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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Maz on 10 January 2021, 08:15:11 am
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Had a client the other week that asked if he could take some photos in the booking with me, which I agreed to as long as I wore my mask.
I let him take them at the start of the session but then noticed as I was giving him oral etc, he was still taking pictures and even filming which I never permitted, thankfully I was still masked.
When I turned my head away, he filmed in the mirror to still get a shot. It was only a 30 minute booking and me being soft, I didn't say anything straight away but eventually told him not to film and then wanted the camera gone altogether.
He's asked to see me again next week and if he can take photos again. I've told him he can take a few at the start but not through the whole booking which he seems to have agreed to.
What would you have done? I found it pretty weird.
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I would have stopped the booking there and then if he was taking photos or filming without permission, never mind agreeing to see him a second time.
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I would have stopped the booking there and then if he was taking photos or filming without permission, never mind agreeing to see him a second time.
Exactly this.
He has already broken your boundaries and demonstrated he cannot be trusted, so why on earth would you see him again?
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You're right, I shouldn't allow him to see me again. I guess he needs to know it's not acceptable.
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I had someone like this a long term regular, who I'd previously allowed photos before deciding a no photos policy. Then changed to a 'only if I can have a copy for my own use'.
When transferring we discovered he'd pressed the video button on his camera.
He was in general a bumbling client, who would arrive late, had in the past booked a 'floating' start time, then after this incident forgot himself ramming fingers enthusiastically in an orifice he knows is sensitive then in his apologies was incredibly indiscrete on leaving my property. All this from someone who asked me to trust him with photos. By the way the couple of times I did the download it was after the end of time, and images were not use able.
Having tried different approaches I learned far easier to say no.
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I've have had loads of first time clients asking to fill and take pictures, Hardly had this request before. I refuse to see them as if I do film it's with trusted regulars, On my phone and I edit it and send what I'm comfortable with them having. I know many put stuff online, I'm finding more guys ignoring my likes list and asking if I'll do this and that as they might think in these times I'll jump at the money and work outside of my likes.
Maz it's best to do filming on your own phone and not allow the guy to do it on his phone. You have more control, I wouldn't feel comfortable letting the client have total control over the content and filming.
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I would have kicked him out the moment he fucked with you. Yonks ago I had a good regular whip out his camera a couple times without asking and I went along with it due to lack of confidence. I sacked him the next visit. Since them my flat's a no phone zone. I make them turn it off in the corridor and put it in their pocket or bag. I watch every now and then to make sure it's where it should be or drape a throw over his gear.
If they get it out- the session is terminated, clothes on.
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Not done it in the first place as they cannot be trusted with such persinal info but as you did i would have confiscated his phone as he took the piss and demanded it all gets erased. He pushed boundaries not somebody you could trust and he seems the type to upload it on to the internet.
Up to you but i would never see him again someone like him could use the second time hidden recording devices.
If you wanted you could put a soft warning out on him on here and CE just so other's can be on there guard.
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The guy was clearly taking the piss but you should have said something at the time.
I only allow filming with a mask but only offer this to a handful of regulars I trust and feel comfortable with.
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You shouldn't allow photos/ filming if you don't offer this. Make sure their phone it's not near them and ask politely to close it before you start the booking. Don't be afraid to say no, if he leaves f**k it.. you can fine another client easily.
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You shouldn't allow photos/ filming if you don't offer this. Make sure their phone it's not near them and ask politely to close it before you start the booking. Don't be afraid to say no, if he leaves f**k it.. you can fine another client easily.
Thanks, yes from now on I won't allow it.
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Watch out for the snidey ones with the camera glasses
I had 2 punters come different times who refused take their glasses off
I am sure one definitely had the ones that record
I’m going tell them to start taking them off from now on .
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Watch out for the snidey ones with the camera glasses
I had 2 punters come different times who refused take their glasses off
I am sure one definitely had the ones that record
I’m going tell them to start taking them off from now on .
Didn't know they had those. I saw one guy last week that had glasses on throughout and thinking about it, they could easily have been recording ones. So sneaky! I'll try to start asking them to remove those now.
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Seemed and looked a weirdo one of them who wore them ,
You can search on the internet what styles of recording glasses they are , he was a twat refused to remove them said he wanted to see me , even when he went to the shower he still had them on , won’t be pleased if his done it and put it on the internet but what can I do ? I always delete the usernames once they seen me off aw .
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I wouldn't trust this guy not to film me covertly and wouldn't see him again myself.
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I had a regular client who always wanted to film, so I told him he had to edit the film so that neither of us could be recognized and that I would then be posted on Adultwork. The first time he took about a week before sending me the edited copy, just the original, but about a week later he sent though the edited version.
He did this three times, and then told me it was taking him about 20 hours per video to do all the editing, I didn't help by telling him to make more changes. After three he decided it wasn't worth the effort, but I made about £120 on selling the shorts on Adultwork.
Might be a solution if you trust the client.