Well I had a boyfriend and started escorting and never told him, he was long distance though so it was easy to hide it. It didn't affect our relationship, however we broke up for other reasons.

I then met someone else and just couldn't work anymore, I felt too guilty lying to him (I didn't trust him enough to tell him, and he to this day does not know). So I gave it all up for him, and then a year later he broke up with me out of the blue. So feeling a little bitter about all of it.

I've never had the courage to be honest to anyone about it and I admire anyone that does, but for me it's just too much of a risk.

For me it's easier just to be single.

I do think he can really love you, love is never black and white, but it just becomes an issue of do you want someone to be ok with you sleeping with other people? Because personally I wouldn't be ok with my partner accepting it. Maybe that's because I like a guy who makes me feel protected and because I'm a hopeless romantic. I think it really depends on what you are looking for from a partner.

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dont let those thoughts creep in if hes ok with it now, it would be highly unfair to suddenly decide he had a problem with it later down the line
why cant he love you just because your a escort he loves you warts and all and sounds mature. it sounds more like youve got more of a problem with it than him if your wondering if he really loves you because your an escort, maybe its a little insecurity and that is something you will need to work on for the realtionship to survive:)

Couldn't agree more 

Jealousy comes out of insecurity really. If he feels secure, it may be that your work doesn't threaten him.

I don't know whether it's the job, or whether my views are just a bit liberal, but I don't really see sex as being very different to any other activity I might do with someone other than a boyfriend.

I sometimes go out for dinner with my boyfriend. Other times I go out for dinner with a friend (male or female), and he knows that a) it doesn't mean that I don't want to have dinner with him and b) going for dinner with him is a different experience to dinner with anyone else, because I've chosen him as my boyfriend.

I suppose I'm lucky to be able to compartmentalise things that way.

I have to say that I work whilst in mine, he knew I was working when we met eachother through a friend and I know he loves me. I never even question it. I dont need to go into major detail on my relationship but I have never thought 'He musn't love me'. His actions would tell me that.

I had this conversation with a girl I worked with in a  parlour. I shared the shift with her for 7 months and she would lie to potential boyfriends she was a dancer as she could never accept they loved her if they knew she was a prostitute. Over time it was really obvious she had massive self esteem issues and I think thats what this lies in.

Escorts are no different to other women (except maybe more sexually experienced  ) and men fall in love with them.

My bf knows and knew before we started dating.  He isn't thrilled about it but he loves me so much that he's willing to accept it

Maybe it's the case that your bf may not like it but loves you enough that he wants to be with you regardless?

Relationships are all about give and take.
Yes def ...it's all about give and take.