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TantricTease

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #15 on: 24 February 2020, 03:21:38 pm »
Why can’t they just be REALLY honest and say “I want BB because it feels better, I can stay hard in a condom buts it’s mind over matter you see”, not that you would do it anyway but I think honesty counts for so much and it would make a change :)

Kay

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #16 on: 24 February 2020, 03:27:16 pm »
If this was a regular I could sort of understand it. As you've never even met him before it screams timewaster/shyster to me.
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ana30

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #17 on: 24 February 2020, 03:37:13 pm »
Copy + paste story he's sending to many escorts. Someone is having a little too much time in his hands here.Text book timewaster.
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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #18 on: 24 February 2020, 04:28:33 pm »
I wonder if he says it to everyone. I don't think I would be comfortable doing it. He probably says that as a way to get out of the booking knowing fine we'll be wasn't going to pay £1300

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #19 on: 24 February 2020, 05:08:31 pm »
Copy + paste story he's sending to many escorts. Someone is having a little too much time in his hands here.Text book timewaster.

The story does ring a bell in my memory.

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #20 on: 24 February 2020, 05:44:08 pm »
No, you can easily make that amount doing a couple of bookings involving safe sex.

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #21 on: 24 February 2020, 06:16:59 pm »
The only way I'd AGREE to it is to go with him to a clinic, have a 24 rush done on every single STI there is, spend that 24 hours with him, get the (assumingly) clear results, then, ok. Naturally he's paying for your time.
Even then....yeah. Incubation & all that jazz. Ok, forget I wrote all that lol.

It's all awfully convenient, no? Plus it's icky🤢. It does seem like he's ✅allllll the boxes 1 would need to feel comfortable, which in itself is a red flag ⛳️, yes?
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Amanda94

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #22 on: 24 February 2020, 06:48:24 pm »
It does sound tempting but I personally couldn’t - it’s still not worth the risk.

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #23 on: 25 February 2020, 12:08:12 am »
Sounds to me like he's reeled you in with a normal genuine booking, gained a bit of your trust and is now trying to take advantage of this with his little "speil". He's clearly learnt asking for BB from the get go usually leaves his messages ignored! As others have said, if he wants BB there are providers out their who do offer this at a much cheaper price, I can only assume he gets off on trying his chances with the girls who don't offer it. Power games. I do not believe for one minute you will be the last service provider he visits nor the only one he has tried this with. I'd be interested to see he still goes ahead with the booking now you've turned down his BB proposal.
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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #24 on: 25 February 2020, 09:08:29 am »
Text book fantasist. Has clearly found messaging straight up, asking for bb doesn’t work, so gets the ol copy and paste with a hint of grooming happening.
I’ve heard them all (although entertaining when new ones come through).
It’s my birthday, my wife died, allergic to condoms, too big for condoms, too small for condoms, impotent so therefore safe, virgin....blah blah blah.
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Maz

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #25 on: 25 February 2020, 10:26:56 am »
He also probably thought I had paid my expenses by now for travel to get down there.

Thankfully I hadn't as my friend was driving me down! If he was really that keen to see me, the bareback thing shouldn't have been that much of an issue.

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #26 on: 25 February 2020, 11:28:53 am »
Did he message you back after you told him no?

Maz

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #27 on: 25 February 2020, 11:46:59 am »
Yes - I mentioned how I had no proof that he hasn't done bb before and that I state that I don't do it on my profile.

Then he sent me a polite reply about how he hasn't done bb in years but understands that he can't prove that, he also just told me to take care and what a lovely person I was. LOL - what a load of nonsense.

I am not disappointed that it isn't going ahead. It's true he was just a manipulative boundary pusher. There will be other bookings and I will be more cautious of these kind of offers in future.

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #28 on: 25 February 2020, 04:08:21 pm »
No

I would cancel his booking on this basis.
Me too. Aside from the fact that he could have been shagging a thousand people without a condom since he got those test results (hence they are useless), you only have his word for anything that he says. He just sounds like a common all garden boundary pusher and also how do you know he isn't going to write a report or a post somewhere telling the world you allow bareback if you make an exception for him?
« Last Edit: 25 February 2020, 04:11:00 pm by BibiofLeeds »

English Green

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Re: Client wants bb
« Reply #29 on: 25 February 2020, 04:23:56 pm »
Yes - I mentioned how I had no proof that he hasn't done bb before and that I state that I don't do it on my profile.

Then he sent me a polite reply about how he hasn't done bb in years but understands that he can't prove that, he also just told me to take care and what a lovely person I was. LOL - what a load of nonsense.

I am not disappointed that it isn't going ahead. It's true he was just a manipulative boundary pusher. There will be other bookings and I will be more cautious of these kind of offers in future.

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He is a timewasting prick he tried to bring you in accepting 1300 then when you did he tried to manipulate for a bareback booking which if is true he is a shady scum bag and if just a fantasy then a sad pathetic idiot and truth is could be either as we all know how some like to do fake bookings to lead us on and they have no intention of going ahead.

He wasted your time with ulterior motives if it was me up to though i would post a warning outlining his methods for trying to get you do agree to bareback when he knows you do not offer it. He tried to get you hooked on the £1300.

This is the type of client i would like to avoid and i do not believe he is never doing this again. Wonder how many have got emails from him. I know i have had several over last couple of years a bit similar to this with the sob story to convince you to say yes they usually send to many escorts hoping 1 in 10 will say yes.