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brandy@saafe

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #30 on: 30 December 2008, 09:34:48 pm »

You have told us before that you take bookings by text so what do you mean?

I'm just guessing here but I think what Joey's saying is that whilst he doesn't mind taking bookings via texts, it's the guys that text/msn endlessly that he has a problem with.
It's one thing taking a quick via text - bish, bash, bosh and you're done. It's the ones that want to play text tennis with you and waste your time.

thats exactly what I meant. And in fact, I dont mind taking a booking over text, email, instant messenging, U.S. postal or Pigeon post. As long as their for real about it then its a deal. I remember someone said something about how some people dont want to 'confront' a voice?

But I can see Lexie's confusion. The problem is, when you're taking bookings via text/msn whatever, when do you know that the person is genuine and not a timewaster? How long do you give them before you consider that they might be? That's the question.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #31 on: 30 December 2008, 09:45:37 pm »
Good question. Its not as difficult since I've taken enough of them by text and IM. Its called regularity. I know how a normal text, IM booking goes. A text/email booking I expect 3 exchanges at the most. If they dont either exchange a number, give an address, or call me after that...Then I know where its headed. (Unless its a long-distance booking)

An IM booking? usually no longer than 5-10 minutes (20 min. the absolute maximum). And anyone who ask for more than the 2 pictures thats on my profile which clearly shows my body and face I decline. I also expect them to exchange numbers and address by the end of the conversation.

« Last Edit: 30 December 2008, 09:54:18 pm by JoeyR »

anonymoussw

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Re: Cancellation
« Reply #32 on: 01 January 2009, 03:34:11 am »
What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.

exactly. when I first started out I used to meet people who werent willing to pay an escort, but instead wanting to meet as 'friends' (dinner, chat etc.). I know it was a very haphazard way to start out. I was being bombarded with questions regarding my work and it was a complete waste of time.
Woah. I certainly would never do this though. As far as I am concerened no matter how cute someone thinks I am, if they find me on my rb profile then I won't meet them without payment. Trying to keep the two lives as seperate as possible.

What they said - and it encourages these timewasters and cheapskates to think it's ok to abuse the time of escorts like this, for whom time is money.


Put the kettle on petal, you are clearly an unhappy bunny. xx


Just wanted to apologise to Benny - I was not having a direct go at you - just venting my frustration with the T/W - Brandy put it better than I did.
No need to apologize! from a "beginner's" point of view I think it is interesting how these subjects illicit such strong opinions!
« Last Edit: 01 January 2009, 03:38:56 am by bennyboywonder »
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