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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #15 on: 02 January 2013, 05:47:57 pm »
Maybe try to meet at dogging sites so you would only be in his car for the actual deed, and could have a friend nearby without them spooking the client. Obviously this would only make it a little less dangerous.
There are lots of little obvious things like what to wear and check doors and always try to keep an eye on the guy ect.

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« Reply #16 on: 02 January 2013, 05:58:47 pm »
With modern technology in cars as well as everywhere else there is central locking so checking doors is no use at all.  Guys can be armed with anything (even in hotels I know but a little less insecure) and if they pulled a knife you would not stand a chance.
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #17 on: 02 January 2013, 07:01:19 pm »
Thanks jan10 I've met a few that I have cammed for in the past, bit hotel bookings when they are passing though my way, nearly all of the requests to meet from cam are tw, I don't think this one is though, its just fear of the unknown. Xxxx but thansk for taking the time to reply. I'm really tempted though, I have never been this skint befoee  :( xxx

Just a little tip princess, I would never do a booking because I was skint that is when you tend to ignore the warning signs and try to see the client as genuine even though there are warning signs. I'd rather be skint than jump out of  the frying pan and straight into the fire. Just listen to the alarm bells.
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« Reply #18 on: 02 January 2013, 08:13:49 pm »
Ahhh thanks ladies. Thats why I love this site. I'm.usually just a lurker using the search button, I have thought about booking a hotel for the night. xxx

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« Reply #19 on: 02 January 2013, 08:21:01 pm »
see if you can book a cheap hotel like ibis ( check that its not keycarded ect and just work offering in calls
Im not sure if you can do this or not on aw  but can you not put on your camming strap line  now offering in calls on xxx day 

and then put it on your profile as well ect

I know on the odd occasion that i have cammed  the first question i always seem to get asked is do you escort /offer in calls 

so if your camming anyway make the most of it  its free advertising  ( if aw let you do it of course )

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« Reply #20 on: 02 January 2013, 08:39:22 pm »
If you do book a hotel take your webcam with you as well, that way if you don't get any other bookings you can still work  ;)

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« Reply #21 on: 03 January 2013, 12:03:36 am »
You would be better off finding a flatshare or serviced appartment to work from if things are tough , car meets are not worth the hassle.

Ive never done them never would . The car meet crowd are the dogging crowd and the kerb -crawling street girl clients crowd. Make your own conclusions as the sort of men you will be dealing with .

From a saftey point of view this is madness
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #22 on: 03 January 2013, 12:13:05 am »



Just a little tip princess, I would never do a booking because I was skint that is when you tend to ignore the warning signs and try to see the client as genuine even though there are warning signs. I'd rather be skint than jump out of  the frying pan and straight into the fire. Just listen to the alarm bells.


+1  I wouldnt do X "cos i was skint " now ....But........Ive have made that mistake , quite recentley too ... I let a guy come for subsequent visits because " i was skint" and he is such an awful , arrogant , selfish , boundry pushing prick that he made me feel horrid. ALso he has major erection probs  , is very hard work mentally n physically , he plays a guilt trip on you ( erection probs)  and wants to stay for anything between 60 and 90mins  Also he wanted to come for ?30 for 30mins because "he is regular now and  is very poor "  >:(. Im glad he said that TBH as its given me the final push/excuse to tell him to seek services elsewhere. I could go on n on about this guy but wont here and now ( maybe in another thread)

Its not worth your sanity to see people /risk your saftey because your skint.

Best thing is to sort out incall base ASAP . Many guys are tightening there punting purse strings and they  wont fork out more ??? for hotels /higher incall rates. We have the global downturn and over saturation of the marketplace to thank for that
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« Reply #23 on: 03 January 2013, 12:17:56 am »
look into serviced appartments too .....cheaper than some nicer hotels if you book online in advance  and most are 5* set-ups.
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #24 on: 03 January 2013, 12:26:56 am »
Maybe try to meet at dogging sites so you would only be in his car for the actual deed, and could have a friend nearby without them spooking the client. Obviously this would only make it a little less dangerous.
There are lots of little obvious things like what to wear and check doors and always try to keep an eye on the guy ect.


A dogging site is the last place id want to go . It would only give the client ideas about gangbangs , bukkae and the rest , which could put you under more pressure to be talked into things your not happy with .  If your into that kind of thing fine , there are some on AW who do a lot of dogging meets but they have the advantage of having their husband/partner with them in the car.


Take it from me that the car meet crowd are not the ideal clients at all. As said before a lot of them meet with street girls , go to dogging gangbangs where everything is bareback ect. id be worried where these car men  have "been"  . Same could be said of any client , but the majority I know stick to the indoors indi/parlour  scene which carrys less risk


Sorry if this is offensive to anyone , and i know that been a dogger or a street girl dosent always equal  "unsafe" but IMO car meets is leaving yourself wide open to all sorts of nasty situations

I know of a girl who used to do them and she wouldnt do them again as she had more than a few very scary exps and guys were always trying to take her to these outdoor dogging/gangbang things.
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #25 on: 03 January 2013, 02:11:35 am »
Maybe try to meet at dogging sites so you would only be in his car for the actual deed, and could have a friend nearby without them spooking the client. Obviously this would only make it a little less dangerous.
Remember that, if you go with a client to a dogging area, there will be lots of other men
that will come up to the car and start wanking/gesturing you to wind the window down
for a wank or blowee (for free)

Dogging also has the risk of robbery and or violence. Not by the doggers, but by gangs who go there
with evil intent. This is a fact.
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #26 on: 03 January 2013, 02:20:45 am »
Now in dogging-land if you are female you'll get lots of men come up to your car at the same time.
it's part of the scene, as are their expectant willies hanging out!  ;D
But the body language of these guy said violence. I started my car and rapidly left the car park. The entrance wasn't blocked. Onto a major duel carriageway, followed at speed by three cars
all with 3 to 4 people in each. Trying to force me off the road and corral me towards a side road
which adjoins the dual carriageway. I know this area for a long time and that leads to dark country lanes,
and probably a rather nasty end to the evening...
Anyway, keeping on the main road, they all pulled off at the next junction.

I've never talked about this stuff before.
So now you know there are substantial physical risks
as well as legal risks of sex in a public place for Coin.

Your call and as always YMMV...

Scary stuff indeed ....

Glad you got out in 1 piece unharmed :).

Ive heard about this happening a lot Up North too.....bloody chavs n cars full of young lads causing havoc  at dogging sites. They are also known to drive round the red light areas giving street girls abuse and hassle too. The same charecters think sex workers and their clients make easy targets , some guys were getting mugged by hoodies/chavs when coming out of a certain parlour . many a time myself and others get phone calls from someone who sounds "gangsta" asking if we have been busy and wjhats the latest booking we have today ?
 

obviously hoping ill accept the booking and will be alone in a house full of cash

They get told to "jog on"
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Re: Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« Reply #27 on: 03 January 2013, 08:51:55 am »
Sorry to hear your story Jodie! Terrifying! Dogging isn't what it used to be due to these stories, the internet has destroyed it as it's much easier for people to find the spots and cause havoc! My partner was dogging when it was all the fashion with people rolling up in their big flash sports cars with ladies in evening frocks and gents in DJs! Those were the days apparently! LMAO!

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« Reply #28 on: 03 January 2013, 10:55:31 am »
So glad I decided to ask for advice her. I was so close to exceptin the booking :-\
I'm going to look in to hotels or appartments I think xxx
Thanks for all offerin your opinions. It's so difficult to get good advice when no one actually knows how I earn the majority or my income xxxx thanks again xxxx

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« Reply #29 on: 03 January 2013, 03:35:35 pm »
I met a guy about a month ago, he had a funny story about car meets

He met an escort for a 15min car meet! She said he knew a field they could go to for this! So he picked her up, went to said field, had 15mins of fun! Then when he went to drive out he was stuck in the mud! I think the escorted ended up walking home by herself and it took about 1 hour to unstick himself! When he told me this I lolled

I maybe would consider car meets but this has put me off