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anonymoussw

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #15 on: 24 December 2008, 09:11:56 pm »
First of all bear in mind that I am a student so this is only part time for me. Secondly I am a fast enough typer to chat to several people at once without them noticing, and so can easily manage to be doing productive stuff at the same time. :P. I don't mind indulging a fantasy from time to time, and if he really is using *that* as an alternative to a real meet then he is going to book anyway so what harm is it going to do when it doesn't take any extra of my time?
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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #16 on: 24 December 2008, 09:30:11 pm »
so what harm is it going to do when it doesn't take any extra of my time?

alot...Its ok at first, but I guarantee overtime who will be more annoyed than accepting about it.  What happens is that you will continue to run into men like that, wanking down while typing you and promising you an appointment only for them to cancel because they were never serious from the get go. You can be home with nothing to do on a Saturday night, but dont allow some chump to waste your time and lead you on. It may be fine for them to talk sexual to you endlessly over an email, but its not so pleasant when they cancel on you (some will do it multiple times if you let them) now is it? I sure dont like it

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #17 on: 24 December 2008, 09:40:20 pm »
so what harm is it going to do when it doesn't take any extra of my time?

alot...Its ok at first, but I guarantee overtime who will be more annoyed than accepting about it.  What happens is that you will continue to run into men like that, wanking down while typing you and promising you an appointment only for them to cancel because they were never serious from the get go. You can be home with nothing to do on a Saturday night, but dont allow some chump to waste your time and lead you on. It may be fine for them to talk sexual to you endlessly over an email, but its not so pleasant when they cancel on you (some will do it multiple times if you let them) now is it? I sure dont like it

What he said.

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #18 on: 28 December 2008, 10:23:44 pm »
so what harm is it going to do when it doesn't take any extra of my time?

alot...Its ok at first, but I guarantee overtime who will be more annoyed than accepting about it.  What happens is that you will continue to run into men like that, wanking down while typing you and promising you an appointment only for them to cancel because they were never serious from the get go. You can be home with nothing to do on a Saturday night, but dont allow some chump to waste your time and lead you on. It may be fine for them to talk sexual to you endlessly over an email, but its not so pleasant when they cancel on you (some will do it multiple times if you let them) now is it? I sure dont like it

What he said.

What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.
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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #19 on: 29 December 2008, 12:02:43 am »
What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.


Put the kettle on petal, you are clearly an unhappy bunny. xx

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #20 on: 29 December 2008, 12:13:23 am »
 ::) Wonder what gave you that idea, lol

I'm turning into a grumpy old woman :o  :(

Not at all like the real me.

I promise I'll be a good girl in 2009.  :)
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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #21 on: 29 December 2008, 04:29:05 am »


What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.

exactly. when I first started out I used to meet people who werent willing to pay an escort, but instead wanting to meet as 'friends' (dinner, chat etc.). I know it was a very haphazard way to start out. I was being bombarded with questions regarding my work and it was a complete waste of time.


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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #22 on: 29 December 2008, 08:02:58 am »
What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.


Put the kettle on petal, you are clearly an unhappy bunny. xx


But it's true. This is not directed at Benny as he hasn't been around for long, but there are ladies out there who've been in the business for years and should know better. There are blokes that will add you to their MSN in the hopes that you'll talk to them, with no intention of making a booking. But the reason why some of them think it's okay to do this is because other escorts are happy to waste their own time in the hopes of a booking.
I've read on forums in the past where ladies have happily talked to "clients" over time and I think, "why"?? It's clear they're just happy talking to you and nothing else. I've said this before but I'll say it again, I've never had one person, out of all the people that have added me to their msn, make a booking. Not one, in how many years.

I answer emails (sometimes immediately if I'm online), answer the phone, do my advertising and spend enough time being "Brandy", without it interfering in my own time.
Take last night f'rinstance. Somebody called and when I answered he hung up. He texted me a few minutes later and apologised, said his battery had gone dead, that he was 22yrs old, would that be okay. I don't like answering texts at the best of times, but as he took the time to apologise I text back, no problem, feel free to call back when you're phone's charged. He then text me back and asked how old I was. I thought, here we go. I text back 38, he said ok, and I thought that was the end of that. He then text me back again, asking where I lived. I didn't even bother to answer. When he realised I wasn't going to, he gave a quick ring and then hung up before I made a move for the phone. He could've well been genuine and nervous, but now he's down in my phone as a t/w.

Some blokes think it's okay to MSN/text working girls because others haven't minded. But we don't all appreciate it. If some want to sit at their computer all day having cyber sex/text sex, that's brilliant. But I do wish they'd understand that not all escorts work the same way.

*mini rant over, I'll finish me coffee.* :)

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #23 on: 29 December 2008, 08:14:17 am »
I have one of those tw's.  He sent a string of texts originally so i eventually i replied with the standard.... you need to call me if you wish to make a booking blah blah blah.  Now i occasionally have a missed call on my phone from his number BUT im always sat right by my phone when he calls and he only ever lets it ring once and hangs up.  10min later i get a text sayin 'I called but you didnt answer'..... that isnt someone being shy....  thats someone being a twat!

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #24 on: 29 December 2008, 02:50:25 pm »
What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.


Put the kettle on petal, you are clearly an unhappy bunny. xx


Just wanted to apologise to Benny - I was not having a direct go at you - just venting my frustration with the T/W - Brandy put it better than I did.
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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #25 on: 30 December 2008, 12:06:37 am »
But the reason why some of them think it's okay to do this is because other escorts are happy to waste their own time in the hopes of a booking.
I've read on forums in the past where ladies have happily talked to "clients" over time and I think, "why"?? It's clear they're just happy talking to you and nothing else.

Some blokes think it's okay to MSN/text working girls because others haven't minded. But we don't all appreciate it. If some want to sit at their computer all day having cyber sex/text sex, that's brilliant. But I do wish they'd understand that not all escorts work the same way.

Hello! Thankyou girlfriend. exactly.

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #26 on: 30 December 2008, 04:46:49 am »

Hello! Thankyou girlfriend. exactly.
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You have told us before that you take bookings by text so what do you mean?

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #27 on: 30 December 2008, 09:02:24 am »

You have told us before that you take bookings by text so what do you mean?

I'm just guessing here but I think what Joey's saying is that whilst he doesn't mind taking bookings via texts, it's the guys that text/msn endlessly that he has a problem with.
It's one thing taking a quick via text - bish, bash, bosh and you're done. It's the ones that want to play text tennis with you and waste your time.

strawberry

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #28 on: 30 December 2008, 09:40:16 am »
In my experience guys who approach you via msn (and had some 'females' + 'couples' do this too), are just wasting your time. They chat endlessly to "get to know you" often ask silly questions, constantly promising a booking. 9 times out of 10 they also ask you to webcam for them, and/or show your face "so I know what I'm getting".

When I first started out I spent hours chatting to a guy on the promise of a one hour booking........in the end he did ask for an appointment but then didn't call to confirm. When he next came online he said he had been on MSN at confirmation time waiting for me to ask me for my phone number which he had lost.

Sporadically over the few years I've been working I've chatted online to one or two other guys out of the many requests I get via MSN, and everytime they really never book - always ask for sexy chat badgering for webcamming.

I told the last guy I accepted on messenger I wasn't in the mood for camming, that I'd had a long day and was only in an old T-shirt and leggings. He said he still wanted to see me, even without my face showing. So for a laugh I switched it on so all he could see was the side of my T-shirt and me sat on a chair. After 2 minutes he stomped off saying "you are boring".

Wonder what he expected? As a busy woman, running her own business and having a private life it really amused me that these guys think we are going to sit around chatting to them in particular, when there is money to be made and fun to be had!

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #29 on: 30 December 2008, 09:03:53 pm »

You have told us before that you take bookings by text so what do you mean?

I'm just guessing here but I think what Joey's saying is that whilst he doesn't mind taking bookings via texts, it's the guys that text/msn endlessly that he has a problem with.
It's one thing taking a quick via text - bish, bash, bosh and you're done. It's the ones that want to play text tennis with you and waste your time.

thats exactly what I meant. And in fact, I dont mind taking a booking over text, email, instant messenging, U.S. postal or Pigeon post. As long as their for real about it then its a deal. I remember someone said something about how some people dont want to 'confront' a voice?