"I am not ready to settle down and I need to see other men."

As well as being a version of the truth, it's possible he would be ok with this - there are several people here in open relationships - in which case you're not being unfaithful and he's aware of the STI issue. If that's the case, I don't think you would need to tell him that there is cash involved.

I agree with the others, but I'd also point out that nobody needs to become a prostitute to make money - millions of people are in debt and they're not all bunging up Adultwork profiles. There are other ways to manage debt and if you're only entering the industry because of this I don't think it's worth losing a relationship over - we have threads on here with all sorts of good information for people with money problems.

Apart from anything else, you can't assume that you'll make the money you need - times are hard for a lot of ladies and if you read through some threads there are people barely getting one or two bookings a week in some instances, which I doubt would even amount to minimum wage. I would have a thorough read through some more discussions before doing anything rash, anyway .

You sound young... Tell him that your young and want a single summer!

"I am not ready to settle down and I need to see other men."

As well as being a version of the truth, it's possible he would be ok with this - there are several people here in open relationships - in which case you're not being unfaithful and he's aware of the STI issue. If that's the case, I don't think you would need to tell him that there is cash involved.

Or just tell your bf money is more important than the relationship bye. I am staight up with people no point feeling guilty as our choice should be some thing proud of.

Thanks for everyone's quick responses. He's going away this summer to work and will only be visiting every so often. I will probably end it at the end of the summer. And you're right, I'm quite young, so I do want to make the most of my life right now.
Thanks again!

Just a thought Lillie, but why wait till the end of the summer to finish it, when, if you finish it now (that's if you really want to finish it) then you will have a summer boyfriend free and can enjoy yourself in anyway you want throughout the summer without any of the restrictions of thinking "oh he is coming back on xxx a date" I cant do that. 

I gave up work for a guy and two years later we broke up and here I am again! I lost all my regulars, found myself a tiny bit out of shape (nothing a couple of months in the gym can't fix though) and considerably poorer than I would have been.

In my case he knew what I did and then over a period of time basically held it over me like he wouldn't continue the relationship if I didn't give it up, which I did and I think that was instrumental to us breaking up actually because he liked the thrill of the chase and it was too easy for him in the end. Very sad but I wouldn't give it up for a man ever again AND I would NEVER tell someone what I did because even if they act like they don't care, I reckon its hard for a man to bear.

So I know this is pretty much the opposite of what you are wanting to do (to break up with him). I guess what I am trying to say is maybe you could just keep working and not tell him?

i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, he found out from my laptop in the first month.
it was very difficult, its never easy, i still feel guilty everytime i meet client. I promised him i will give up when i make enough money, he cant changed my decision but he still love me, we are just like normal couple.

i think if he truly love you, he will accept the way you.