Author Topic: Client wants bb (Read 4926 times)

Maz · « **on:** 24 February 2020, 12:40:42 pm »

Hi ladies

A few weeks ago I had an enquiry from a potential client in Bournemouth asking me to come down for what would apparently be his last booking with an escort. The booking is for 10 hours and he has offered £1300 which I accepted.

He has just emailed me the following this morning...

"I'm really looking forward to meeting you next week. I hope you're keeping well.

I have given what I am going to ask you great thought and would be grateful if you would read my proposal. I realise fully the sensitivities around this but please hear me out.

I would like to dispense with the use of condoms when we meet. If you immediately reject the thought and decline to see me then that's totally my loss. I understand that might happen and have taken that in to account. But I'd simply be grateful if you would at least read what I have to say.

As you know I'm 68 and our meeting is to be my last on AW. I will explain when we meet but it is a definite decision I've made for what I believe are good reasons. For quite a while now I have had difficulty maintaining an erection in a condom. I lose sensation and all feeling and sex becomes a chore. There are of course other pleasures but for my last meeting I would like to be able to enjoy all of the pleasures of being with a beautiful woman.

I know I am clean. I have today received the results of a full STI/HIV screen and all are negative. I can show you the texts with the 'clear' results. I have not had unprotected sex for years. I'm a pharmacologist by training and fully understand the potential risks involved and I am certain that I pose no risk to you. I wouldn't dream of asking this if I were not.

If you will agree I will happily pay you a further £500 on top of the £1300 already agreed. As I say, I want my last meeting to be memorable and the cost is immaterial. You have my sincere word that no other person will ever know of such an arrangement between us if you decide to agree.

If I have offended you or put you off completely then I can only apologise. Such a request has been very carefully considered and is definitely not my normal practice. I simply would like to enjoy fully one last meeting.

If you chose not to respond I will understand and wish you well. However I shall live in hope that you might agree."

What do people think? I guess it is my decision in the end but some advice/thoughts would be helpful please

xx

MWM · « **Reply #1 on:** 24 February 2020, 12:47:54 pm »

The money is tempting, but i personally just couldn’t do it.
I think even if I absolutely knew he was 100% clean, there’s still something about no condom, his bare skin in me, that would mess with my head. I just couldn’t.
That, for me, happens with a partner who I love - as much as I’m a working girl, that’s just too close for comfort!

That’s just me though

Good luck with your decision x

Mirror · « **Reply #2 on:** 24 February 2020, 12:50:47 pm »

No

I would cancel his booking on this basis.

Maz · « **Reply #3 on:** 24 February 2020, 12:58:34 pm »

Thanks for the responses.

I am feeling unsure myself - although he might be clean there is something about doing this with a client that isn't right.

I can see that he has used other escorts looking at his feedback, but I wonder whether he actually does manage to keep an erection with them and this is just a ruse to give bareback a go.

xx

Lola xxx · « **Reply #4 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:01:40 pm »

Money might be tempting but it would be a no from me. Apart from the obvious health risks,the whole skin on skin would just be too much for me, like others have mentioned

Lydiaa · « **Reply #5 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:20:32 pm »

I would not do it no matter how tempting the offer might be. Also the recent results he claims to have might be altered.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #6 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:21:44 pm »

I would assume he was barebacking everyone, that you aren't the first, won't be the last, and cancel his booking.

saltysweet · « **Reply #7 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:25:04 pm »

I get these too, all well written. I think you're right.

I think this may also be hoax spam for his wank bank. You never met him, so no previous. On top of that it's an extended booking and he's wiggling extra juicy bait in front of your nose. He happens to be in the medical field too, that's convenient. Classic set up. Plus there are professional BB providers for less ££ or free on AW so why you? I don't believe any of his script, who he is or anything about tests...he's sipping mojitos on fantasy island.

All the tests show is X was clear for the past 1-3 weeks before they got tested. As some STDS have a 1-3 week incubation period.
Tests won't show that a person is incubating an infection caught the night before they rolled up at the clinic for example.

If he BB with folk straight after the test and they have HIV, hepatitis, clam, syph, gono or herpes that will not be a nice goodby present for you. Unless you're on anti HIV meds,which doesn't prevent the other infections. If you look around AW you'll see the similarity to other proposals. Personally I'd ignore.

It's you're choice, it smells of con, despite his positive FB, which is often purposely misleading or favour swapping.
Nothing stops you investigating how genuine he is...fuck with his head and request a deposit of £500 today

Justine · « **Reply #8 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:31:20 pm »

A massive no from me too. As others ask, why offer so much money when he can pick and choose a much cheaper barebacker as there is plenty of choice out there.

Clear test results mean nothing unless the person has been under house arrest since his last sex encounter and not been near a woman. So many people do not realise this and him saying he is clean means zilch.

The "it will be my last ever meeting on AW" means F all too. Sorry but he is trying to make you feel special and in a way privileged by being the last woman he books. Absolute rubbish.

AVOID /BLOCK / IGNORE

English Green · « **Reply #9 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:37:21 pm »

I would not be interested in doing it i doubt very much this will be his last booking ever, he probably has done bareback before. He might be serious or he might be getting off on leading you on to say yes.

He might even have clean STD results but still it would not tempt me not because the risks because OWO you can catch a lot of STD's and in some ways i find putting a bare cock in my mouth especially with dribbly pre cum even more personal you can feel and taste it all.

Up to you if you want to but i would not believe what a punter says anyway i would just tell him no. He probably has messaged a few with that long email seeing which ones go for it.

Philipa · « **Reply #10 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:43:31 pm »

Quote from: Maz on 24 February 2020, 12:40:42 pm

I know I am clean. I have today received the results of a full STI/HIV screen and all are negative. I can show you the texts with the 'clear' results. I have not had unprotected sex for years. I'm a pharmacologist by training and fully understand the potential risks involved and I am certain that I pose no risk to you. I wouldn't dream of asking this if I were not.

If you will agree I will happily pay you a further £500 on top of the £1300 already agreed. As I say, I want my last meeting to be memorable and the cost is immaterial. You have my sincere word that no other person will ever know of such an arrangement between us if you decide to agree.

BB is a very personal decision.

Here's why I wouldn't do it:

-I wouldn't trust the HIV/STD test results of a stranger. Not even from a qualified pharmacologist. If he is so comfortable asking for BB, I would wonder how many other BB bookings he's had. He could be infected since the last test results.

-£500 for BB? Is this the market price for BB in the UK now? That's a paltry amount considering the risks you are taking. I would rather see 5 clients at £100 each not asking for BB than 1 client offering me £500 for BB.

-He is already offering you £1300 for a 10 hour booking without BB.

-He is a boundary pusher, BB is not listed on your enjoys list of services.

I would not see this client unless he agrees with his initial offer of £1300 without BB. You have to be so careful that he doesn't try to remove his condom during the booking. I would be extremely careful going forward with this booking.

lillybliss · « **Reply #11 on:** 24 February 2020, 01:47:46 pm »

Personally I wouldn't because even if he were std free I would still not like the skin to skin thing as I would feel like I was cheating on the man I love (as if I don't already feel bad enough).

Mirror · « **Reply #12 on:** 24 February 2020, 02:30:53 pm »

Quote from: Philipa on 24 February 2020, 01:43:31 pm

BB is a very personal decision.

Here's why I wouldn't do it:

-I wouldn't trust the HIV/STD test results of a stranger. Not even from a qualified pharmacologist. If he is so comfortable asking for BB, I would wonder how many other BB bookings he's had. He could be infected since the last test results.

-£500 for BB? Is this the market price for BB in the UK now? That's a paltry amount considering the risks you are taking. I would rather see 5 clients at £100 each not asking for BB than 1 client offering me £500 for BB.

-He is already offering you £1300 for a 10 hour booking without BB.

-He is a boundary pusher, BB is not listed on your enjoys list of services.

I would not see this client unless he agrees with his initial offer of £1300 without BB. You have to be so careful that he doesn't try to remove his condom during the booking. I would be extremely careful going forward with this booking.

To me he's just too high risk he's seeking bareback doesn't matter whether he's HIV negative, he's putting you and your other sexual partners and probably peace of mind at risk.

Maz · « **Reply #13 on:** 24 February 2020, 02:37:12 pm »

Thanks everyone

I've told him know. As tempting as it was I didn't feel good about it and my profile says I don't do it.

When he first messaged me I doubted the whole thing about being his last escort. Something in the back of my mind thought it seemed too good an offer.

Xx

Gypsy · « **Reply #14 on:** 24 February 2020, 02:45:45 pm »

I think he's just a fantasising timewaster end of

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