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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #255 on: 04 November 2020, 10:11:22 pm »
I certainly wouldn't do them, very risky as per your personal safety and uncomfortable too.
I've had a few regulars ask for them I think just because it's a bit risky. Even if it was possible to find somewhere secluded enough when I quote them an outcall price for the service they seem to go off the idea lol.

Yeah they do not want to pay an outcall normal fee, these types of men usually want it dirt cheap. I think some of the men that do a lot of car meets kerb crawl too in the red light areas.

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« Reply #256 on: 05 November 2020, 12:24:26 am »
A school acquaintance beat and raped six SW he invited into his car. He invited me when I was a civvy but I had a bad feeling about him. He insisted, I refused. No I wouldn't do car meets.

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« Reply #257 on: 05 November 2020, 01:23:06 am »
Too many downsides, more danger, illegal so could get in trouble via police, where can you wash straight after the deed? No where. Just too seedy for me but some women do offer them so personal choice at the end of the day.

agree it’s the seediness that bothers me, obviously the safety aspect too. I think I’ll knock the idea on the head

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« Reply #258 on: 05 November 2020, 01:23:45 am »
A school acquaintance beat and raped six SW he invited into his car. He invited me when I was a civvy but I had a bad feeling about him. He insisted, I refused. No I wouldn't do car meets.

jesus christ  :o

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« Reply #259 on: 05 November 2020, 02:38:12 pm »
I have done car meets a couple of times with trusted regulars, who I know only ever want a BJ to completion and are over and done with in 5 minutes. But I don't like them either, and worry about the safety aspect. But I have done them, and would do them again if I was in a situation where I really needed the money. For me being in serious financial difficulty is more frightening than doing car meets. So no judgement here.

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« Reply #260 on: 07 November 2020, 08:38:43 am »
I did a car meet once but i had bad vibes and I felt v vulnerable and not in control of the situation. I would not do them again.

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« Reply #261 on: 07 November 2020, 09:16:54 am »
Only when I am desperate for dough.  I know a secluded car park in the countryside.  But yes not too safe is it ....

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« Reply #262 on: 07 November 2020, 06:20:11 pm »
Over the years I’ve had maybe 3-4 requests to go to someone’s big rig (18 wheeler, long hauler, lorry?) for an outcall & I’ve refused. Every time, they’ve tried to persuade me, saying how their trucks are set up like little apartments & how nice they are ... nope.

I know how nice they can be, my ex owned 3 of’em, FFS. It’s too much like walking the blade (street walking); & here stateside there’s girls at truck stops that do this, they’re called “lot lizards🦎.” Believe me, *not* a compliment.

But yeah, car dates seem really scary to me & at least here, all the guys are simply trying to avoid paying more. There’s basically no bells🔔& whistles with a car date, so the perception is they shouldn’t have to pay💰you, oh, ANYTHING🤬🪓.
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« Reply #263 on: 08 November 2020, 11:49:48 pm »
Over the years I’ve had maybe 3-4 requests to go to someone’s big rig (18 wheeler, long hauler, lorry?) for an outcall & I’ve refused. Every time, they’ve tried to persuade me, saying how their trucks are set up like little apartments & how nice they are ... nope.

I know how nice they can be, my ex owned 3 of’em, FFS. It’s too much like walking the blade (street walking); & here stateside there’s girls at truck stops that do this, they’re called “lot lizards🦎.” Believe me, *not* a compliment.

But yeah, car dates seem really scary to me & at least here, all the guys are simply trying to avoid paying more. There’s basically no bells🔔& whistles with a car date, so the perception is they shouldn’t have to pay💰you, oh, ANYTHING🤬🪓.

I can see why you'd avoid the big rig clients. I watch too many real crime shows and have seen how that can work out.
Never understand why they think car meets should be cheap when it involves me dragging my ass out of my warm comfy home/bed to an uncomfortable and potentially unsafe situation... should be charged double at least! Not that even that would tempt me.

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« Reply #264 on: 21 November 2020, 05:36:28 pm »
Not something I would normally entertain. Having said that I have got an occasional regular, the sort you see when they are visiting your area for work, who I have met twice in his car when he has contacted to say he is passing through and would I be able to meet. It's just been kissing, groping and oral and parked up somewhere really discreet. No way would I consider getting in a car with a client I didn't know.

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« Reply #265 on: 21 November 2020, 08:44:03 pm »
I got a guy last week texting to meet in his van for a 15 minute, I don't even do 30 minutes at the moment. For me it's too risky and I wouldn't feel safe as someone else said you just don't know if a group could be waiting. I watched the film Joy the other day and this made me think even more how lucky I am to choose to escort and not have to work RLD. Also as a kid I was always told not to get into cars with strangers and I didn't follow my mums advice when I was 16. I met a older guy and he was charming and I agreed to go on a date. Ended letting him pick me up for a date, Went to a country pub and on the way back to drop me home he pulled into a wooded area. Well I was beyond panicking, I let him kiss me but because I felt scared I gave him a BJ and my gut was screaming with panic and when he parked up I already knew he'd want more than a kiss. I was a virgin and luckily stayed one, I got him to drop me home. But that was so stupid of me and made me realise he had all the power. So I'd never do a car meet or let a client pick me up or drop me home and plenty have offered to.

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« Reply #266 on: 29 July 2021, 11:53:16 am »
I am really new to prostitution, so forgive any blunders or dumb questions

I got a few requests for car meets and I did my first one yesterday, got picked up in a car park, we went to a farm track just behind a B&Q,I felt nervous, it was wierd as it was nine in the evening and still quite light, people were walking their dogs and riding past on horses and cycles just a few feet away, it was exciting too.

The guy was really nice and booked me again. I live with my parents so can only do out calls so I will be doing more of them.

Any thoughts?


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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #267 on: 29 July 2021, 02:10:48 pm »
Merged - plenty of 'thoughts' above :).

Mine would be that I would rather lose the money ten times over than get in some random's car, but it's easy for me to say when I have a nice incall flat.

Please at least tell us you have a sensible security buddy to check in with so that somebody knows where you are, not that it'll make much difference if he decides to drive off somewhere completely unfamiliar and take your phone from you.

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« Reply #268 on: 29 July 2021, 05:15:20 pm »
My thoughts are

Not a chance in hell.
It's mostly cheapskates that want a outcall but won't let you come to there house or pay for a hotel.
The danger is higher risk then doing incalls or outcalls to there home or hotel in my opinion.
No where to wash
Plus legal side is your not allowed to fuck in cars or fields etc so could get reported or police come across you so that is another problem.

From your posts on " part girl" too it looks like you might like the idea of a bit of a risk.

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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #269 on: 16 August 2021, 11:51:58 am »
I wouldn't purely for the reasons of safety. Also, if you get caught, it's just going to be a pain (and awkward) to explain the situation.