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Guiltypleasure

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Re: Overcautious screening?
« Reply #75 on: 15 April 2017, 11:25:33 am »
One last shot try reading Eric Berne( I think ) 'games people play' about labels we wear ( subconsciously) especially the 'but the label says please don't kick ' me  section it's very relevant to anyone who is intent on not being kicked emotionally but behaves in a way that actually prompts it .

Tickle

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Re: Overcautious screening?
« Reply #76 on: 15 April 2017, 12:32:13 pm »
I began this topic because of real issues when I was ill not inviting a kicking or words being put in my mouth. I even had to apologise (and really said lots of thanks etc earlier which was not mentioned) and you began personal attacks again. I never said this but after I wrote my op being punched down on made me more ill. I have saved this topic and entered it in my discrimination log and have notified the NGO who are helping me that I have obtained more evidence of social violence. I am not apologising or tolerating attack any more. I even said I was an at risk and vulnerable person and you attacked more. This was a polite signal to stop. I am calling this out as psychiatric assault and battery.

I'm now embarrassed and ashamed of this topic. I'm glad I posted it but certainly regret a lot about this topic. I needed and need urgent/emergency medical intervention and have asked again for the court of protection and a social worker (which you don't know about) and was suicidal again.

The best forum management advice I read was talk about the topic not each other.

Guiltypleasure

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Re: Overcautious screening?
« Reply #77 on: 15 April 2017, 12:41:31 pm »
Sorry you took offence it's actually a very useful book used in Psychotherapy training .
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Certainly not a 'kicking' it's about being vulnerable and unaware of how we ( not just you) sometimes portray ourselves anyway I was off topic but trying to help .

But again it fell on deaf ears and was off topic .

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Re: Overcautious screening?
« Reply #78 on: 15 April 2017, 12:50:16 pm »
I'm not feeding this obvious flamewar and veiled personal attacks any more.

amy

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Re: Overcautious screening?
« Reply #79 on: 15 April 2017, 12:58:57 pm »
Enough's enough. Locked.

Anybody who actually wants to discuss screening can post on any of the other threads about it including the recent one which I can't currently find but will as soon as I'm not in a busy market.

EDIT: and here it is http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=37671.0
« Last Edit: 15 April 2017, 01:42:03 pm by amy »