Author Topic: Client texting me way too much! (Read 1632 times)

xSweetCheeksx · « **on:** 08 September 2014, 01:33:43 pm »

Hi everyone,
So yeah, basically had a new client on Friday. He was a lovely guy to be fair but he's just not stopped texting me since. It's getting pretty annoying cause at the end of the day he paid me ?100 for an hour of fun and even then that was an offer rate and now I feel like I have a really clingy boyfriend or something

I mean, he was easily about 50years old at least, he thinks I'm 21 (i'm actually 24) and it's like does he really think a 21 year old girl wants to be texting a 50 something client all the time

I tried dropping the hint by saying I'm sorry if I don't always reply but I don't tend to use my work phone unless I'm working.
I've obly just started out as indie having been with agencies so feel like I can't be too blunt cause I'm trying to get regulars.
Anyone else had this? X

Erotic flower · « **Reply #1 on:** 08 September 2014, 01:42:11 pm »

Hi you dont have to reply until hes making a booking.
certainly not some horny older guy probably getting off on the idea of you keeping in touch with him.
just ignore texts in the meantime dont feel bad about doing so

mature helen · « **Reply #2 on:** 08 September 2014, 02:27:30 pm »

i agree with Erotic Flower ignore him he's taking advantage of your politeness plain and simple, just ignore him had a good introductory deal and I think he's now taking the mickey.
My advice to young Indie escorts would be "don't encourage any bad client behaviour"
When training a puppy you encourage his good deeds and ignore any bad ones.
He will eventually understand to your get your attention he needs to book you...
As the the saying goes... He needs to either piss or get off the pot!! lol

xSweetCheeksx · « **Reply #3 on:** 08 September 2014, 05:30:08 pm »

Thanks for the advice girls

also forgot to mention that last night the cheeky t*at asked for a selfie of my boobs to see him off for bed, wtf. Needles to say I said no and that he'll have to wait till he books me again to see the boobs.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #4 on:** 08 September 2014, 05:48:32 pm »

Ignore him, or send 1 text saying "I'm busy right now, would you like to make a booking?" Anything he sends after that ignore if it doesn't involve a booking, think we've all had these guys at some point and as the other girls said they do tend to target new girls x

xSweetCheeksx · « **Reply #5 on:** 08 September 2014, 05:57:54 pm »

I will do cause at the end of the day it's out of order. On my day's off I don't want to be texting some annoying client plus it's my work phone so don't like using it unless I'm actually on call.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #6 on:** 08 September 2014, 06:00:53 pm »

Any replies you give him is making him happy so just stick to the 1 polite text as I mentioned before, he'll soon get bored they always do x

sourgrapes · « **Reply #7 on:** 08 September 2014, 06:09:21 pm »

Quote from: xSweetCheeksx on 08 September 2014, 05:30:08 pm

Thanks for the advice girls also forgot to mention that last night the cheeky t*at asked for a selfie of my boobs to see him off for bed, wtf. Needles to say I said no and that he'll have to wait till he books me again to see the boobs.

He has no respect whatsoever. Do you still think he's a "lovely guy"? Strikes me he's a boundary pusher who takes liberties with your good nature, and makes you responsible for his sexual needs, even when he's not paying.

meetingdiversity · « **Reply #8 on:** 08 September 2014, 06:54:20 pm »

They get bored if the text replies stop moving on to some one else who will play for free. Some times clients can get emotionally attached. How about asking him when he textes again. So what date and time would you like to book?. Then you will see if he is genuine or taking advantage.

xSweetCheeksx · « **Reply #9 on:** 08 September 2014, 08:22:30 pm »

Quote from: sourgrapes on 08 September 2014, 06:09:21 pm

Quote from: xSweetCheeksx on 08 September 2014, 05:30:08 pm
Thanks for the advice girls also forgot to mention that last night the cheeky t*at asked for a selfie of my boobs to see him off for bed, wtf. Needles to say I said no and that he'll have to wait till he books me again to see the boobs.

He has no respect whatsoever. Do you still think he's a "lovely guy"? Strikes me he's a boundary pusher who takes liberties with your good nature, and makes you responsible for his sexual needs, even when he's not paying.

Tbh I see the good in people too easily which normally results in me being taken for a mug. He text me this morning anyways and I haven't replied what so ever.
I definitely think he's genuine though cause before our actual booking he was texting loads so this made me think he was a TW which I was surprised to see he wasn't when he knocked on my door plus going by his feedback he's returned to see girls more than once and bought them presents like shoes

lol x

Rosa · « **Reply #10 on:** 08 September 2014, 09:03:30 pm »

Earlier today I wrote a post then decided not to post it.

The post said that I've used to fall in to the same trap, and that my experience is that is someone engages in excessive messaging before a booking, they tend to carry that behaviour afterwards. I used to think "It'll be ok, he's nervous or keen, once we meet and have a chat he'll calm down, and he'll understand the boundaries". What I found out was if someone is like that in the build up they'll usually continue to be like that.

Nia Hope · « **Reply #11 on:** 08 September 2014, 11:29:55 pm »

Quote from: xSweetCheeksx on 08 September 2014, 08:22:30 pm

Quote from: sourgrapes on 08 September 2014, 06:09:21 pm
Quote from: xSweetCheeksx on 08 September 2014, 05:30:08 pm
Thanks for the advice girls also forgot to mention that last night the cheeky t*at asked for a selfie of my boobs to see him off for bed, wtf. Needles to say I said no and that he'll have to wait till he books me again to see the boobs.

He has no respect whatsoever. Do you still think he's a "lovely guy"? Strikes me he's a boundary pusher who takes liberties with your good nature, and makes you responsible for his sexual needs, even when he's not paying.
Tbh I see the good in people too easily which normally results in me being taken for a mug. He text me this morning anyways and I haven't replied what so ever.
I definitely think he's genuine though cause before our actual booking he was texting loads so this made me think he was a TW which I was surprised to see he wasn't when he knocked on my door plus going by his feedback he's returned to see girls more than once and bought them presents like shoes lol x

Yes he may turn up for bookings and if you are happy to spend most of your day texting him then that's your business, I personally prefer not to give free wanks and buy my own shoes x

xSweetCheeksx · « **Reply #12 on:** 09 September 2014, 12:05:50 am »

Yes you're totally right Nia and that's why I haven't text him back lol.

And Rosa you're right so definitely not going to give him the time of day anymore.

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