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Vichyssoise

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Chastity device and key
« on: 28 November 2014, 08:00:30 am »
I have just received a email from a guy who is quite likely a time waster but his message was no frills and to the point so I am a little undecided. He is asking me to be a key holder for a chastity device and a regular spanking session. Hmm, not sure this is for real but just in case, what on earth would you charge to be a key holder?
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #1 on: 28 November 2014, 08:15:50 am »
That would depend on how long he wants you to hold the key for, you can set a day rate or a one off rate for this it all depends on you.

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #2 on: 28 November 2014, 10:45:55 am »
These guys are usually dreamers in my experience, I have only had 1 client actually be put in chastity by me and he was a regular and he provided the cock cage, they can be expensive so don't advise buying one and letting a guy leave with it,

IF he is genuine get him to buy the cage and charge him ?20 a day till he comes back to have it removed x
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #3 on: 28 November 2014, 11:01:23 am »
Further emails seem to indicate he is genuine. It is his own device and is something he has done when living in another country and is now looking for someone to replace the lady he had there. I have asked him to now make contact via phone so I can get a better vibe from him. But I am still at a loss as to what to charge for holding the key, should I just charge a little extra for his spanking session and that is to include the time spent holding the key or say my usual hour charge and then x amount for key holding and what is a reasonable x amount for both parties? I don't want to rip him off.
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #4 on: 28 November 2014, 11:08:52 am »
I have only ever had two guys who were serious about the key holding thing. I get email inquiries quite regularly, but most are just fantasy. Both brought their own devices, which is best because of the expense, and also because of hygiene considerations and fit (they come in different sizes).

Both went through the charade of depositing a key with me. Neither turned up to have it removed. I think you'll find they come with two keys, so leaving one with you is just part of the fantasy on the day. I simply charged for the session, not for any key holding duties, and chucked both keys after a few weeks.
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Vichyssoise

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #5 on: 28 November 2014, 11:14:28 am »
Oh well if he turns up just for the one session nothing lost. I think I will insist on having both keys ;D
That'll teach him. Thanks girls glad I asked.
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #6 on: 28 November 2014, 04:02:18 pm »
How do you know he doesn't have three? ;D

You can also get numbered plastic tags. If you use one of those, you can demand a photo of it intact with, say, that day's newspaper visible...
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #7 on: 28 November 2014, 04:20:10 pm »
XW5 I lurrrv it  ;D. I think if he is genuine I will have a lot of fun with this. He is ringing tomorrow. Any more suggestions greatly appreciated. Not that confidant with being in charge and bossy. In fact in my other life I am quite submissive. Is this my alter ego clambering to get out.
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #8 on: 28 November 2014, 04:26:49 pm »
Something iv done many times, I currently have 4 chastity slaves (1 in Norway)

Number one rule.. He provides the chastity yes, But you provide the padlock therefore he has no key access (get from any hardware store)

I charge for sessions and the only time I charge for remote services is when they want tasks inbetween. Lets face it, keeping a key in your jewellery box shouldn't be chargeable

The good thing about having them locked up properly is that it provides a regular income, as the only time they are permitted release is during your session. This work out to be more profitable then charging to be key holder

Also make sure then wash before device is locked on and on removal, and they have to pee sitting down

Any questions feel free to ask  :-*

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #9 on: 28 November 2014, 04:43:32 pm »

Number one rule.. He provides the chastity yes, But you provide the padlock therefore he has no key access (get from any hardware store)


In total agreement with this!

Tell you what it's easy, I usually charge extra for session meet as they usually stay for 2 hours plus I leave it up to them to pay what they think is right price....( I have great slaves and they usually tip large 200 plus )

I have a clear safe timer safe...if that makes sense? And I place the keys into it for the time duration until the next meet ...longest has been 17 days, but know there is a gentleman in Germany who is past two years at present....now that's Chastity!!! Cleaning must be a bugger but know you can have custom ones built!

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #10 on: 28 November 2014, 05:16:19 pm »
Thank you Mistress-Devon and Miss-M he has his own device, but I love the idea of my lock and key. I so hope this is going to happen now. Thank you both for your input, so helpful to somebody like me who has no clue.
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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #11 on: 28 November 2014, 05:27:17 pm »
No problem CC x

Ohhh little tip buy a small pocket vibe ( it's called C...COX) and use it on him during his chastity wearing session.....drives them wild!!!!

Mistress-Devon

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #12 on: 28 November 2014, 05:36:37 pm »
No problem CC x

Ohhh little tip buy a small pocket vibe ( it's called C...COX) and use it on him during his chastity wearing session.....drives them wild!!!!

Ah yes especially for the metal devices.. I use the big powerful wand vibrator...

or (Bit advanced for most) Electrics, feel the current running around the metal and causing a shocking sensation to all private areas  ;D

Must keep my sadistic mind to myself, but I find this exciting

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #13 on: 28 November 2014, 05:41:02 pm »
Haha  ;D

Yes but think CC might be a bit freaked out with that one MD lol x

First time I used that thought bloke was having a heart attack, then thought better turn it down.....x

Nipple clamps and chastity belt, one vibe in one hand, then electric one in the other.....worm comes to mind.....oh we are cruel x

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Re: Chastity device and key
« Reply #14 on: 28 November 2014, 05:51:34 pm »
Whilst body bagged?!

Grrrr  8)