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mature helen

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Re: Client turned sugar daddy turned drama. Any advice?
« Reply #15 on: 27 July 2017, 09:59:42 pm »
Good you are going to counselling, remember to love yourself, set your boundaries and only do things that feel good, don't be a people pleaser putting others before yourself as you will only end up feeling used and unhappy. Took me a little time to learn this but its the best feeling to be fully in control.
Good luck and ignore him you don't need the stress.

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Re: Client turned sugar daddy turned drama. Any advice?
« Reply #16 on: 27 July 2017, 10:22:33 pm »
What an awful situation and one which you should try never to get embroiled in again, it can wear you down and make you a nervous wreck!

Not sure how confident you are that he will not turn up at your door causing trouble but if that kind of unwanted behaviour begins then if it was me I would be looking to move home and plan it out carefully so that one day he will be at the door and you will not be there anymore, also be untraceable too if that is possible.  A big step to take I know but unless this man is scrubbed from your life altogether he may be difficult to shake off.


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Re: Client turned sugar daddy turned drama. Any advice?
« Reply #17 on: 27 July 2017, 10:36:14 pm »
Maybe you can tell him you just started dating some young guy and that you're serious about the boyfriend and need to cut all ties with him. That way his ego will be less hurted than if you just tell him to "feck off". Also if he knows there's another guy around he'll be less likely to show up at your place and stalk you. I tend to use the "Sorry I'm in a relationship now and we can't see us anymore" excuse when I need to get rid of someone smoothly and it always works for me.
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Re: Client turned sugar daddy turned drama. Any advice?
« Reply #18 on: 29 July 2017, 03:10:39 pm »
Hi,

i was in a similar situation like you are now. Will try and make my story short and straight to the point.  I had a client turned sugar daddy as well. He wanted me to give up my job, always getting upset when i miss his calls or don't reply him. I felt like he owned me and i was very unhappy about this . He was a control freak ! I never wanted anything serious with him but he kept pushing it  :FF. ALways threatening me with seeing someone else each time i miss his call .

I summoned up courage and ended this with him. I miss the money and gifts but my sanity and happiness matters alot to me . I'm much happier now and i won't ever get my self in such situation again!

My advice is to move on! it was hard for me at first but i finally did it and it was the best decision i ever made in my life !. I was emotionally disturbed and stressed when i was with him .

Never get too serious with a client and if you feel like is about to happen, is best to stop seeing that person and move on .

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Re: Client turned sugar daddy turned drama. Any advice?
« Reply #19 on: 30 July 2017, 06:37:58 pm »


Never get too serious with a client and if you feel like is about to happen, is best to stop seeing that person and move on .

 :)

Always remember, this is a business with some emotions trying to creep in.  Men are lusting for you but you need to focus!

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Re: Client turned sugar daddy turned drama. Any advice?
« Reply #20 on: 03 August 2017, 01:26:47 am »
Thanks for the advice ladies. Just wondering how their transition was from being in a situation like this and being dependent on an SD to going back to escorting? I know the month has just started but i had a slow day today so I'm starting to panic, lol. Makes me contemplate contacting him again. Although i never would but ugh!!
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