You should never have to pay any money upfront. The rate she quotes is the sort of rate a 'full' sexual escort charges. If it's so good then ask them to deduct the money from the first job you get. Shouldn't be a problem if they are bona fide - which is very doubtful.

Yes it is a scam!!! Seriously social escorting is not a demanding market in other words theres not much interest. Most clients expect sex or some sort of sexual interaction whether thats a BJ or a wank its still sexual.

I don't suppose its about your size as different men like different things alot of more curvy escorts do fine. However social escorting is hard to make money from I used to think I could do sicial escorting but its just not the case. Give an take there may be rare occasions but nothing to make you super dollars.

Hi,

Whether you escort is down to you - I haven't told anyone apart from my x who btw werent very happy. Sometimes its best to keep it too yourself.

Some show pics without there face and you need an escort name.

You can escort outcall only meaning a hotel or their house. What I say is I will see you at your house after the first meeting meaning first bookings are conducted within a hotel. That way I have a better idea of who I am visiting.

Hi Leila,

thankgod for good friends lol,

her attitude was 'well looking at some of the things you've had after a night out, you may as well get paid for it!'
I'm nervous, really nervous, I think I just need to do it and see how I feel in the morning.
I'm worried about getting old, smelly men, I just don't think I could handle someone that looks like my grandad (or smells like him  )
or what if I get no business???
Locations a serious concern too.
AND the time thing, what If I cant finish him off in an hour, or I do it too quickly??? OR I get bored after 20 mins (very likely lol)
or, or, or..........

I'm researching like mad, hoping to get my first time over and done with this wkend, if I can persuade someone to pay me that is...

How close are you?

Moll x

Hi anika,

I've read a lot of your posts and your advice is excellent. This site is fantastic in general.
I dont drive, so a driver would be a good idea.
At the mo i'm just checking out some of the free sites suggested to work out fees.
As a 'larger lady' or fat bird it seems that a lot of men seem to like the whole gf experience, I was thinking that part of that could include a bath or shower first, should help out with cleanliness. I would however have no problems pointing out that it needed washing if they want me to go anywhere near it.
The advice on the tax side etc was really helpful. 
My friend is great, it helps to have someone unjudgemental to chat about things with. However its great to actually be able to talk to people that do the job.
I think for me thats the best way to deal with it. Its a job, I dont expect to always enjoy it, I expect to have bad days and days when I'd much rather work at Asdas, however if approached sensibly and with care for me safety etc then I think It could be a rewarding career. I was more worried about the fact that I dont think its morally wrong, than actually doing it. yep I'm nervous, I always am when starting a new job. And I'm pretty sure that when I get the cash in my hand, I'm gonna feel a whole lot less nervous LOL

PS I imagined walking into a pub like you suggested, yep I could do any bloke in there, as long as he had my cash and I was safe.....

Thanks, I appreciate your help, i really do.

Moll x

Hi again,

It looks like the average fee around here is ?120 an hour, I was thinking more ?140 -?150. In your experience do I need to price match???

It does look like thier aren't that many big birds, so hey fingers crossed lol

My friend and I are working on pics later, Going for the stockings n corset etc, however I dont really want to put my face up. Not especially for my privacy, but I have a teen age daughter to think off. In general is it a prob if we dont have our faces up?

Theres just one other thing, I HATE the way condoms taste, but I really do have to use them for oral, any ummmmm less greasy, yucky tasting ones around that you can recomend??

Thanks again.

Moll x

This forum is actually a god send.. I only just happened to come across it and god knows what I would have done if i hadnt!!

Im still in the really early stages..I keep thinking.. am I actually doing this?.. I dont feel morally opposed to it but its so unlike anything I have ever done as a job!

.. I need to get a website up and running and pics done.. I'm like you I dont want to show my face but have seen that quite a lot of other girls dont either so I dont feel so bad about it..

The industry is so addictive! I have literally done nothing but look at AW and all the punter sites as well as what everyone here has been saying..

Anika, how do you find a driver?  My friend says she will take me for the first few times but I cant really expect her to go to every one - although i think she is getting interested in escorting too - How much do drivers typically charge? 

Thanks so much for all of ur advice.. !!

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