Your first port of call should be the Main site which there is a button for just along from the Home button (above).  You should read the main site at least three or four times and then some ........

Then if you still have questions use the Search button which is between the Home button and the Main site button and put in appropriate searches and you should come up with quite a number of threads to peruse.  There have been quite a number of males and females ask the same questions as yourself over the past few months at least.

Then if your questions have not been answered post a thread here.  There  is just too much info for us to answer all your questions in one post.

Good luck with your reading and welcome to SAAFE.

One thing I will point out is, if you work alone in an apartment then you are not breaking the law but if you plan on working from the same apartment as your flat mate then you are breaking the law and the police can enter and raid your premises at any time and from what I hear that is not a pleasant experience indeed.

One thing I will point out is, if you work alone in an apartment then you are not breaking the law but if you plan on working from the same apartment as your flat mate then you are breaking the law and the police can enter and raid your premises at any time and from what I hear that is not a pleasant experience indeed.

The person whose name is on the lease is going to be breaking the law along with anybody the police could feasibly pin an 'assisting' charge on, but it is not illegal to work in a brothel. As Ana says, I would imagine the boyfriends would take the majority of the damage should the law take an interest, fairly or otherwise.

It might also depend where nataliababy is based.  I was wondering if she is actually living in the UK as "condo" seems more of an American term.  In that case there are other issues with the law overall. 

However, I would agree to try and read the main site?s info as much as possible.  Also remember that you are ?in charge?, i.e. set your own boundaries.  No one, especially a client should dictate to you what services you should offer.  When you?re new, nervous and flustered, you can be an ideal target for boundary pushers and manipulative people.  So draw up your own working rules. What are you prepared to do, what are your no nos?  You have a right to choose how you want to work, so don?t let people push you into anything that you are uncomfortable with.  It can be a good job if you work within your own comfort zone. 

Don?t let money worries cloud your common sense.  It?s easy to say I know when you are worried and skint.  But if something seems too good to be true, it usually is.  Don?t let anyone dazzle you with big promises.  Stick to your guns, your safety procedures, your rules.  A decent client will respect that.  A con artist will try to push your boundaries.
Good luck! x     

Yes, I actually live in Canada. The two men I live with were my friends before we started this business so they are i guess "pimps" but they arent harsh or cruel in any way. I think they would be the ones in trouble if the police came but your comments

May I ask what the men/pimps will be helping you with? And can you not do it all for yourself?

im not the most experienced person on here, but this is sounding alarm bells to me hun.

okay thank you ladies