Hi guys,
So I have this client, I can't call him a regular because I've only seen him once, but he keeps texting me, flirting with me, trying to get me to talk dirty to him and saying he wants to see me again, he'll give me a day that he might be able to do but then that day comes and goes and surprise, surprise, no booking is made.
I didn't mind the occasional text at first with him because we're quite like minded and we had good banter so the odd text about a mutual interest or something funny I didn't really mind, but this morning he texted me with a picture from some porno saying 'when we fuck can you look at me with this intensity in your eyes' which first of all I don't even know how to respond to that, but secondly (and most importantly) it made me feel really weird, especially seeing as I was in bed with my boyfriend when I received the message, and I couldn't work out why he was doing this? I mean, I know it's clearly getting him off in someway, I'm not that naive but could me not putting a stop to the occasional banter beforehand have lead to him thinking that this kind of behaviour is okay and was I naive to think that a bit of banter every now and then with a client is acceptable?
I'm not sure what to say to him anymore, or if I should say anything at all, and its got the point where if I don't reply to him straight away he'll send a text that just says 'Xxxx' to get my attention.
Anyway, back to the point, I suppose what I'm asking here is what would any of you do in my situation? Tell him this is inappropriate and risk losing the client or just ignore him and if he books again, he books again and if he doesn't then so be it?
Thanks
Quinn x