Hey girls

So tonight I had a booking with a guy iv seen once before. This guy is lovely and quite the gentleman. So he's into bondage and likes to tie me up and blindfold me.

Tonight as I was blindfolded I thiught I heard like a click noise which raised my suspicions. I sneaking managed to slip the blindfold up a bit so I could see what he was at as sure enough every time he tied me in a diff position he was snapping me too.

I was not sure weather to wait until the end of the session or go mad straight away. In the end I thought I'd wait. When it ended I admitted I had seen the camera and he admitted it, was sorry and I deleted them.

I dont want to put this in the warning section as I know he just got a bit carried away and wanted it for later when I am not there but let this be a lesson to anyone being blind folded just be careful.

After all this I just want a second opinion. Was I right to do what I done and should I go back to see him?

Xx

Oh Tabbycat, that's terrible! Poor you.
 In my opinion, that's no gentlemen and I actually think your reaction was very restrained. I would have instantly terminated the appointment, although at least your calm approach meant the photos were deleted with the minimum of fuss.
Getting "carried away" is one thing but the guy was intentionally deceiving you while you were in a vulnerable position. it's totally and utterly disrespectful.
Look at it this way; he knew that you didn't allow photos so slyly engineered a way to do so without your consent. What's not to stop him doing it again using more sophisticated methods such as a hidden camera?
I've had clients in the past that are so charming yet are actually behaving appallingly. It sounds to me that he was getting gratification out of "having one over on you". Yuk!
If it was me, I wouldn't dream of seeing him again.

All the best,
Spangle xx

Hey girls

So tonight I had a booking with a guy iv seen once before. This guy is lovely and quite the gentleman. So he's into bondage and likes to tie me up and blindfold me.

Tonight as I was blindfolded I thiught I heard like a click noise which raised my suspicions. I sneaking managed to slip the blindfold up a bit so I could see what he was at as sure enough every time he tied me in a diff position he was snapping me too.

I was not sure weather to wait until the end of the session or go mad straight away. In the end I thought I'd wait. When it ended I admitted I had seen the camera and he admitted it, was sorry and I deleted them.

I dont want to put this in the warning section as I know he just got a bit carried away and wanted it for later when I am not there but let this be a lesson to anyone being blind folded just be careful.

After all this I just want a second opinion. Was I right to do what I done and should I go back to see him?

Xx

He definitely overstepped the mark (in fact I think he may have committed a crime? Someone correct me if I'm wrong.) Apart from anything else though, I don't think I could ever allow a client to restrain or blindfold me without going out of mind with terror, no matter how nice they seemed.

I definitely wouldn't allow anyone (no matter how much of gentleman he 'seemed' - but wasn't). 

I will never put myself in a position where I am not in control.  Even if naturally submissive it is not good to allow a client to tie you up as they could easily turn from the 'gentleman' to a 'terror' in two seconds flat and where are you - stuck in a chair (or wherever) tied up and unable to move.

Sorry it would be a definitive no go area for me in the future - he overstepped the mark on so many levels.

The only way to avoid having taken pictures is to ask to take down the phone when the client is coming in and do only in-calls. With this days technology you can be without knowing a porn actress while doing outcall to client's place.

xxx