I have a client who continues to pressure me very often to not use a condom. I see him 3-4 times every week, he has shown me his papers stating that he is clean of stds and I am on birth control. He believes that since he's invested so much money in me, that eventually there should be some sort of trust in which he doesn't have to wear protection.

Wearing a condom is my #1 rule and though I am comfortable with him and trust him, the real reason I don't want to break this rule is because I don't want his old naked dick inside my vagina and my mouth. Lol that's probably dumb, but it grosses me out more!
Plus I already give him a discounted rate and extra time, every time.

Is it wrong that I make him use a condom even though I see him so often?
Do you have any clients that you allow bare back?

To answer your first question... It's not wrong at all that you don't let him go bareback! Stick to your guns! I know it can be difficult to resist giving in to pressure to regular clients who give us so much business, but I'd rather not have this man's business if he was going to give me a gross disease or make my heart hit the floor every time he called to arrange an appointment because I'd be dreading bareback with him. I don't believe someone producing an STD status card is any proof they are clear of STDs, as they could have had unprotected sex and caught something between getting tested and getting the results and that card.

Second question - Nope, none at all. I will block someone even if they request bareback. My thinking behind that is "If you ask for something you really want and are refused, you might try to get it anyway..." and bareback is one of the few things I can refuse to do that they could sneakily try to do anyway, by pulling the condom off in doggy or ripping it or something.

If you don't want to offer bareback, then don't, and good on you for saying no to keep yourself sane. He should go see a lady that has made the choice to go bareback and is happy about it, instead of seeing someone who does not want to do it at all. He pays for your time, and has the pleasure of doing things with you that you like in that time - he is not entitled to jackshit as long as you advertise honestly, and I'm sure you do indeed.

He sounds like an idoit. Even if he is nice, that is out of the question. Don't give in. What if you ended up with HIV because he faked his papers. That's your life we're talking about, who cares about 1 regular. There will be others. No matter how desperate you get for money, never do bareback.

Don't know about other clinics, but in London got my HIV  test is immediately word of mouth because it takes a less than a minute, and anything else by text message for bacterial e.t.c infections a day later. Personally, I think it's a bit dodgy that some people say they have paper work to prove it, that so 90's or 80's lol

Don't risk your health over money, this is a high risk job when no protection is used, no matter what he says you don't know where else he goes to, maybe even convinced to do BB with him or even if he has an agenda.  x

Dexi is right. It can take 4 weeks to 3 months for HIV to show up on a test, so someone can be unaware, plus even tho the risks are much lowers, if someone is on hiv meds, the test can come back negative even tho they are postive.

There are no (zero) circumstances when I would have intercourse without a condom. It doesn't matter how much a client spends, I would not break or bend my rules - in fact someone that valuable I most definitely wouldn't be doing anything like that with.

One word answer for me .....  'NEVER'

I have a client who continues to pressure me very often to not use a condom. I see him 3-4 times every week, he has shown me his papers stating that he is clean of stds and I am on birth control. He believes that since he's invested so much money in me, that eventually there should be some sort of trust in which he doesn't have to wear protection.

Wearing a condom is my #1 rule and though I am comfortable with him and trust him, the real reason I don't want to break this rule is because I don't want his old naked dick inside my vagina and my mouth. Lol that's probably dumb, but it grosses me out more!
Plus I already give him a discounted rate and extra time, every time.

Is it wrong that I make him use a condom even though I see him so often?
Do you have any clients that you allow bare back?

Bareback aside: this guy is a tool. He's trying to manipulate you. He hasn't "invested" a goddamn thing. One "invests" in a future... that there will be a payoff down the line. The point of prostitution is they pay, they have sex, and you part ways with no obligation to one another.

Giving him a discount and extra time probably made him feel like he could push your boundaries.

If you don't want his naked dick in you, then that is that. You don't need a reason. It's your body and you do what the Hell you want with it. He can go "invest" his money elsewhere. Cut this guy loose.