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Ieaio

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Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« on: 03 September 2014, 03:03:11 pm »
Ok heres the scenario. This client is a joy to have in a booking, i look forward to our meets because i know i'll have a good time. BUT he calls me like 4 times a day for chitchat O.o.

Very roller coaster scenario there because he literally is my ideal client during a booking but he is a tough one when it comes to putting the escort client relationship across.

Suggestions would be appreciated ladies.


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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #1 on: 03 September 2014, 03:17:45 pm »
He might be ideal in the booking, but outside bookings is stepping out of line = to me not an ideal client and I'd want to tell him this. Ie you like him but you can't tolerate the phone call behaviour, if he wants to continue he is more than welcome but if he doesn't stop the calls you'll have to stop seeing him.

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #2 on: 03 September 2014, 03:18:17 pm »
How badly do you want to keep him as a client? Because I don't think you can get him to stop being chatty without hurting his feelings.

Of course, you could answer your phone less often.

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #3 on: 03 September 2014, 03:21:08 pm »
I would say stop answering his calls and at the end of the day text him like "sorry I was quite busy today, call me next time you want to make a booking, take care"
He ll slow down this way...

Ieaio

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #4 on: 03 September 2014, 03:21:38 pm »
I do let his calls go to voicemail a lot of the time. I see him twice a week at ?80 a go. Money isn't tight but i value him as a client because he is so friendly & punctual etc.

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #5 on: 03 September 2014, 03:46:53 pm »
I would just not respond until last thing at night and say "sorry had such a busy day. Off to sleep now but looking forward to catching up when I next see you".
If he continues to text then just ignore them unless it's specifically regarding making a booking.
He'll soon take the hint. If he asks you face to face why you haven't been responding as much then tell him you've been busy with friends & family recently and can't be texting clients when with them as it's not very discreet. If he's a decent person he'll understand that he's crossing boundaries and will stop

Ieaio

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #6 on: 03 September 2014, 04:07:04 pm »
Good plan thanks. He's pretty level headed just very chatty so should get through to him x

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #7 on: 03 September 2014, 04:41:37 pm »
If you add the time to answer the calls etc onto the time you spend with him it will take your hourly rate down drastically.  He is what I class as a Clingon ....that you can't get rid of ... And to be honest, that is what I would want to do.  He doesn't see you as just a prossie he makes a booking with. Look out!
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Erotic flower

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #8 on: 03 September 2014, 04:43:50 pm »
Ok heres the scenario. This client is a joy to have in a booking, i look forward to our meets because i know i'll have a good time. BUT he calls me like 4 times a day for chitchat O.o.

Very roller coaster scenario there because he literally is my ideal client during a booking but he is a tough one when it comes to putting the escort client relationship across.

Suggestions would be appreciated ladies.


make some money and put up your phone chat number if using adultwork and tell him your doing that  have calls coming in he can call  himself only on that  displayed number only  for as long as you want but he will have to pay in credits( you make more money out of him) or you can use as excuse so cant chat  to him as have lots of chat clients booked  ;)
« Last Edit: 03 September 2014, 04:46:17 pm by Erotic flower »

luciefate

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Re: Client ringing me for chat almost everyday
« Reply #9 on: 03 September 2014, 07:06:16 pm »
I'm inclined to agree with Sammy S. I have on client who likes to talk with me too (although admittedly not QUITE as often) but I wouldn't want to lose the business.

He can be discouraged without you hurting his feelings if this is what you want. I mean, we could all be direct and tell clients whatever we wanted to but customer service sometimes means going above and beyond (although again, not several times a day).

Personally, I would ignore his calls until the evening and then text.