I've done car meets when desparate-I took a pic of their number plate and pretended to text it to someone,  I also set the fake call function on my phone to go off near the end of the time . extremely dodgy though-unless you've got life or death money problems I wouldn't recommend it

Hollyrose5, I wouldn't be saying on here that you use [a booking site] for sex work  as some of those properties are people's homes.

I've edited both posts - can we please remember to report these so they can be redacted or removed (for the reason given above, obviously)

I done one a few weeks ago but just a straightforward bj/hj with a long term client.

When I was younger I done them all the time. But then the world of escorting was a much simpler place before the internet and the dogging revolution took off.

Where I am there’s loads of places in theory but from experience whatever time of day or night somebody you can guarantee will disturb you whether it by dog walkers, families, mountain bikers etc. I’ve lost count amount of times I’ve been half undressed and been disturbed. Not fair on the client or the people who stumble across you; especially families.

Now every previous spot seems to be tagged as a dogging spot that ruins it too. Even non dogging spots you’re always wary of idiots driving around trying to get lucky. Nothing worse you’re suddenly jumped by a group of voyeurs suddenly all peering and leering at you! Very unsettling and frankly dangerous!

I avoid now except with my most regular, trusted clients. And even then I try to avoid full sex. Besides I am cold blooded! I hate winter. Fucking in a car semi dressed now winter is on the way doesn’t float my boat!

I won't even get in a car with a client, nevermind be intimate in one. It's really about what you need to feel safe.

Personally, I wouldn't get into a car with a new client. Maybe ask him to do an incall first and see how you feel?

The more desperate you are, the easier it is to exploit you and ideally you will have better reasons than 'it might get me more clients' for shifting a boundary so dramatically.

It's a 'what's the worst that could happen?' thing, and here the answer is 'quite a lot of bad things'.

A search here will reveal a number of issues with car meets. There's the lack of control - you have no idea where you're going to end up and who will be around. The latter shows the privacy issue - do you want to provide a free show for person or persons unknown / have someone (a police patrol?) banging on the window? If shit hit the fan, you don't know you can get out - even if you're not moving, some car doors can't be unlocked by passengers. On top of all that and more, they're less comfortable than even Travelodge floors...

If you're determined to try, then at the very least you want full ID off him, and someone knowing what the car registration is and when to expect to hear from you again. (They don't need to know that cash for sex is involved, this is basic dating / work safety.) He needs to be in no doubt that someone knows who he is and will call the police if you don't get back in touch by the agreed time.

Having said all that, if your marketing says 'no car meets' then someone who asks about them should go into the 'block and ignore' list just for asking. What's his stated reason for preferring them?

Mia I would really heed the good advice given by all the posters in regards to safety. You are new so give it time and hopefully you will build up an incall or outcall clientele. If you make desperate choices it may put you in a dangerous situation. You have hardly any experience as it is. This man is taking your time without even meeting you also bear in mind that it easier to record you in close proximity in a car.

The cons outweigh the pros and this man could be out to con you x

I had one sprung on me when I was new and vulnerable, the punter was supposed to have booked a meal and room for dinner date. When I arrived we had a drink at the bar, then he revealed the booking hadn't been made for meal/room can we just go to his car.... Which I did and just hated it.