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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: SPT89 on 26 December 2017, 04:10:00 pm
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Sorry if it's not in the right section!
I've had a client ask me when/if I'll be organising a bukkake in the new year, I've never held one before and have a few questions about it.
I don't do incalls so would I hire an apartment for it? Is it better day or night?
Do you take deposits?
How much do you usually charge for it?
Is there anywhere else I can advertise it bar aw and backpage and cracker?
What advice would you Give a first timer?
Thanks! SPT!
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Does the said client who has asked about this have plenty of feedback on adultwork or have you asked him if he would be willing to verify who he is etc for your own security? If neither of these I wouldn't even consider thinking about it. You must think about your security here. You would need to have security buddies to hand possibly an alarm for safety and every person taking part you would need to make sure they don't have bad intentions and what exactly they are there for aswell as verify there names and id or that they have an adultwork profile they can book on with recent positive feedback on. I know this sounds insane but safety is something very important especially in these sorts of situations.
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Sorry but if you don't do bukkakes and have never done them, then why is this idiot mentioning them? If this is something you are genuinely interested in then that's different but don't do this type of booking unless your 100% certain and as has been said make sure you have security and that your clear on what's on offer ( Is penetration on offer? If so how are you going to ensure no one slips off condom? Is it hand jobs, oral, tit wanks only? Where are they allowed to come?).
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Sorry but if you don't do bukkakes and have never done them, then why is this idiot mentioning them?
Exactly. You don't do bukkakes and not offering incalls. Where is he comming from? I smell timewaster here and you may be wasting your energy.
Update, just received this email. Is it him?
Hi
My name is J**** K*** and in January I am holding a number of bukkake events in *** and surrounding areas and am looking for a number of cum loving girls who would be happy to be the centre of attention to a room of 10+ guys.
If you are interested you will be the only girl for your first bukkake and will receive ?75 per guy that attends and the event will last no longer than an hour.
Would you be at all interested?
Thanks
*****
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The client that asked has met me a couple of times, once at his place and the second for a coffee, I trust that his interest is genuine. The only reason I've not done one before is that I've not had the interest, or I've not had enough notice for it xx
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My plan of safety would be having at least 2 guys I've met before and trust - one in particular that would have no problem keeping an eye on condoms and chucking guys out that attempted to push my limits.
I look young and easy to push but I've got a lot of life experience behind me and have no issues with telling someone when I'm not comfortable etc. I've shocked a couple guys who have tried to push bareback and didn't expect me to react the way I did xx
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sounds like an amazingly bad idea to 'trust' clients.......never ever trust clients! these guys are not you're friends :FF I run my own gangbangs with my best friend and the only person I trust with condoms is myself
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sounds like an amazingly bad idea to 'trust' clients.......never ever trust clients! these guys are not you're friends :FF I run my own gangbangs with my best friend and the only person I trust with condoms is myself
Exactly, even the best regulars have been known to turn bad and a group situation like this is likely to increase that chance. Clients are exactly that, they are clients not friends and not someone you should be trusting to keep you safe in a situation like a bukkake.
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My plan of safety would be having at least 2 guys I've met before and trust
No no no no no. Aside from the fact that you shouldn't ever be putting your trust in a client, you would be massively blurring the lines between business and personal. If you're going to do this, you need to hire someone.