Hi-no.I've never let a client cane the bottom of my feet,I won't be in future either,thanks for the advice.I think you guys are right,I don't really have a clue what I'm doing to be honest-I never did bdsm before I started escorting,I just had rough sex with my bf that involved spanking and sometimes face slapping,handcuffs ect-I just thought bdsm would involve gags and whips and stuff,I didn't really read up first lol-is there anywhere that teaches you about different practises/different types of equipment ect?
I never should have taken that booking,the problem is I'm always arranging work at short notice,when I need money so I'm not as careful as I should be-it's hard to find work at all really cos I don't do owo and I can only do it on certain days,to be fair some of them can probably sense that I'm desparate so take the piss more and the bloke just mentioned handcuffs and spanking so I didn't think it was nessasery to have a safe-word,then of course when I was crying and saying stop he thought it was part of the act-he thought forcing me to do owo was part of the game as well lol(luckily I'm still clean),to be honest he terrified me as he went to put a gag in my mouth but I couldn't breath through my nose as I had a cold,luckily he stopped that when I started screeching at him lol-the problem is the crying and stuff seemed to get him going even more,he said afterwards he liked that I was "innocent"-I didn't know whether to put a warning up on here or not cos he has like 70 good feedbacks on aw and I suppose it was up to me to ask about a safe-word