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anonymoussw

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Cancellation
« on: 23 December 2008, 10:00:15 pm »
Mother f**ker

My first overnight has just cancelled on me. Bloody hell, I needed that money. GRRRRRRRRRRRRR.
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #1 on: 23 December 2008, 11:20:06 pm »
Welcome to the world of escorting. Never count the money until it's in your hand.
It sounds flip and it's not what you want to hear, but it's the credo you have to live by. Don't count on it, don't spend it before you get it, because it makes you doubly mad when a customer cancels. I learnt the same way in the beginning.
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anonymoussw

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #2 on: 23 December 2008, 11:30:15 pm »
Noted. GRRR. Fucking men...
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If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #3 on: 24 December 2008, 12:32:25 am »
I told you that guy was full of shit. No one asks for an all night bondage session right away!

But, dont let it bring you down. I've had people cancel on me all the time, and then see me the next week. There are genuine cancels. But, I have a 2 chance rule when it comes down to this. Its ok the 1st time, but if they cancel the 2nd then I put them in their place. If it happens the 3rd time I write them off.
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anonymoussw

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #4 on: 24 December 2008, 12:34:45 am »
I think he is genuine. I have him on MSN and is very courteous and respectful when we chat online (except when I let him talk dirty). He says a family member has appeared our out of the blue so he can't accom but he's now asked to rebook in a hotel while I am in Manchester (which isn't for long unfortunately) Now I have calmed down a bit I suppose I'll cope...
« Last Edit: 24 December 2008, 01:03:10 am by bennyboywonder »
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If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #5 on: 24 December 2008, 08:53:27 am »
Quote from: bennyboywonder on 24 December 2008, 12:34:45 am
I think he is genuine. I have him on MSN and is very courteous and respectful when we chat online (except when I let him talk dirty). He says a family member has appeared our out of the blue so he can't accom but he's now asked to rebook in a hotel while I am in Manchester (which isn't for long unfortunately) Now I have calmed down a bit I suppose I'll cope...

No no no no. I don't talk to anybody on msn. Out of all the umpteen blokes that have added me to their msn in 7yrs, I've never had one of them book me.
The fact that you're letting him talk dirty to you means that he's getting his kicks for free. Why then should he pay for a session?
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anonymoussw

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #6 on: 24 December 2008, 09:20:51 am »
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No no no no. I don't talk to anybody on msn. Out of all the umpteen blokes that have added me to their msn in 7yrs, I've never had one of them book me.
My very first booking was one somebody I have on MSN. I do think that our client base is slightly different to yours in that respect. Gay men have been meeting each other for sex via the internet and chatrooms since the internet began. If I cut out chatroom clients, I wouldn't have many left...

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The fact that you're letting him talk dirty to you means that he's getting his kicks for free. Why then should he pay for a session?
I offered, he didn't ask. Call it like a free sample...
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If you can fill the unforgiving minute
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Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

Hermione

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #7 on: 24 December 2008, 05:42:56 pm »
Free samples, if they are to be offered, should be given after they've booked and paid.
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anonymoussw

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #8 on: 24 December 2008, 05:48:09 pm »
Quote from: Hermione on 24 December 2008, 05:42:56 pm
Free samples, if they are to be offered, should be given after they've booked and paid.
I was being slightly tongue in cheek with that comment. I was horny! It's not like some dirty words on MSN is even a small fraction of what I can offer in person...
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If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

Violette

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #9 on: 24 December 2008, 07:55:41 pm »
But, in these desperate times, sometimes all a bloke had to keep him going are a few words.
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #10 on: 24 December 2008, 08:00:21 pm »
Quote from: bennyboywonder on 24 December 2008, 09:20:51 am
My very first booking was one somebody I have on MSN. I do think that our client base is slightly different to yours in that respect. Gay men have been meeting each other for sex via the internet and chatrooms since the internet began. If I cut out chatroom clients, I wouldn't have many left...

That's fair enough I guess. But I know I'm not alone in saying that blokes who come via either chatrooms or msn are just looking for an inexpensive wank. Men and women have also been meeting out of chatrooms and forums for sex for years, too. I used to swing in a former life. It's where somebody gave me the idea of becoming an escort, so I know what goes on. But it may be different for male escorts. You'd know better than I.

Quote from: bennyboywonder on 24 December 2008, 05:48:09 pm
Quote from: Hermione on 24 December 2008, 05:42:56 pm
Free samples, if they are to be offered, should be given after they've booked and paid.
I was being slightly tongue in cheek with that comment. I was horny! It's not like some dirty words on MSN is even a small fraction of what I can offer in person...

Maybe not. But when you're horny enough, and you don't have to pay, (especially with the recession now), it's a much cheaper way of getting your rocks off. Plus, the time you've invest in chatting to prospective clients on MSN probably costs more than an hour's booking itself. But I do know some ladies who don't mind spending their time talking to prospective clients in chatrooms and on MSN. We all work in different ways.
« Last Edit: 24 December 2008, 09:22:58 pm by Anika Mae »
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #11 on: 24 December 2008, 08:02:25 pm »
Quote from: Violette on 24 December 2008, 07:55:41 pm
But, in these desperate times, sometimes all a bloke had to keep him going are a few words.

You beat me to it. It's basically what I said.
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #12 on: 24 December 2008, 08:05:11 pm »
Quote from: brandy@saafe on 24 December 2008, 08:00:21 pm
Quote from: bennyboywonder on 24 December 2008, 09:20:51 am
My very first booking was one somebody I have on MSN. I do think that our client base is slightly different to yours in that respect. Gay men have been meeting each other for sex via the internet and chatrooms since the internet began. If I cut out chatroom clients, I wouldn't have many left...
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That's fair enough I guess. But I know I'm not alone in saying that blokes who come via either chatrooms or msn are just looking for an inexpensive wank. Men and women have also been meeting out of chatrooms and forums for sex for years, too. I used to swing in a former life. It's where somebody gave me the idea of becoming an escort, so I know what goes on. But it may be different for male escorts. You'd know better than I.

Quote from: bennyboywonder on 24 December 2008, 05:48:09 pm
Quote from: Hermione on 24 December 2008, 05:42:56 pm
Free samples, if they are to be offered, should be given after they've booked and paid.
I was being slightly tongue in cheek with that comment. I was horny! It's not like some dirty words on MSN is even a small fraction of what I can offer in person...

Maybe not. But when you're horny enough, and you don't have to pay, (especially with the recession now), it's a much cheaper way of getting your rocks off. Plus, the time you've invest in chatting to prospective clients on MSN probably costs more than an hour's booking itself. But I do know some ladies who don't mind spending their time talking to prospective clients in chatrooms and on MSN. We all work in different ways.

Damn, not sure why my whole post is in quotes. I'll have to see if I can tidy it up.

Edited back to how it was because editing this one didn't make sense. -Anika
« Last Edit: 24 December 2008, 09:26:30 pm by Anika Mae »
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brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #13 on: 24 December 2008, 08:08:07 pm »
I give up. I see what I've done wrong but I can't be arsed to sort it out. I hope it can be read.
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #14 on: 24 December 2008, 09:08:26 pm »
Quote from: bennyboywonder on 24 December 2008, 05:48:09 pm
I was horny! It's not like some dirty words on MSN is even a small fraction of what I can offer in person...

LOL, like Violette said...you'd be surprised. There are men out there who probably never slept with a guy and could just be using you as a fantasy. I never let it get to the point where I find myself caught up in a cyber-sex session with someone. And just keep in mind, the ones who ARE serious, will not want to waste time cyber-sexing when he could just have you right then and there. Its ok to talk briefly about what you want...but spare the details.

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