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Kimmy

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Well basically, for a start I dont have herpes, saw this client, young guy, had smelly breath and probably would avoid seeing again cos of that but other than that he was ok and said he hadnt had sex for 3 years and it was starting to damage his confidence, he had never been to an escort before and was nervous. funnily enough its not the first time the same thing pretty much has happened, and the other time it was also a new and nervous guy, im just presuming they are paranoid and think we are all crawling with stis

we both left positive aw feedback, and he then a few days later he txt me accusing me of giving him herpes, when he had not been seen by a doctor to clarify this. well to cut a long story short the client went to the docs who told him he has thrush and nothing else! I am really angry with the client for not only txting me accusing me of giving him an STI without having even been looked at by a doctor, but then on AW response where I had left him pos feedback he has posted that it looks like i've gave him herpes

if any client clicks and sees that they will presume I have herpes, if any girl sees it she will presume I also have it and could tell other clients, when its absoloute bullshit

what would you do about this as I dont want it to ruin my rep, I responded on my feedback to what he said, saying 'paranoid idiot, txt me accusing me of giving him herpes as per his FB response, finds out from docs he actually has thrush and nothing else. apology maybe?'

now i know this might not be the way to go about it but i feel others should know he found out he didnt have herpes and had thrush, rather than nothing being said and people presuming that I have it

wtf is wrong with dick heads like this, why start 1. txting me saying I've 'definately give him an STI' (yes, he actually said that despite me repeatedly saying it sounded like thrush from his symptoms and he should have seen a doc before contacting me) i mean, the dumbass, none of the symptoms he told me about resembled herpes at all yet he was convinced, and 2. that he had the cheek to write it on AW despite not having even seen a doctor yet! After seeing the FB im absoloutely f**** furious with this client but dont have his number available anymore to give him shit for writing it :(

Should I just get over it, im scared this is going to put clients off xxx

Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #1 on: 10 November 2012, 10:29:10 pm »
Try contacting AW, they have been known to delete FB if there is something underhand been done. It may not work but nothing lost with trying.
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Kimmy

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #2 on: 10 November 2012, 10:48:02 pm »
Try contacting AW, they have been known to delete FB if there is something underhand been done. It may not work but nothing lost with trying.

Thanks, have messaged using the help centre and will see how I get on xx

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #3 on: 10 November 2012, 11:50:48 pm »
What a stupid stupid little boy. The worst thing like you said is that others will read it and actually believe the bullshit! Ahhhhhhh

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #4 on: 10 November 2012, 11:59:01 pm »
If you have good feedback on AW, and this other guy has none then I think most guys will give you the benefit of the doubt; you can kind of tell when feedback is disingenuous/from a crazy person. But do email them and let us know how you get on xx

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #5 on: 11 November 2012, 09:28:03 am »
You could hide your feedback until AW decide to remove it or not. To be fair doing this does look pretty bad as well- but it may stop other girls from spreading exactly what is happening around. You could even write a note on your profile explaining or giving a reason of why you were hiding feedback (you could just say, for example, a client used your real name).

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #6 on: 11 November 2012, 09:54:51 am »
I wouldn't hide my feedback as it will make you look like you had something to hide. I'd just contact adultwork and get the fb removed. I think saying you hid fb for reasons other than the truth would also make you look guilty as others may have seen it but hopefully you could be lucky and hardly anyone has seen it.  Just do what you have to do and let it die down without causing too much problems to yourself.
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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #7 on: 11 November 2012, 11:10:07 am »
You are not the only one who had a similar problem but as not herpes.
On that time as a client and i ex fling i had seeing for over 6 months.
The client he told me i as the first escort he had visit and all as ok after few days he texts me saying he ain't felling good and as felling fainting if i had giving him something....
I ask him did u check yourself he said no i got very annoid because in all my life i never had ever a std so i went to doctors and got tested and as result i was clear i felt so annoid told him of and told him never to book me again hate when people lie about shit like that.
Plus my ex end up finding up as is ex who gave him.
Mens they are so annoying sometimes :FF

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #8 on: 11 November 2012, 11:19:57 am »
That's horrible, really feel for you. Can you ask him politely to remove it? I know you're angry but if it makes the situation go away it may be worth approaching him and letting him know the extent to which he's caused you trouble.

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #9 on: 11 November 2012, 06:21:41 pm »
If you have good feedback on AW, and this other guy has none #
then I think most guys will give you the benefit of the doubt;
you can kind of tell when feedback is disingenuous/from a crazy person.
No chance. Men don't think like that.
And if women paid for sex, neither would they.

15,000 or more escorts, one listed as having given someone an STI,
in a comment which looks dubious.
If this was you or I looking to pay for a punt, we may think that this is a lie.
(Maybe not)
But to err on the side of caution, we would see another escort.

Kimmy, don't panic and wait to see how AW respond.
This will be a non-issue if they delete the review.

I suggest you hide your feedback till then.
Use the suggest above, about client posting your real name.
Having ANY SUGGESTION that you have an STI
is far more damaging than having feedback switched off for a while.
A client saying you gave them an STI will get you zero clients.
Hide the comment.

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #10 on: 11 November 2012, 07:01:20 pm »
Ive read youre post and to be honest giving positive feedback for a escort(you) then write that negative stuff looks so weird, but then at least you go the chance to add the truth. you say you have other positive feedbacks then hope aw remove his useless comments and  what a damn nuisance .  :FF

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #11 on: 11 November 2012, 07:18:36 pm »
You could hide your feedback until AW decide to remove it or not. To be fair doing this does look pretty bad as well- but it may stop other girls from spreading exactly what is happening around. You could even write a note on your profile explaining or giving a reason of why you were hiding feedback (you could just say, for example, a client used your real name).

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Yes this is the perfect thing to do until this gets sorted. You poor thing  :(. Funnily enough the above really did happen to me a few weeks ago, and the client didn't even know what my real name was! He emailed me straight after writing the FB saying sorry I called you ***** not Jasmine etc. then I went arrrrgh that's my real name! How weird! I temporarily hid my feedback and left a note on my profile saying that a client had accidentally used my real name, and I would happily copy and paste FB and send it via email in the meantime until it got changed. Good luck x

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #12 on: 11 November 2012, 07:40:17 pm »
I really feel for you with this one, someone wrote something terrible about me online once which was not true and although it was taken down really shook me up.  I would think Adultwork would have to take it down, surely this is libel? definately hide your feedback in the meantime, hopefully it is all sorted out now.

This is what makes me so angry about the internet sometimes, people can post things online without putting their brain in gear, they dont think about the effect it will have on the person they have posted it about.

Please let us know how you get on, this could happen to any of us.

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #13 on: 11 November 2012, 07:49:02 pm »
I emailed AW, they removed my response to his feedback but not the f**** response he wrote that says I gave him herpes in the first place! Wtf are they fuckin backwards or something  :FF I emailed them back telling them no I want the feedback the client wrote saying I have herpes removing, I'll see what they say xx

Just reading through all your messages now, Im furious about this as you can imagine x

Kimmy

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Re: client accusing me of giving him herpes, writing it on feedback
« Reply #14 on: 11 November 2012, 07:54:47 pm »
You could hide your feedback until AW decide to remove it or not. To be fair doing this does look pretty bad as well- but it may stop other girls from spreading exactly what is happening around. You could even write a note on your profile explaining or giving a reason of why you were hiding feedback (you could just say, for example, a client used your real name).

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I dont want to do this for obvious reasons (I have over 100 positive feedback too) and it isnt on my actual feedback, he left me positive feedback xx

I left him positive feedback too (im the only one who has done so as he had never seen an escort before) and I noticed he had 'responded' saying that it looks like I gave him herpes, this is the feedback I want removing, I wrote a response on my feedback saying how he accused me then found out he had thrush

I mean fancy writing it on AW before he'd even been to a doctor! I'd love to kill the smelly breathed twat  :FF