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Title: Chatting after sex
Post by: Jessiegirl on 12 July 2021, 11:02:18 pm
A lot of my clients like a chat after sex. Me too if its interesting. But sometimes get the awkward silences or they ask too many questions about my personal sex life which is awkward. Just wondered how you manage the awkward silence.
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: MissElvira on 13 July 2021, 01:27:39 pm
Just smile at them and flutter your lashes lol and clients are always nosey I often get them asking my real name.
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: ff on 13 July 2021, 02:33:53 pm
I let them get dressed and leave I'm not bothered if it goes silent .if I have a good rapport with a client we chat a bit more .
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Missizzy on 13 July 2021, 03:11:34 pm
AM I the only person who actually likes this part of the job?  ;D
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Jessiegirl on 13 July 2021, 04:09:37 pm
I do like chatting to some if it's interesting but just hate the awkward silences for those that try to remain for the whole booking time. I can literally see them thinking of what to say next whilst I take a sneaky peek at the clock.
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: VoluptuousCurves on 13 July 2021, 04:48:49 pm
AM I the only person who actually likes this part of the job?  ;D

Nope! I actually like having a chat to most of my clients - I particularly like working in larger cities like London, Birmingham, Glasgow as you tend to meet people from all around the world.

If talk dries up, FOOD is my go-to subject! "So what are you up to later? I've not made any plans for dinner tonight yet, have you eaten out around here? What's your favourite type of food?"
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Missizzy on 13 July 2021, 06:18:36 pm
Oh I don't worry about conversation drying up. I could chat for England.
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Snow Whitest on 13 July 2021, 06:34:01 pm
Me too Missizzy, I never even notice when their eyes glaze over and they start backing slowly out of the room :)
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Phoenix on 13 July 2021, 08:42:53 pm
Oh I love a good chat. If only I could earn the same money on chatting and massage (them on me preferably   8))
 How blissful to never have to get undressed for work again  :-\

Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Lushblossom on 15 July 2021, 03:32:53 pm
I agree with you Phoenix lol.
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: saltysweet on 15 July 2021, 07:23:04 pm
Most clients are ready to rock home or back to work about their business. Their perfectly lovely and polite but scoot off once they're done. So chatting doesn't really occur.
I'd not feel an urge to keep 'chatters' entertained with light convo.
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: VoluptuousCurves on 15 July 2021, 07:58:08 pm
Me too Missizzy, I never even notice when their eyes glaze over and they start backing slowly out of the room :)

Oh God this is so me 😂
Title: Re: Chatting after sex
Post by: Harriet_Lille on 26 July 2021, 11:51:43 am
I just deflect from personal stuff. If they start asking personal things about kids I start to rub their legs or back and ask them if they like that, I move on the topic to them. I don't get many asking me though. I have had a few before who have really tried to pry.