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guiLLou

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starting out - trans - ptsd
« on: 16 September 2019, 12:09:26 pm »
Hello everyone

i am just starting out.

can someone give me some advice on snapchat? how do you find clients? how do you keep safe? any other places where you can send pictures and videos? not sure if i am ready for IRL yet

any trans misogyny exempt people doing sex work? i am visibly trans how to keep safe? (i had a mastectomy and scars are very visible + i'm super flat and my nipples are places)

How do you start out IRL when you have cptsd related to sex? anything you wish you knew at the start? how do you find safe venues to work in?

what are the legalities around sex work exactly in the UK?

thank you
sorry if it has already been adressed i am scrolling through rn:)  please delete if i'm not allowed to ask if some of these have already been answered

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Re: starting out - trans - ptsd
« Reply #1 on: 17 September 2019, 02:53:09 pm »
Starting at the end, it's legal to sell sex in the UK. What you can't do is advertise the fact that you are available for cash in person, on the street or other public space. So avoid street work, and you are fine.

Sex work can be good for people with mental health issues because you can often pick hours etc to suit your needs. It can also be horrible if something triggers flashbacks or other symptoms.

Sometimes there are choices you have to think about. So brothel work can be safer - there are always other people around - but it means having those hours set by others and the brothel options for trans people are many fewer.

Yes, there is transphobia, especially towards post-op trans women. As - from the sound of it - a trans man, there is much less of it, but also a smaller niche in the market.
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