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bookings you absolutely dread...
« on: 05 July 2014, 10:53:17 am »
 I've always wondered what bookings other escorts dread, it can't just be me who sometimes groans at their next booking? What sort of bookings do you guys dread coming around?

I've got a 8 hour daytime booking today 3 till 11, strap ons, joint bath and dinner, just the idea of staying in persona for eight hours tires me out, but he is a lovely guy I've seen before and don't want to let down so I'm not complaining.  I'll probably be answering to my work name only for a week!

What's bookings are you dreading at the moment?

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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #1 on: 05 July 2014, 11:02:39 am »
I don't dread any bookings. If I felt dread at a booking I would not agree to it.

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« Reply #2 on: 05 July 2014, 11:11:55 am »
I'm with Bibi on this one.  If you really dread any kind of bookings you shouldn't be accepting them.

Personally, I never liked bookings of more than two hours (and even that is pushing my patience and tolerance - you wouldn't know I was single would you?) so if someone asked for one I just said I was busy up to a bit before (say 30 mins) and the same at the end.  If they try to get you to squeeze them in I just said I needed preparation time and NO EXCEPTIONS!

Don't do bookings you are not happy with ... It just makes us unhappy and makes the job less appealing.

Only do WHAT YOU WANT TO DO and take anything you think you may dread off your profile .. It makes for an easier and happier life.
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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #3 on: 05 July 2014, 11:31:46 am »
I don't dread any bookings. If I felt dread at a booking I would not agree to it.

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Same here. If I have the slightest reservation I just turn it down or cancel.

Why would anyone do anything different?

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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #4 on: 05 July 2014, 11:58:05 am »
Why would anyone do anything different?

Because they badly need the money and are both capable of and prepared to put up and shut up for a few hours in order to get it? It's just a wild stab in the dark, obviously.

Just because some here may be fortunate enough to be able to turn away work because they don't fancy it, it's extremely na?ve to assume that the same goes for everybody. If I was hungry, broke and/or had a huge bill to pay off (for example) then I'd do precisely the same thing myself provided the punter was clean, respectful and polite. If every booking I ever did was blissful and everything was always picture perfect I wouldn't be charging ?130 an hour to make sure the punter thinks it is.

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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #5 on: 05 July 2014, 12:22:53 pm »
I had to stop seeing a client I wanted to gag in the last few times he visited he was so nice but his touch made me feel so itchy I hated it and his very very tiny penis  that had no head just an entrance area leaked all the time of semen, I used to cover it with a flavoured condom as he asked for me to go down on him, which was near on impossible . I did actually throw up and couldn't take his bookings any longer.  :'(
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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #6 on: 05 July 2014, 01:54:09 pm »
I dread the shy/awkward clients who make having a conversation near on impossible and can't get an erection due to nerves. I have a couple of regulars like that who are punctual, respectful, discreet and always book me twice a month for 2 hours but I never particularly look forward to the bookings.

Also the ones who want to have sex non stop for a long period of time. I much prefer to spend time chatting and giving each other a massage etc before the sex starts.

If I had more savings, less debts and didn't need the money so much then I would be a lot more picky with who my regulars were. But unfortunately as long as they are clean and safe then I don't have much choice other than to see them and put up with these irritations

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« Reply #7 on: 05 July 2014, 04:14:52 pm »
I dread the quiet/dull ones!! They're okay for short bookings but one or two hours is just terrible. I honestly find work fun quite a lot of the time, but clients who are very dull or very very quiet really make me struggle to even act like I'm not exasperated and I feel so guilty for not rocking their world with a big grin.
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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #8 on: 05 July 2014, 04:38:51 pm »
There is one who ravishes me (literally shaking) but when he kisses me it's so urgent like that his front teeth bash mine and it's quite painful. They bashed twice last time and it's annoying me now as my teeth felt so sensitive thereafter. (Would think his would too ???) The 2nd time I did mention it laughingly and he apologised bless im but the rest of the booking is good.

With another one, the whole booking is nice but I dread the kissing also as it's very slobbery but he books 2 hours and kissing is only intermittent. If it was for long periods I would put cotton wool in my mouth!

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« Reply #9 on: 05 July 2014, 05:26:17 pm »
If someone rings to book and I feel I dread the booking I make my excuses and refuse the booking and would not see them ever again as I end up being physically sick and shaking when I have that feeling of dread.  This job is hard enough without having a feeling of dread take over.  I know as in the beginning I did bookings I dreaded and I ended up having to take months off to get my head back together as I ended up starting to hate work as well as myself.

I know sometimes we may have financial reasons for taking a booking we normally wouldn't.  Sometimes we need to work regardless of how we feel and in that case I would say relax as much as possible before hand and the next day spend the day pampering yourself

However I think dread is the wrong word here as I don't think you are so much dreading it but more worried about what to do for all that time and trying to stay in sexy fantasy persona for so long.  Dreading something is very different to worrying about it.
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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #10 on: 05 July 2014, 05:49:49 pm »
I dread any booking that's longer than an hour..
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« Reply #11 on: 05 July 2014, 08:32:45 pm »
The bookings I usually dread are those who are really nice, clean and polite and some of them are regulars . . . . . . . . but they are those guys who always take absolutely AGES to finish and it's like forcing teeth trying to get them to cum. Some are rock hard the whole time but can't finish, and others are up and down up and down. I hate it - it's so tiring and frenzied and I am always worrying about them going over time versus actually having to end the booking. I also have a couple of regulars who always ask to cum twice in a half hour booking but they overestimate their prowess and they never can finish the second time - it's like half an hour of constant wanking/oral a high pace.

However like Amy said, I have financial goals to work for, and I can't really just turn down a polite, not-too-disrespectful, and clean client.


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« Reply #12 on: 06 July 2014, 09:06:23 pm »
I got one I dread well two .... But equally they are regulars ... And if I have been quiet I have to make my self do them ... Both chaos are clean polite .. Punctual ... But
Number 1 .... I have him
In my phone as the " suffocater" he kisses me with his mouth wide open around my mouth ! Trivial but makes me want to gag .. There's no way I could do longer than an hour ... Yuck
Number 2 ... The licker .... Wants to have oral on me for an hour ... An hour of stubble on my bean is a killer .... He thinks I'm turned on but thinking I'm now getting so sore .... God and guess what ..... Tomorrow I have them both ... Lucky lucky me haha but I'm thinking of the ?????s every second ! HAha xx

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« Reply #13 on: 06 July 2014, 10:21:13 pm »
2 days ago I had the strangest client in 4 and a half years of escorting.
First of all, he pissed me off with loads of questions about why I do this, where Im from, how I spend my money, etc etc, I was so close to send him away  :FF

After 10 minutes of continuous talking, he asked me when his timing is starting? I almost had a break down  :FF

Finally, I got him on the bed, started to give him oral, he kept moving so I knew he was about to cum, I stopped, kissed his chest a  bit (he didnt want to kiss me, thanks God- turned  his head away when I greeted him at the entrance), then he asked me to lie down and just kept touching my body but in some very odd way, almost annoying.
Then I manage to pop a condom on and made him cum, then another 10 minutes of talking (he booked for 30 minutes lol).

He started to get dressed so slow, I think he did it on purpose. In fact Im sure of that. So I said thanks God when he left 10 minutes past his time and blocked his number straight away  :FF

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Re: bookings you absolutely dread...
« Reply #14 on: 06 July 2014, 11:50:58 pm »
I'm started to dread 2 hour bookings with first-time clients! The only good bookings I've had that were longer than an hour and a half and were with a first time client, the guy originally booked for an hour or an hour and a half and was having such a good time he wanted to extend. I had the MOST boring client tonight for 2 hours I almost fell asleep.