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samcas

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Booking for a FFM appointment
« on: 04 October 2017, 08:27:55 pm »
I have had FFM on my likes on AW for years - but never any interest or enquiries - never mind a booking. I'm best described as bi curious and have only done sexual things with a woman twice before - and when drunk

Today, out of the blue, a guy who I have seen 5 times has asked if he can bring his wife on his next booking and that she fancies me and wants to be involved in the session beyond watching.

Any advice in terms of what I should do and how I control what happens. What I don't want is to be penetrated with the same condom he has used with her. Although I provide very adventurous services for men, I'm quite hesitant about what I do with a woman. My only sexual experiences with women was mutual masturbation which I enjoyed (when drunk). I'm a bit worried that she will want oral and I don't want to do that.

Having advertised I do it, I feel a bit of a fraud now being unsure.

How do others get on with MFF bookings and are they easy to control boundary wise???

I'm thinking of double normal rate - is this realsitic?

Sammy

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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #1 on: 04 October 2017, 08:51:03 pm »
A search will come up with a number of tips, but #1 is speak to her beforehand. Especially with your boundaries.
 
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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #2 on: 04 October 2017, 08:54:50 pm »
my experience so it is better to have many advice!
not same condom...change it!
normally i do oral to him and to her and viceversa
touching her and him

you can fix your limits

double rate...uhmmmm i do ?50 more than my usual rate

this is me, so as is a regular maybe you know if he is going to spend more...
normally to me this kind of meeting are more easy than 1 to 1
more fun! more light! more exciting! you should have fun! xxxx


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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #3 on: 04 October 2017, 08:56:18 pm »
Just explain to him that you are open to the ffm but you don't have lots of experience, tell him the things you are happy to do and not to do, better still talk to her about this. You need to treat her the same as anyone else as she is still a client who is paying you and you have boundaries and things you are comfortable doing and not.

it's up to them to still book you or not for it and there is no pressure on you  :)
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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #4 on: 04 October 2017, 10:13:02 pm »
I find couple bookings easier and more fun than solo male bookings. Although they can feel a little daunting...
In my experience, they have run quite smoothly with no pressure to da anything that any of us don't feel comfortable with.  No boundaries have ever been pushed.

Before the booking takes place I discuss on the phone what their expectations are ... their does and don't.. and will let them know what I am happy doing.  When they arrive I will have a quick chat and will ask again how they would like the booking to run. This clarifies we are all on the same wave length.

In regards to giving her oral, I don't think this will be an issue, you can just kiss her inner thighs whilst playing with her and avoid using your mouth.  A couple of the females who have booked with me didn't even get fully undressed they stayed in their body suits.  I think they were quite neverous and were really happy to do mainly kissing and have a sensual experience.

I ask the girls to bring their toys to use on them... this takes away the pressure of you giving her oral and worrying about finger insertion etc. 

I charge ?50 extra.

« Last Edit: 04 October 2017, 10:14:35 pm by Iloveginandtonic »

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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #5 on: 06 October 2017, 02:34:20 pm »
I would just be honest and say you arent ready to go down on a woman but (if you wanted to) happy to receive etc.they probably wont mind at all. I LOVE couples bookings :)
A client of mine brings his gf and she loves to watch me suck him and occasionally strokes my body etc but no more than that.

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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #6 on: 06 October 2017, 05:16:03 pm »
I charge the same for couples as solo men as I love these bookings.

Speak to her on the phone beforehand so you can set everyone's expectations. Be clear about piv sex needing a new condom if he switches.
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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #7 on: 07 October 2017, 07:39:40 am »
I would imagine if he has sex with both of you, he would need to wash himself thoroughly in between, because its not just his cock with condom that would be in contact with the genital area, (balls come into contact) so it would be wise to get him in the shower before he transits to whoever next.

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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #8 on: 07 October 2017, 05:59:32 pm »
Thanks for everyones advice. I have now spoken to the woman and we have agreed boundaries - what she wants to do is quite acceptable to me - so booking made and accepted. Sammy

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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #9 on: 07 October 2017, 06:30:17 pm »
Hope you enjoy! I love couple bookings, hope you have a great time :)
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Re: Booking for a FFM appointment
« Reply #10 on: 08 October 2017, 04:18:47 pm »
The booking took place this morning - quite enjoyable and mildly kinky. The couple in question had not had sex together for a long time - she had changed from bi to what she described as a frustrated lesbian that loved her husband but had never been with a woman. Seeing me together let them both enjoy their sexuality without guilt or jealousy. I enjoyed it because it allowed me to explore my bi side. Even my fear of giving O to a woman was overcome. The kinky bit was the husband getting A whilst I gave is wife O - the best sexual act I have ever experienced. I can recommend couples bookings.