What is the reason he's given for why he won't just come for an incall?

Having a license plate doesn't mean a thing. When I was driven around that night, the other girls had his plates and a description of the guy. This was all passed onto vice who were always around. It didn't prevent what happened. Even if police did have the resources to try and locate a car, by the time they would have caught up with us, stuff would have already happened. Just look at some of the alerts for cars and vans on ugly mugs and of course here. At least with a hotel room, you can scream for help, you can lock yourself in the bathroom, you can leave the room. It's hard to do those things in a car and attacks don't just happen when the car is parked, the attack on me started whilst we were still on the main roads.

Just what I was going to ask. I'd never get into a client's car.

Apart from the thrown in the deep-end above, others requesting car meets have said they either can't afford a hotel, can't travel all the way to incall, or are notable famous types so cannot be seen going into a property - the risk of recognition by passersby or neighbours is too high.

I’ve never done a car meet and never would. I had a bad experience on an outcall once and have always preferred working in my own environment.
Had a guy a few months ago asking if I did outcalls nd I said no but I was happy to see him at my incall location. He then asked where I was based I said so and he then suggested me meeting him in his car outside my place! It was very odd really as if he was to go to the trouble of coming to my place in the first place why not come inside where it’s warm and safe!

Some punters are concerned that our premises are not warm and safe, that we or others might attack or rob them.

I find it irritating that they even ask 
They have all the benefits of seeing our photos, reading all about us, checking out our services beforehand ( though 50% of my services would be impossible in the confines of a cab - unless they have a dressing room back there?  )..
Yet supply none of the safety aspects of a hotel or proof of residency etc.
 I tell them to jog along to the nearest red light district and take a lucky dip 
 

I did one once, was horrible..

NEVER AGAIN.

Yeah having said that I've been in cars with one of my regulars but I know his real details and we've known each other for years

Yes, I've noticed that too-if someone gets funny about me turning down a lift I just cancel them, too dodgy