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Maz

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Needing a new incall. Advice please
« on: 16 March 2020, 04:34:56 pm »
I currently use an agency's incall for independent bookings and pay them a cut of my fee but am having some issues with them now and trying to find an alternative.

I do escorting on top of a full time job so wondered how other people manage this and what people might think is best?

I have a friend who is happy for me to use their home occasionally but I would prefer not to and I am considering using my own home (although would need to be stricter with screening).

Can anyone give some advice on what would be my best bet? Are there escorts that used shared incalls?

With me doing this PT, I could do with the most hassle free way xx
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SamLilly

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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #1 on: 16 March 2020, 06:37:19 pm »
Hi Maz.

I’m very new to this so I’m learning as I go. I do a mixture of incall and outcall. As I’ve children at home I don’t want to risk my home environment so I’ve been looking at hotels during the day or last minute bargains. As long I’m not making a loss it’s ok but had a shocking Thursday daytime and Friday night.

As for managing I’ve posted I have a full time job on top. I’m on an iPhone but I’m switching to an android as it does auto messages and check it around 3 times during work and then more frequently on an evening.

I’m a bit geeky and have my working email calendar on my work phone as well as can update from personal. It just helps me plan for childcare or work travel I need to do or late working. I’m also trying to do set dates such as a Friday and Saturday.

Haven’t got the perfect answer but this seems to work.
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Maz

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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #2 on: 16 March 2020, 07:07:07 pm »
Quote from: SamLilly on 16 March 2020, 06:37:19 pm
Hi Maz.

I’m very new to this so I’m learning as I go. I do a mixture of incall and outcall. As I’ve children at home I don’t want to risk my home environment so I’ve been looking at hotels during the day or last minute bargains. As long I’m not making a loss it’s ok but had a shocking Thursday daytime and Friday night.

As for managing I’ve posted I have a full time job on top. I’m on an iPhone but I’m switching to an android as it does auto messages and check it around 3 times during work and then more frequently on an evening.

I’m a bit geeky and have my working email calendar on my work phone as well as can update from personal. It just helps me plan for childcare or work travel I need to do or late working. I’m also trying to do set dates such as a Friday and Saturday.

Haven’t got the perfect answer but this seems to work.

Thanks SL

Yes I'm worried about making a loss if I book the hotel and the guy no shows or cancels late. There are some central hotels I could use I guess.

I'd probably use TL as their hotels are easy to access and reasonable in price considering I am PT x
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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #3 on: 16 March 2020, 07:48:40 pm »
[redacted] I’m in leeds and MVM and the boards have been great. So for an excuse I use one where there is a cocktail bar but I’m exploring “rentable” flats on the seeking/ offering board too.
Ideally you want one they can come to your floor without keycard lifts.
« Last Edit: 16 March 2020, 07:53:21 pm by amy »
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Maz

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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #4 on: 16 March 2020, 08:05:06 pm »
Quote from: SamLilly on 16 March 2020, 07:48:40 pm
[redacted] I’m in leeds and MVM and the boards have been great. So for an excuse I use one where there is a cocktail bar but I’m exploring “rentable” flats on the seeking/ offering board too.
Ideally you want one they can come to your floor without keycard lifts.

Ah yes, I'll have to post a notice on the seeking/offering board.  :)

Are any of your clients funny about coming to a hotel? I know a lot of escorts use them but didn't know if some clients prefer an apartment?

Should I mention in my add that I would be using a hotel?
« Last Edit: 16 March 2020, 08:16:44 pm by Maz »
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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #5 on: 16 March 2020, 08:29:57 pm »
I don't say but I know some do. Because of the one I've got they have a bar higher up so they are less likely to be stopped by reception, however had one ask me if I knew of any free parking nearby (its Leeds centre you . . . )

The only thing because I'm a bit super paranoid is a spare bin bag just incase. You could blame work or downtime, building works at home. I rocked up in civvy clothes, changed and away.

I've found a flat offered which I'll use as an alternative and if you search AW using member search and use apartment/ flat/ rent you cant find some but use the caution rule. I'm still muddling along so don't have all the answers yet.
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Maz

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« Reply #6 on: 16 March 2020, 09:48:18 pm »
Ok thank you  :)

Guess I'll have to muddle along for now and see how I get on!
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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #7 on: 16 March 2020, 09:52:25 pm »
Quote from: Maz on 16 March 2020, 08:05:06 pm
Ah yes, I'll have to post a notice on the seeking/offering board.  :)

Are any of your clients funny about coming to a hotel? I know a lot of escorts use them but didn't know if some clients prefer an apartment?

Should I mention in my add that I would be using a hotel?

Some do, and they probably won't book just as the ones who prefer the safety/discretion/cleanliness of a hotel won't book if you're in an apartment :).

I always mention it in my ad, but that's just because I like to give them as much information as possible before they book so I don't have to spend ages on the phone. I don't think it's crucial though.
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Maz

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Re: Needing a new incall. Advice please
« Reply #8 on: 17 March 2020, 03:35:23 am »
Quote from: amy on 16 March 2020, 09:52:25 pm
Some do, and they probably won't book just as the ones who prefer the safety/discretion/cleanliness of a hotel won't book if you're in an apartment :).

I always mention it in my ad, but that's just because I like to give them as much information as possible before they book so I don't have to spend ages on the phone. I don't think it's crucial though.

Thanks Amy, I will keep this in mind.

At the moment, it's gone quiet for me which I am blaming on the virus so don't need to sort anything just yet.

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