Well basically, for a start I dont have herpes, saw this client, young guy, had smelly breath and probably would avoid seeing again cos of that but other than that he was ok and said he hadnt had sex for 3 years and it was starting to damage his confidence, he had never been to an escort before and was nervous. funnily enough its not the first time the same thing pretty much has happened, and the other time it was also a new and nervous guy, im just presuming they are paranoid and think we are all crawling with stis

we both left positive aw feedback, and he then a few days later he txt me accusing me of giving him herpes, when he had not been seen by a doctor to clarify this. well to cut a long story short the client went to the docs who told him he has thrush and nothing else! I am really angry with the client for not only txting me accusing me of giving him an STI without having even been looked at by a doctor, but then on AW response where I had left him pos feedback he has posted that it looks like i've gave him herpes

if any client clicks and sees that they will presume I have herpes, if any girl sees it she will presume I also have it and could tell other clients, when its absoloute bullshit

what would you do about this as I dont want it to ruin my rep, I responded on my feedback to what he said, saying 'paranoid idiot, txt me accusing me of giving him herpes as per his FB response, finds out from docs he actually has thrush and nothing else. apology maybe?'

now i know this might not be the way to go about it but i feel others should know he found out he didnt have herpes and had thrush, rather than nothing being said and people presuming that I have it

wtf is wrong with dick heads like this, why start 1. txting me saying I've 'definately give him an STI' (yes, he actually said that despite me repeatedly saying it sounded like thrush from his symptoms and he should have seen a doc before contacting me) i mean, the dumbass, none of the symptoms he told me about resembled herpes at all yet he was convinced, and 2. that he had the cheek to write it on AW despite not having even seen a doctor yet! After seeing the FB im absoloutely f**** furious with this client but dont have his number available anymore to give him shit for writing it

Should I just get over it, im scared this is going to put clients off xxx

Kimmy, you need to think before you fly off the handle. If you rage at the man off the bat he's not going to be inclined to remove his slanderings and if you come on a public forum spitting with range at AW then ditto.

As upsetting and annoying as it may, when your business is on the line, be try a bit of sugar before you get out the flamethrower

I really dont understand Adultwork, if I slandered someone accusing them of this, I would think on 99% of websites the owners would be rushing to take this down worried about legal action.  It makes it an easy way to black mail a girl, dont do this or that, piss me off and I will put this on your feedback, or a rival girl in the area could get her own back on another more popular girl by posting she has an STI on her feedback under an alias.  I think it's absolutely disgusting.

I would see if you can get any legal advice on this, maybe tell Adultwork if they dont take it down you will talk to a solicitor.
I dont think what I am saying is extreme, I find this frightening that any one of us here could become the victim of this.