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Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« on: 26 July 2010, 08:32:44 am »
Morning folks!

Hope all you ladies are happy and safe   :-*

Ok, I'm on tour in Nottingham and having a great time. Cheap swanky hotels, lovely folks ( *wave* to SexyFaith) and a steady supply of  (often fit) clients.
I had a really annoying incident yesterday though. A chap rang me wanting to come and see me at my hotel for 2 hour. He arrived on time at 8, we had a quick chat, he's an accountant at one of The Big 4 (serious money I'm guessing, I worked in the same field but not at his level) and he told me how much he loved head and doesn't get it much. I got to work, and 75 minutes later after cumming 3 times (!) he wanted to have a little rest. He said that he didn't think he'd be able to go again, 2 hours was probably too much (nah, I'm just too good  ;) ) and he'd like to get heading off to watch Top Gear. He asked if I had any clients after and I mentioned that no, as we were haing 2 hours and it was quite late on a Sunday I hadn't booked anyone else in. Then , bold as brass, he asked for some money back as he was leaving early!! And I'm ashamed to say that I gave it to him  :( I didn't know what to say.
He'd paid me ?280 for the 2 hours and we'd spent and hour and 20 mins together so I offered him ?80 back. He asked for ?100..I gave it to him. I must be mad.
Jesus! I'd just gave the guy blowjob after blowjob and he's quibbling over ?20.
I'm still a newbie and although common sense would dictate that he was being out of order I wasn't 100% sure that he was and that doubt stopped me telling him to go fish,but I'm sure it's not right. Afterall, I'd set that time aside for him and him only. And it wasn't like he was leaving cos he didn't like the service..quite the opposite in fact! W*nker.

So my question is this..What would you ladies recommend to do/say if a situation like this crops up again?

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Melody x

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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #1 on: 26 July 2010, 09:06:16 am »
Hi Melody

The cheeky cheeky bastard :o Ive gotton quite enraged just reading your post.

If its any comfort a similar thing happened to me when i was first starting out and i did what you did but it was the first and last time.

The bottom line is the guy booked for 2 hours so he pays you for 2 hours and that's that! If he chooses to bugger off early then that's his choice but he shouldn't get any money back. After all you may have turned down another booking after him thinking you don't have the time  and therefore you are losing money both ways.I cant actually believe that he asked if you had anyone in after him and still asked for money back after you answered :o Then to haggle over the amount. Its just shitty, ungentlemanly,tightarsed behaviour at its finest.

So in future i would definitely make my answer a firm no, they have booked for 2 hours and they pay up for 2 hours. If they want cashback they should go to Asda ;D

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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #2 on: 26 July 2010, 09:19:37 am »
"No". He was totally out of order.

If you do CIM, my evil side would be tempted to say "Would you like some of your semen back?" but one day you'd come across someone who's into 'Roman showers', i.e. vomit play.
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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #3 on: 26 July 2010, 09:41:18 am »
Thanks guys

That does make me feel better. I'll just have to write it off to experience but I'll be ready if it happens again grr.

"No". He was totally out of order.

If you do CIM, my evil side would be tempted to say "Would you like some of your semen back?" but one day you'd come across someone who's into 'Roman showers', i.e. vomit play.

Lol would be just my luck if he was teehee x

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« Reply #4 on: 26 July 2010, 10:17:10 am »
Yeah, I found myself getting enraged on your behalf as I read this!
How dare he? Cheeky cheepskate and yes, it IS always the ones who are loaded who quibble over ?10/?20 ( that's how they remain loaded, even AFTER  er.. shooting their load! )  ;D
The only time I was asked would I consider shortening a booking was after an extremely lively hour and half of showering together ( so NOT my favorite thing   :-\ , every position, back in the shower, more frantic sex..after several orgasms throughout this ( young man, what can I say?  ;) ) He wonders if he can get the final half hour rate back? I told him in no uncertain terms he had booked it so it remains and with that he happily continued to get his moneys' worth!
That's why we take the money up front as no matter, they have booked our time in advance and that's all there is to it. If this guy was paying for anything other than your time, he'd owe YOU money at the end of that session, cheeky blighter..


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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #5 on: 26 July 2010, 10:23:09 am »
Welcome to the East Midlands. You will get a few up here that try tricks like this. It is to ensure they get as much as they can in a short time as possible for as little money as possible.
You really will have to learn to say NO very quickly if you are going to tour sweetie. It was his choice to leave early not yours. I would have politely explained that he has booked two hours and is more than welcome to stay for that time but if he chooses to leave early then he cannot have a refund.

Chalk it down to experience but just remember a new girl to any area is a target for the unscrupulous.
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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #6 on: 26 July 2010, 10:33:28 am »
Aww Melody, what a complete and utter twit. I agree with the others, you shouldn't have given the money back, but we live and learn, and if that doesn't make us feel better we shall drink cocktails  :P (of a gluttony variety I may add?!) the thing is he paid for 2 hours, which means you had written off that time for other potential clients- sure you probably wouldn't have seen anyone else, but you never know. To me its just plain rude to ask that, and if he wants to go off and watch 'top gear' instead of spending the time with you than that is his issue, its his choice to do so, but in no way does it entitle him to money back. I think the worst part for me reading this was the fact that he haggled over a ?20, such a small amount considering his job and what not (I agree with Kimba it always seems to be the loaded ones that are cheap), but its basically a slap in the face, how can anyone think that is appropriate behaviour?  ??? It sickens me!

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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #7 on: 26 July 2010, 12:30:54 pm »
What a flipping cheek! I wouldn't have given him any money back but it does make for an embarrassing situation all round.

Glad it is going well in Nottingham. I had a rubbish tour last time I was there!

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« Reply #8 on: 26 July 2010, 12:31:46 pm »
In future just smile sweetly, wiggle your glittery toenails and say "Oh thats ok I'm quite happy to switch the TV on and you can watch Top Gear here while I go for a lovely bubble bath but you ain't getting your money back LOSER!".

haha just kidding but put on the spot like that its easy to not think straight and i'm sure if it happens again you will know exactly how to deal with it.    ;D

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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #9 on: 26 July 2010, 01:32:49 pm »
I had a client leave once after 3o mins after paying for 2 hours - my rate for 2 hours is ?180. He didn't ask for any money back so I made ?6 a minute. That was pretty awesome  ;D

Anyway, no, you definitely didn't owe him any money back. Leaving was his choice. Obviously if you had to call an appointment short for any reason it's a different story - I once refunded a client half his money because I couldn't handle the size of his penis  :o If they choose to go then the way I see it they've still received what they paid for - my time. I won't be able to get another booking at such short notice. What they choose to do with that time is their business - fuck, talk, massage or walk out the door.
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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #10 on: 26 July 2010, 02:38:57 pm »
aparently this weeks top gear was epic but if he really didnt want to miss it maybe he should just organise his time better! I am going to start keeping a piece of cod in the house just to slap stupid and rude men with when they are being twats.

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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #11 on: 26 July 2010, 02:57:59 pm »
aparently this weeks top gear was epic but if he really didnt want to miss it maybe he should just organise his time better! I am going to start keeping a piece of cod in the house just to slap stupid and rude men with when they are being twats.

Will you do a cod-slapping outcall/delivery service for those of us who forget to stock up on fish? ;D
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Re: Client decided to leave early after being "satisfied"..
« Reply #12 on: 26 July 2010, 03:00:05 pm »
I would have explained haughtily and firmly that I had set aside the time for him and therefore couldn't take any other bookings so he could not get a refund. x

Jesus, some guys  :o

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« Reply #13 on: 26 July 2010, 07:16:22 pm »
Lol, this is a common thing with me..they book two hours, come after 20 mins, and then have a massage for an hour and forty minutes. I only refund if I cannot provide a service I have agreed to, but on one occasion I refunded an hour to a guy because I just could not face any longer with him. Just tell anyone who tries it that they have booked the time, and you have arranged your diary around it- end of.

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« Reply #14 on: 26 July 2010, 07:28:45 pm »
You really will have to learn to say NO very quickly if you are going to tour sweetie.

Very true. As a word of caution...I find that you are even more likely to be ripped off on tour than at home for some reason. Thats why you have got to watch them and make sure you get the money and hide.

I once made a thread about refunding guys back who leave early...but its silly. I mean, what the fuck do I look like giving money back? I think he got his jollies off even more because it probably made it seem like YOU were paying HIM for sex.  :o  He probably does it all the time to make himself feel better.

Hopefully, he'll come across the right bitch one day that'll straight shove him money down his throat and make HIM swallow it  :o

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