I've moved this to the general Q&A section since it's not going to gather much steam in Seeking/Offering - the forum is sex worker only and whilst people who run these operations are permitted an account on here to advertise, their use of the forum is very limited and for good reason.
Firstly, if you do want people to PM you recommendations it would be a good idea to tell them where you are, or at least which area(s) you're looking to work in. I would say that unless you're completely against the idea working indie is a lot easier now than it was six years ago and I'd still give it some thought - have a read of the main SAAFE site too
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