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woofy86

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For those who use protection during oral
« on: 18 November 2012, 09:04:24 am »
I have done male escorting in the past and did ask clients to wear protection during oral. But time as tough and coming back into the industry.

Anyways as you know more risky doing men + men sex, and this time around don't want to risk HIV, so only going to do protection all the way... I know my prices have to a bit cheaper and have to  use super thin condoms.

If anyone here, male or female... only do safe during oral, how have you managed to keep a successful business while having this policy? Any tips.... If anyone is against safe oral also your welcome to air your thoughts :)
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #1 on: 18 November 2012, 09:19:09 am »
If you use the search function there are tons of threads already about the OWO v OW debate - here is just one of them:

http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=2873.msg80615#msg80615
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #2 on: 18 November 2012, 09:32:55 am »
When i started safe oral was the only way so it is the norm for me ............................................

I have used extra safe condoms for oral ( when only had these left) and still get the client back it is the overall package /experience the client wants

if you advertise as doing only ow you will get the clients that are fine with that plus you will give a better service as you are doing

something you are ok with .

Good luck xx


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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #3 on: 18 November 2012, 10:15:39 am »
I think you are right in your thinking re OW.  If clients cant accept this they are not worthy of you.   You are thinking of them as well as yourself.
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #4 on: 18 November 2012, 10:46:18 am »
I only offer protected services including using an oral dam for reverse oral, anyway I have no problems getting and keeping clients. I either get guys who don't care if it's covered oral or not or I get guys who intentionally book me due to only offering protected services.

And I charge no less for it!

If I end up with only thick condoms left, I just suck that bit harder lol. Xx
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #5 on: 18 November 2012, 11:55:42 am »
im going to have to do protected oral, my front tooth has become wobbly and bleeding gum, im worried it will come out onto a cock!
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #6 on: 18 November 2012, 01:10:59 pm »
As you can see, there are plenty of female escorts who only offer OW.

The problem for male escorts doing the same is the very high occurrence of oral sex in male-male sexual encounters and the very low usage of condoms for oral sex. So there is a very high expectation for OWO.

On the other side, there is a significant number of clients who want to go down on you and don't care about whether or not they get sucked.

What do you think the risk of OWO for HIV transmission is?
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woofy86

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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #7 on: 18 November 2012, 01:56:52 pm »
Well it's very low but know guys who only do oral ( not escorts) who have been infected this way, sad thing is sometimes, you don't know when you have a micro cut in your mouth. Not meaning to sound dumb but what is OWO?
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woofy86

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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #8 on: 18 November 2012, 02:18:23 pm »
I take it ow = oral with and  owo= oral without protection
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #9 on: 18 November 2012, 02:27:57 pm »
Quote from: woofy86 on 18 November 2012, 02:18:23 pm
I take it ow = oral with and  owo= oral without protection

That's right Woofy, but if your knowledge of common industry acronyms is that thin you probably need to do a bit more research or you might struggle with your ads and so on. There are a lot of them, and those two are among the most day-to-day ones.

Have you read through the main SAAFE site? It's pretty much gender neutral bar some bits :).
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #10 on: 18 November 2012, 07:18:25 pm »
Partly because of the above, those two are not commonly used on the gay scene (which I should have remembered before using them, blush).

The equivalent jargon would include hanky code colours for various things (and knowing what saying 'all colours' is letting yourself in for), plus words like 'chem(s)' aka 'I will be your drug dealer' or, at the very least, 'I don't mind if you are off your head'.
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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #11 on: 18 November 2012, 07:26:21 pm »
Jeezo Ian, I must live in another world.  Well in a straight one anyway.  Ive never heard of any of the lingo you have used.
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woofy86

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Re: For those who use protection during oral
« Reply #12 on: 18 November 2012, 10:07:12 pm »
You are a funny crowd ;D It's nice to know I am not the only ho in the village and I have brother and sisters out there lol
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