he has a doctor certificate with him you don't know the cause of his sores. Personally I wouldn't touch this man with a bargepole. My health is utmost important so I wouldn't risk my health. Plus I don't think is right to show up to any service provider (of any sorts) who is going to touch your skin without warning it on the phone before. If i show up at my massage therapist with parts of my body covered in open sores she's either going to send me to my GP or put some latex gloves, why would an escort operate differently?

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #7 on: 18 September 2019, 06:03:47 pm »
Open sores can be caused by a variety of things, some of those "things" can be highly infectious and get transmited to you just by skin to skin contact (let alone OWO). Unless he has a doctor certificate with him you don't know the cause of his sores. Personally I wouldn't touch this man with a bargepole. My health is utmost important so I wouldn't risk my health. Plus I don't think is right to show up to any service provider (of any sorts) who is going to touch your skin without warning it on the phone before. If i show up at my massage therapist with parts of my body covered in open sores she's either going to send me to my GP or put some latex gloves, why would an escort operate differently?

I think this is the line of thought I was going down  :-\
He's the sweetest of guys and I do think the (somewhat weeping) wounds were particular to his own health.. I just have that teeny misgiving that ideally, I too would be wearing surgical gloves and a Surgeon mask with some of my patients clients. Not letting their saliva all over my vaginal sometimes  :-X

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #8 on: 18 September 2019, 06:09:31 pm »
They sound like leg ulcers caused by poor circulation, and they're probably horrendously painful if he hasn't lost so much feeling he isn't noticing them. The socks may well be compression ones that he's been prescribed/recommended by a healthcare professional.

What unprotected service were you worried about? He probably doesn't want you to touch them anyway, does he?

I think it was the reverse oral rather than anything else if I am honest. This 'bothered' me more than OWO. Warped logic I know- but he was super clean, flaccid and not a dribbler  :P

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #9 on: 18 September 2019, 06:21:38 pm »
if he was in the hospital with open wounds he is at risk of catching MRSA or CPE Which is even harder to treat. To be honest i wouldn't risk it xx

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #10 on: 18 September 2019, 08:22:32 pm »
If it's from PVD (people who have got T2D get it as well), he's risking amputation or double amputation if he's unlucky.

Personally, I would comment (if I knew him long enough) but it's a personal choice.
You know I just say. . . Yes, on MRSA.   Did the sore touch your towels?  Not sure if MRSA can be killed by heat/wash.  I dunno.   ::)

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #11 on: 19 September 2019, 03:50:45 am »
They should at least be covered up. I would of told him he's going to end up with an infection if he's not careful. That would have freaked me out.

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #12 on: 19 September 2019, 07:57:24 am »
If it's from PVD (people who have got T2D get it as well), he's risking amputation or double amputation if he's unlucky.

Personally, I would comment (if I knew him long enough) but it's a personal choice.
You know I just say. . . Yes, on MRSA.   Did the sore touch your towels?  Not sure if MRSA can be killed by heat/wash.  I dunno.   ::)

This was an outcall, so none of my own towels or linen used.  :)

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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #13 on: 19 September 2019, 12:47:08 pm »
In a way I think that's even more risky for your welfare as you've probably been rolling on his infected home furnishings. So, exposing your skin to his bacterial colonies and fluid seepage more than if he was on your sheets or throws under your control. Open sores are toxic bacteria factories. Scratch yourself a bit too hard and who knows what nasties could enter your blood stream. Sepsis and such.
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Re: Client With Open Leg Sores
« Reply #14 on: 19 September 2019, 01:47:49 pm »
Ones who keep socks on, I will always question before touching them. Usually it's fungal nail infection or something but that sounds nasty.

I'd be googling the rash for images to check. Could be anything like Bullous impetigo. The guy could even have HIV. Hopefully not but it's possibility.