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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: trashbaby on 09 January 2016, 11:17:58 am
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Hi all,
My question today is - do you charge extra when there's more than one guy?
I have had an enquiry about a MMF threesome. The guys contacted me through SA and want a potentially ongoing arrangement where I meet them two or three times a month.
Assuming that they are genuine (which I know is probably a long shot, hah), I have no idea what I should be charging them. Although I would meet them for drinks etc beforehand and do all of the usual SA getting-to-know-you theatre etc it feels as though it is a potentially more dangerous situation, what with there being two of them and one of me. And aside from the obvious heightened safety issues, it would also be a lot harder work for me physically than with one bloke. I feel as though I should be charging them more, but i have no idea what the 'done thing' is with this sort of booking. Although as a 'sugar baby' I don't necessarily have a set hourly rate, in my head I don't want to take less than the equivalent of ?200/hr for a 'shag date' with just one guy. I do outcalls to hotels only.
Any advice is welcomed :) and please forgive my ignorance, I am very new. My first client is next week.
Thank you ladies (and gents) :-*
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accidental double post, sorry!
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Hi Poppy,
I know that usually there is a range of opinions on here, and that normally there is some flexibility about what you might choose to charge.
However I would say that MMF threesomes are absolutely not one of these situations - there's no way you should charge 2 guys the same as if it was just one!! Like you say, the risk of physical harm to you is greater should they choose to turn nasty plus it's twice the work. I feel you should absolutely be charging more than your normal "single guy" rate.
For me personally, I charge double - so they would each be paying my full hourly rate. I do this because they are both receiving a full service, plus the added thrill of a threesome which is normally considered a bit of a "treat" or special experience! So in those circumstances I feel the double charge is fair.
I also feel that if you don't charge extra for more men, then where does it end? If you charge ?100 for an hour, that means that he can bring along 19 mates and they can all pay a fiver each surely. I wouldn't want to leave myself open to that sort of situation.
I think that even ladies that specialise in group sex and parties for many men still charge a fixed (if lower) rate per person, meaning that at the end of the night they have still received far more than their normal hourly rate for one 1 to 1 client booking.
Good luck :)
Hadley Xxx
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This is brill advice, thanks so much Hadley. Yes I was thinking probably double the rate seeing as they are paying for time rather than the act itself. I'd be happy to knock a few quid off later down the line if it did become a regular thing. But until then it just feels too risky to settle for less than that.
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Yes but if it's "risky" do you want to do a booking like this at all? I wouldnt want to do a booking with 2 men at once for all the money in the world, but that's just me.
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Yes but if it's "risky" do you want to do a booking like this at all? I wouldnt want to do a booking with 2 men at once for all the money in the world, but that's just me.
I would like to do it, I think with the right clients it could be fun and very lucrative. But yes I do have my reservations and I will spend time weighing it all up.
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I do find it can be fun too. I actually enjoy MMF and group bookings. However I want to make sure I am paid fairly for the service I am providing, and not being taken advantage of (which is something I would personally feel if I saw 2 men for half price each.)
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I suspect this is either TW or newbie-hunting and best avoided - dangling imaginary future bookings is classic behaviour - but...
A search for 'threesome' will find several other threads on this. One thing it would be very useful for you to know is what they expect from the booking? Are they going to spend time being sexual with each other, for example, whether via 'forced bisexuality' or not, or are they expecting a two hour spitroast or something in between, like effectively two 'one man and one voyeur' bookings? You can then price accordingly.
Although I would meet them for drinks etc beforehand and do all of the usual SA getting-to-know-you theatre etc
.. which is charged for?
Although as a 'sugar baby' I don't necessarily have a set hourly rate, in my head I don't want to take less than the equivalent of ?200/hr for a 'shag date' with just one guy.
Hooray for having boundaries and a minimum price.
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I suspect this is either TW or newbie-hunting and best avoided - dangling imaginary future bookings is classic behaviour - but...
A search for 'threesome' will find several other threads on this. One thing it would be very useful for you to know is what they expect from the booking? Are they going to spend time being sexual with each other, for example, whether via 'forced bisexuality' or not, or are they expecting a two hour spitroast or something in between, like effectively two 'one man and one voyeur' bookings? You can then price accordingly.
Although I would meet them for drinks etc beforehand and do all of the usual SA getting-to-know-you theatre etc
.. which is charged for?
Although as a 'sugar baby' I don't necessarily have a set hourly rate, in my head I don't want to take less than the equivalent of ?200/hr for a 'shag date' with just one guy.
Hooray for having boundaries and a minimum price.
Thank you Ian, yes I will find out exactly what it is they're after. From what I've been told already it seems as though I'll be shared between them and there won't be any activity from them with each other, but I will obviously find out more before booking them. They're not really dangling the promise of a booking as such, this is quite standard on SA to have the email ping pong for a bit. The guys are *really* determined to not be reminded that they are in fact booking a sex worker and paying for sex, so there's a lot of dancing about ::) I have a friend who has been using SA for years with great success and she's given me lots of advice on how to deal with them, if they're timewasters I'll soon know about it :)
And no I certainly won't be meeting them without insisting that my 'expenses' are covered ;)