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x-lola

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Car Meets - Does anybody actually do them?
« on: 02 January 2013, 02:50:15 pm »
hiya,
hope someone can help settle my mind, I dont offer a full service, and have been really slow at the mo, but am getting a lot of requests for car meets.

I really want to except the booking, I only do out calls, and they are few and far between, how would I go about doing safety checks, I would drive to the car me, so how would I avoid the client seeing my car reg??? and also, where would we go?
sorry, if these are really dumb Qs but have been ummmming and aaaarrring for months now.


could any girls that do or have done car meets, run me through the procedures
thanks xxxx




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« Reply #1 on: 02 January 2013, 02:53:53 pm »
hiya,
hope someone can help settle my mind, I dont offer a full service, and have been really slow at the mo, but am getting a lot of requests for car meets.

I really want to except the booking, I only do out calls, and they are few and far between, how would I go about doing safety checks, I would drive to the car me, so how would I avoid the client seeing my car reg??? and also, where would we go?
sorry, if these are really dumb Qs but have been ummmming and aaaarrring for months now.


could any girls that do or have done car meets, run me through the procedures
thanks xxxx

Expect loads of time wasters, it's about the crowd car meet fun attracts. Not the service. I never do these for safety purposes. If the guy takes advantage, then lets hope you are near help. Not in an open space countryside. A few rape and physical attacks have happened to escorts, who reported to ugly mugs this way. Good luck.

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« Reply #2 on: 02 January 2013, 02:57:04 pm »
thanks for the reply, I have read loads of bad stories, I have one guy that wants a booking, he just wants HJ in his car. I have cammed for him loads, but just have a nagging in the back of my mind. xx

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« Reply #3 on: 02 January 2013, 03:00:24 pm »
thanks for the reply, I have read loads of bad stories, I have one guy that wants a booking, he just wants HJ in his car. I have cammed for him loads, but just have a nagging in the back of my mind. xx

Just be careful as you will learn that clients can turn evil suddenly especially in an isolated location. Giving them an advantage. It's about not giving clients the opportunity to take the piss.

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« Reply #4 on: 02 January 2013, 03:02:04 pm »
Thank, I think I might just stick to what i know. Xxx

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« Reply #5 on: 02 January 2013, 03:09:27 pm »
The thing with car meets is there is so many what ifs, also handing over the money before anything takes place can bring problems if the client decides to not pay. You are out in the open if things turn nasty but you aren't always safe because then you are likely to be seen if the client kicks up a stink. If something niggles you about a client don't do the job. Camming with someone and meeting them is a whole new ball game.
Hello nice to meet you :)

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« Reply #6 on: 02 January 2013, 03:15:05 pm »
Thanks jan10 I've met a few that I have cammed for in the past, bit hotel bookings when they are passing though my way, nearly all of the requests to meet from cam are tw, I don't think this one is though, its just fear of the unknown. Xxxx but thansk for taking the time to reply. I'm really tempted though, I have never been this skint befoee  :( xxx

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« Reply #7 on: 02 January 2013, 03:26:07 pm »
Hi Lola

things are tight for everyone at this time of year but if you're really facing a crunch then I'd recommend trying to find ways to increase your camming income. Being under pressure makes people take risks they might not otherwise take. It's hard to think straight when you're absolutely skint so this probably isn't a good time to be looking at offering a new and potentially risky service.

Stick to what you know. If you search for 'camming' here on the site you'll find lots of girls have shared tips about what works for them so have a read and see what you can find. Getting new camming Clients, or more money from existing ones, will be easier and safer than looking at a whole new service. Once you've backed away from the breadline a little you can then think clearer about whether you really want to change what you offer.

We've all been there, so good luck babe!
R xx

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« Reply #8 on: 02 January 2013, 03:37:21 pm »
Ahhh thanks rooby.
It's a rubbish time of year for cammin, but i think I will put the effort in with it. Just need to clear some of the montain of bills I seem to have aquired xxxxxx

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« Reply #9 on: 02 January 2013, 03:45:28 pm »
PL its the same the world over unfortunately and turning to car meets with all its obvious dangers you are not going solve all your problems anyway so why put your life in danger.

Takings will probably be thin on the ground until March so best to make the most of what we can and try and improve our tactics of earnings.

The "old timers" will tell you that it is much harder to earn now due to the saturation of unemployed girls who think escorting is an easy way to earn money.  This is true as our takings a few years ago were four fold at least.  There is also the females who only work at christmas to be able to buy "little jonny's" christmas.  They will get fed up soon when things go quieter and things will start picking up again in March,  usually before that it is just getting by that is important.

Many girls have had to find a "normal" job to go along with their escorting as business has gotten that slow for some.  That is just what is happening around us and we have to live with it and suck it up.

Times are hard for the world and we just got to get on with living.
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« Reply #10 on: 02 January 2013, 03:51:06 pm »
I have a "normal" job as well. But self employed so takings are slim there too...
I have been cammin about 4years Probs longer, phone lines for yonks before that, and then offering the ocasional meet for the last couple of years. Just hope it picks up for everyone soon.

(oh and sorry for the spellin and grammar, I'm on my phone) xx

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« Reply #11 on: 02 January 2013, 03:52:30 pm »
Honest don't risk it  -   its while your desperate for money that you will fuck up and make mistakes  and people can often smell that desperation and prey on it 

car meets i would imagine are dodgy at the best of time and when your desperate for money its even worse as it clouds your normally sound judgment on what  good / bad

with regards to debts if its credit cards, loans  ect i would get over to the Martin Lewis money saving forums  they are experts on helping people with debts and have loads of good ideas on how to deal with credit card companies ect who are giving grief to people with regards to theire debts
You might be able to freeze the interest or work out smaller payments   often with debts  its those companies that shout the loudest get paid but  they might in theory should be the last ones to get paid ( ifyswim)



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« Reply #12 on: 02 January 2013, 03:56:41 pm »
Thanks Paris, luckily I'm not in debt yet, I'm just about getting by, I have had to really tighten my belt though. Xx back to the cams it is. Xxx

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« Reply #13 on: 02 January 2013, 05:20:27 pm »
Hi Lola, just tighten that belt one more notch sweety you do not need to take unnecessary risks with car meets. 

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« Reply #14 on: 02 January 2013, 05:26:25 pm »
I can't really add to what has already been said already other than to say if this guy really wants to meet you then let him book a hotel or alternatively you could see if you can find a hotel with good rates and maybe see if you can get a few bookings in? Just a thought.