While I'd happy solve the problem for the man in the original post ('.. scalpel.. needle.. oh, did I forget the anaesthetic?') I do have a tiny bit of sympathy for other men where it's been an issue - see the scorn poured on 'I've a big 'un, is that an issue?' emails here. Damned if they say in advance and damned if they don't?

I don't think it's so much the 'it's really big, is that OK?' emails that set alarm bells ringing, it's more the phone calls - I've never, ever known one of them to be genuine.

I've only encountered one (emailer) that was telling in the truth (IMHO ) once, but the thing was like a bloody rolling pin and I could barely even manage oral, let alone anything else. He'd booked anal as well, and it's the only time in my entire life I've had to stop on the grounds that it was too big - I had a go, but no chance. I felt a bit sorry for the poor sod, to be honest - it's hardly a blessing unless you're planning a career in porn.

Most vagina's are only about 4/5 inches long, whereas most erect penises are around 6 inches.

When you're turned on your vag can get about 2/3 inches longer, when you're not turned on an average sized penis should still fit without too much hassle and lube and the friction will help you to accommodate.

He unfortunately was too long for you and that was that.  There is nothing wrong with you, you're probably quite short inside unaroused, whereas he's quite long while aroused.  It's probably best you don't see him again if he's going to pain you.

To be honest I struggle with length in bookings too, which is something I rarely experience in my real life.

Quote from: amy on 18 March 2012, 06:40:07 pm

the thing was like a bloody rolling pin and I could barely even manage oral, let alone anything else. He'd booked anal as well

There are spaces on the gay scene where you quickly learn that, when seeing a big one, it's risky to say 'fuck me!' in surprise

Hahahahaha