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Tiffany_jane

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Need some advice on a booking I just received
« on: 16 September 2014, 09:51:43 am »
Hey ... I live in Wales an a guy contacted me last night from London hammersmith to ask if I could travel up for a booking ... The booking is two 1/2 hours so I'm charging him 400 do you think I should ask for a deposit seeing as I will be travelling 2 and half hours by car before I go just in case I get there an he let's me down ? Xx

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #1 on: 16 September 2014, 09:55:04 am »
Absolutely, BUT may I ask how far you are travelling as it sounds like you're not charging enough. I charge ?250 for a 3 hour round trip and an hour's booking which is still too cheap probably.

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #2 on: 16 September 2014, 10:13:40 am »
From cardiff so it takes 2 and half to 3 hours drive ?? Xx

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #3 on: 16 September 2014, 10:25:17 am »
I would be asking myself why a man in a city with thousands of prossies available is trying to get you to travel so far away from home for a relatively short appointment.

Even if he isn't up to no good (and if you decide to go, get a deposit and be rigorous with your security checks), I wouldn't bother when I can earn more money at home in the entire day I'd have to write off to do it. I don't often do outcalls anyway, but the booking time has to amount to the same as or greater than the travel time or I don't go.

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #4 on: 16 September 2014, 10:29:16 am »
Absolutely! Was just going to post the same thing as Amy. Talk about coals to Newcastle! The squillions of sex workers in London not doing it for him? Does he have reviews?
You'll spend 6 hours driving to and fro to do that gig! Why? I'd insist on the whole amount, plus petrol money, up-front.
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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #5 on: 16 September 2014, 11:50:38 am »
I have had several clients tell me that they engage girls from OUTSIDE London for a variety of reasons that I won't post on here. I'm not suggesting Amy and Sourgrapes have not made a valid point BUT if you get a good feeling about it and you WANT to do it, then go for it but your are not charging enough. I would charge a ?500 min but that's just me.

Only my opinion but as this is an open forum we will have differing views on things. At the end of the day, regardless of what anyone says, YOU need to make the decision that's right for you.

Good luck, whatever you decide xxx

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #6 on: 16 September 2014, 04:05:49 pm »
Ask for more money, and take a friend with you.

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #7 on: 16 September 2014, 08:48:20 pm »
Make sure you obtain proof of residency for the hotel room or address you are visiting.

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #8 on: 16 September 2014, 09:15:23 pm »
I would be asking myself why a man in a city with thousands of prossies available is trying to get you to travel so far away from home for a relatively short appointment.

Even if he isn't up to no good (and if you decide to go, get a deposit and be rigorous with your security checks), I wouldn't bother when I can earn more money at home in the entire day I'd have to write off to do it. I don't often do outcalls anyway, but the booking time has to amount to the same as or greater than the travel time or I don't go.

Agree with Amy for once.  Why would he be asking a girl to travel all that way when there are thousands of girls of all types closer?

Check out warnings and wasters....this is ringing bells in my head I'm sure there is a guy that scams girls with this.

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #9 on: 17 September 2014, 02:43:10 pm »
Agree that it's very strange he would be asking you to travel to London... I understand someone from an area with not a lot of prossies having someone come a long way, but London? if you can't find what you want here, then you don't want anything!

I would take the train, why drive? Ask him to buy your tickets for you, then add some shit for extra expenses which you need up front... and yeah, you're not charging enough. But really, I would be hesitant...
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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #10 on: 17 September 2014, 03:45:00 pm »
I should say that I've done plenty of outcalls to London and further over the years without ever having problems, but I was going also on the warnings thread posted by the OP and (rightly or wrongly) took her to be fairly inexperienced and therefore easier to take advantage of. It reads to me as somebody deliberately trying to get her away from her comfort zone and that doesn't normally end well.

One other thing she could do is combine the booking with a mini-tour if she decides to go ahead - book a hotel (so there's somewhere to go if the bloke is an arsehole/has no money/etc etc) and stick an ad up for a couple of days?

Agree with Amy for once.

I wasn't aware we'd disagreed, but then my memory is worse than my goldfishes :D. As for the warnings and wasters post, it reminds me of one too but I can't remember which? There's a couple it could be, to be honest - we'll just have to wait and see if the OP comes back with any more info :).

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Re: Need some advice on a booking I just received
« Reply #11 on: 17 September 2014, 03:51:08 pm »
Hey ... I live in Wales an a guy contacted me last night from London hammersmith to ask if I could travel up for a booking ... The booking is two 1/2 hours so I'm charging him 400 do you think I should ask for a deposit seeing as I will be travelling 2 and half hours by car before I go just in case I get there an he let's me down ? Xx

?400 for what is effectively an 8 hour booking (plus petrol) is far too cheap, IMO. You should be looking at about ?600-700 at least.

Sounds like a timewaster though, so make sure you get a deposit if you decide to go ahead with it.